Sophie

Alcohol/Drinking

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I don't drink, I just don't feel a need to...My Dad used to drink whenever he was upset and seeing how it affected him made me realize there were better ways to deal with your feelings.

That, and getting smashed doesn't seem fun to me. XP

The only drink I've ever met that I enjoyied is a margarita, and that's only if it's fruit-falvored with a sugar rim. >w<

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Honestly, having thought things over, I can't automatically rule out dating a girl who drank. I suppose it would have to do with how much 'into it' she was. If she was basically an addict, than I can see that causing things to end. However, if she were merely doing that on and off and had no problem with putting it aside, for herself and her own reasons, not to please me, than I'd see things as workable.

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I'm 22 and I still haven't had my first real drink yet. My mom and sister are social drinkers, so I had my first sips from them this year. I don't usually do things unless the benefits outweigh the potential consequences.

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Never drank and will never start 

Relatives always try to get me to drink at parties or weddings but I always said no and proud that I am a non drinker and non smoker

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I heard of this Straight Edge movement. What is it.

Its basically a lifestyle of abstaining from drugs, alcohol, tobacco and premarital sex.

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Looks like I might be part of that group. I never heard of in England because I was raised in non smoking family. My dad used to be a light drinker at parties and weddings when I was little but now stopped due to his beer belly and the set a good example for me.

Its basically a lifestyle of abstaining from drugs, alcohol, tobacco and premarital sex.

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There are probably not many girls who follow the movement

Its basically a lifestyle of abstaining from drugs, alcohol, tobacco and premarital sex.

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There are probably not many girls who follow the movement

Sociologists say that one reason that women have had a longer lifespan than men is because they were less likely to share in bad social behaviors such as smoking, drinking, etc. Recently, however that lifespan gap is closing in recent times because women are much more likely to take on those same bad behaviors that they used to refrain from. 

 

The American Lung Association states that 18.3% of women in the US smoked while 23.1% of men smoked in a 2008 study. When it comes to drinking, 25.2% of women have completely abstained from drinking their entire life. While only 14.6% of men said the same according to the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. 

 

So, while we may be closing in the gap. Women are still more likely to abstain from these type of things. 

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Thank you very much @NicoleNova for the interesting figures. There may be hope me let. Like you said, there is someone out there for me. It just I see a lot more tobacco advertising and alcohol advertising in the UK. Both tobacco and alcohol advertising has been banned since 1985.

 

According to the Office of National Statistic in the UK, 1 in 5 adults over 18 are smokes and there has been an increase in underage drinking due to the pricing and special offers. Smoking has been unchanged since 2010 when the smoking ban was introduced.

 

Article about the latest anti drink drive campaign 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2338000/Shocking-anti-drink-driving-campaign-scares-pub-goers-simulating-car-crash-complete-fake-blood-toilet-mirror.html

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJDsH64sqNY&feature=youtu.be

All UK government PIF (also called PSA) can be seen at http://think.direct.gov.uk/

public information films are from NHS Smokfree www.NHS.uk

 

The famous fatty cigarette pif warning about blockage in arteries 

 

http://youtu.be/cDAN7Oi62e0

 

an anti drink driving campaign ad shown at Christmas time

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwHoOJazEMQ

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People automatically think you are strange  because you never drank a sip of alcohol or smoked anything. I have several relatives at parties say"just one glass" but luckily I am driving so I can't drink. I never see the reason or desire to drink and live life like that. 

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C'mon dude. These posts about how miserable you're becoming aren't helping you. You're the only one that can change things. Get up early, do some pushups/situps, and apply for jobs like a maniac.

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Sorry for complainting. I am a pessimist.

Yes I workout in the morning and evening. Do get up early and apply for jobs but still getting a lot of no's

C'mon dude. These posts about how miserable you're becoming aren't helping you. You're the only one that can change things. Get up early, do some pushups/situps, and apply for jobs like a maniac.

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Every since I came to the states I have become more depressed and just hate living here. This forum is making me even worse

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Every since I came to the states I have become more depressed and just hate living here. This forum is making me even worse

Then leave the forum if its making you worse, no one is making you stay.

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Its just fun to stay see how people hate on my comments.

Then leave the forum if its making you worse, no one is making you stay.

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Its just fun to stay see how people hate on my comments.

It’s not fun for everyone else, there are people who are way worse off than you are and don’t complain as much. 

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Sorry, I never was like this situation in UK. There is always benefits and jobs but cold weather

It’s not fun for everyone else, there are people who are way worse off than you are and don’t complain as much.

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Sorry, I never was like this situation in UK. There is always benefits and jobs but cold weather

Have you ever considered trying to fix things yourself? In a month and a half you have posted almost 3 times what I have in more than half a year. From your posts and your activity on this site I can deduce that you are always online, or gaming, or doing something less then conducive to fixing this situation of yours.

Another tip, no one really cares if you watch porn. Most people on this site will tell you it's bad, most guys you meet will tell you it's fine. The only people who care if you watch porn are the ladies, and that's a fixable problem to them if it's a problem at all (some don't mind). Just watch it or don't watch it. Stop going on about how you prefer amateurs one moment, only to tell everyone about how you've cut back the next and won't be watching in anymore in the next post.

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Its just fun to stay see how people hate on my comments.

 

And that is why you will not be posting here anymore. Goodbye and don't let the door hit you on your way out.

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Never drank and don't even like the smell of alcohol because it makes me think of chemistry class but if I am at a party I say I'm driving and ask for non alcoholic beverage

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Just watched World series game on fox and saw a Budweiser commercial.  I know they are sponsors but the advert may encourage more drinking at the ball park

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I have recently been wanting to find out more about the faith of Islam and the more I find out the more it makes sense. Like refraining from drinking. On my way home tonight I saw two men fighting outside a pub and one got knocked to the ground, obviously drunk. No one seemed to care. I wonder if the example was set for me not to drink I would have wanted to do this. I hardly drink at it is and I think you feel better in your body for it too.

 

Does anyone think its important to abstain from alcohol, health benefits aside just seeing what it does to society or that its too easy just to go along with what everyone else does to fit it instead of standing back and thinking what am I actually doing to my body.

 

Appreciate any views maybe even from Muslims

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