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  1. I am 29 ambitious passionate confident, I have big goals for my life, i am a Christian man, I am a virgin man by choice, I have had experiences with women in the past but never had sex, I can explain reasons why never sex later, I am open to discuss anything regarding myself for a woman who is seriously interested, I would like to talk first to see if we are mutually interested and eventually meet, I can provide my email and share pics if interested thanks
  2. Just curious, but how many of your parents or family members know that you are a virgin or WTM? I'm not sure if this question has been asked before and I certainly don't feel like going through pages of topics just to find it. But I was curious how many of you have freely told your parents/family members about your decision to wait? Me personally, I have never told anyone outside maybe a handful of people that I'm a virgin. No one in my family knows either. I was kind of ashamed of it when I was younger due to peer pressure, but as I got older I realized that the only power people will ever have over me, is that which I give them. That being said, I still have a really hard time being around family when everyone is either married or has children. Sometimes I feel pressured by my family to have children and settle down. I feel like if I told them they would look at me funny, maybe even differently from now on. And I feel awkward enough as it is whenever they ask me if i'm dating anyone or when am I going to bring a girl home to meet them? I don't even want to imagine my parents trying to explain the 'birds and bees' to me at the age of 29. I guess in a way I would kind of feel like a disappointment to them, which I know isn't true. I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way or similarly. And to those of you who have told family members about your decision to wait, how did you do so? And what were their reactions when you told them? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Jorge
  3. Hi there everyone I hope you are all keeping well and are willing to share your experiences to the above question. The question to what your family members and friends think about your decision to WTM has been on my mind for some time, so I finally thought I would ask it. When answering, could you tell me and people who are reading this thread if you're from a religious background; whether your parents were waiters; whether your siblings or friends are waiters; whether in the environment around you, waiting is quite normal; what your family's and friends' reactions were when you told them; are family members and friends supportive/understanding? ... And anything else you can think of! I think it would be very interesting to learn about other people's experiences with this.
  4. What is the family background of the waiters? Most of them seem to have good intentions of marriage and family.
  5. problems

    Okay so I will need your wise advice for this it's kind of personal... So somebody close to me in my family has what I would call a problem with alcohol, I mean she drinks so much every night or even in the morning(sometimes even at 7 am!). Of course she takes weight and everybody noticed her problem. It does bother me (and not only me) because firstly I don't like to see her like that, then I just can't stand her when she is like that(don't want to see her, to hear her talk, nothing!!)... You probably gonna tell me to talk to her but me and my sisters did and it hurt her soo bad she even cried, she said it was her only rest and that she never humiliated us by falling or being drunk in a party, that she was only like that at home (she is always there except when she works). My problem is in 2 months my twin and I are moving out in an other country to study(if God is willing to),she is going to be alone in the house,I'm afraid she will go stronger into "her thing" moreover she has a weak health, doesn't have friend... I don't know what to do...I'm lost and I do not want to lose her....what would you do if you were in that situation?
  6. Hello again everybody! I just wanted to know if you have support in your decision? Does everybody know where you stand on the topic of premarital sex? For me, my parents don't really care either way, as long as we're 'safe'. Phillip's parents believe in waiting though, and they like/respect that we are planning on waiting. They've been a good support team that we can look to for guidance. None of my co-workers really know, and my friends don't really ask about those things. What about you guys?
  7. Hey everyone! I'm sure this topic has been raised in the past, but I'm here posting about it because it's becoming more prevalent in my life. Lately, my sister has been stubbornly lecturing me about how my decision to WTM is a horrible idea, and that not having sex or co-habiting before marriage is stupid. She claims that no matter how much you try, if you're not sexually compatible with your partner then it's not going to work out. I'm not, in any way, influenced by her opinions, because I'm confident in my decisions. Regardless, what do you guys have to say about this? What are your family-related WTM experiences?
  8. Hey guys! This is a website I just discovered all about Natural Family Planning. Well, I myself am really looking forward to learning NFP and using it once I get married, and I know that there are others on here who've said they're interested in the subject, so I thought this would be useful: It's a fairly new website, but it's already posted a ton of good articles (in the "Consider" section) about contraception and NFP. Lots of facts and figures, which I know I'll be borrowing...Plus, you'll see from reading some of the articles that it's promoting waiting till marriage too... xxx