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wanderlust

Re-introducing myself

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I used to be active in early 2012 when I was in my first year of university. I've been on-and-off since then, mainly because I'm busy with other parts of my life, but a lot of it was simply because I didn't want to think about being a virgin all the time. 

 

Wandering over to this site again was probably prompted by my 18-year-old roommate lamenting over how this 19-year-old boy she knew was still a virgin. She was scandalized. I feigned a little surprise with her and went back to my phone. I don't know anyone else in my real life who is waiting, which is understandable because 99% of my friends are not religious, are very liberal, and fit the stereotypes of typical college students. They assume I've had sex because they know that I've had boys stay the night. I am not ashamed that I'm a virgin--the contrary, really, as it's something that I'm very proud of because I've had many opportunities to lose it--but I don't like discussing my decision with people who aren't doing the same. At the risk of sounding like a preteen Avril Lavigne, no one really understands, you know? 

 

I wish I had a universally-accepted reason as to why I'm a virgin, but I don't. I'm not a religious person--not for lack of faith--it's just that I'm not sure what I am yet. I believe in God, but under what religious umbrella? It would be easier to tell people if I were very religious because then they would be more understanding. I'm waiting simply because I believe sex is the most intimate and beautiful experience that I will ever have, and why would I ever share that with more than one person? I want only one man to know the curves of my body. I want love. Commitment. 

 

Anyways, I won't be posting any obvious descriptors about myself in the (unlikely) case someone from my real life sees this site. I would love to post a photo to seem more like a real person, but I can't. If we get close on this site, we can become Facebook friends :)

 

Until then,

 

C

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Get on OKCupid, and put in the opposite of your credentials and "age 28" in the search. That is what they will become.... You made the right choice.

I don't know for sure that sex will be intimate, but it may very well be enjoyable. It is quite popular on Craigslist, and has several sorts of Meetup groups that I haven't looked-into. Rave reviews...

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Hi Wanderlust! Nice to meet you indeed. I'm very new to the site, but in a lot of ways you remind me of myself. Thanks for sharing!

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Hi Wanderlust! Cool name. Welcome back? Haha you make some good points. See ya 'round!

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WanderLust, that is a beautiful reason to wait until marriage and remain a virgin.  I wish it were easier and more acceptable in today's cultural norms without having to pin a religion.

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