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  1. A very confused "Christian" teenager

    Hello and thank you for taking time to read this, it means something just to think that someone else saw it. So, as of a few months now, there's been times where I just question my Christianity in general. I'm not too fond of church, I've never been really fond of reading the bible either but I do want to love God. Most times I feel like I'm close to Him and that our relationship is getting better and then other times.... Well, not so much. Sometimes it seems like I run into roadblocks in everything from school to family to love to friendships to college and career choices and just about everything in between. I guess my question is, is it terrible that I'm not extremely religious? Is it still possible to have a relationship with God and not necessarily go to church? Also, is this whole feeling like God is a silent parent who just doesn't want me to do anything just part of being a teen and learning the ropes? Your answers are all greatly appreciated.

    I'm not sure if this is a thread already, if so feel free to direct me there! Anyway, I know this is a vague question, but I don't know how else to phrase it. What do men want? (The good men, not men who are looking just for sex, kind of know what they want). WHAT DO YOU WANT. I can't figure it out. What is it that makes a guy decide to approach a girl? What makes a guy notice a girl? Because I've heard almost every answer in the book and nothing seems to work. I have years of experience in being single and entirely unapproached, ever, and I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. Send help. Assistance needed. And I do recognize that this sounds like a whiny thread, but I really am curious about how the male brain functions. Don't be afraid to be honest. I need to know for the sake of my sanity, or else I'm going to join a convent and quit. Thanks a bunch