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About Olivier

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  1. Holy. There is no one like You,

    There is none beside You,

    Open up my eyes in wonder.

  2. Truth is You know what tomorrow brings,

    There's not a day ahead You have not seen.

  3. I want to die

    So sorry you are going through this. I am available if you would like to talk.
  4. Set a fire down in my soul,

    That I can't contain, that I can't control,

    I want more of You, God

    I want more of You, God

  5. You're God of the hills and valleys.

  6. When I see that cross, I see freedom
    When I see that grave, I'll see Jesus
    And from death to life, I will sing Your praise

  7. Yes, you could liken it to that. Very valid point. You/a wife would have every reason to be hurt at that. Among other things, it's degrading. It reminds me of a saying. I'm paraphrasing but: For a husband, when everything is right inside the bedroom, everything will be right outside the bedroom. For a wife, when everything is right outside the bedroom, everything will be right inside the bedroom. It's over simplifying but you get the point. If Eva had a better attitude towards sex (intercourse and/or other things) and prioritized it more , I like to think Zac's communication would improve (notice that i focused on attitude and priority. It's one thing to be unable to have sex and it's another thing to not even care that you can't). Likewise, If Zac had better communication, I like to think Eva's attitude towards sex would improve. The problem is that it's a catch 22. One of them has to attempt to break the cycle, or they can try together. Yes, it's vulnerable, humbling, and scary. However, it's the only way to stop the seeds of bitterness from growing.
  8. Oh okay. Thanks for clarifying. That changes things. I'm tempted to say it is "durable" but a year is a long time. Also, there's a difference between not wanting to and physically being unable to. There's a lot of grey area in this scenario. For the record though, no intercourse for a year is still a big deal. IMHO, it is in fact "severe". Yes, life happens, but it's nothing to be non-chalant about. Just my opinion.
  9. When You speak dreams and reality collide,

    Your word rewrites my destiny,

    My life finds a new beginning,

    Cause You are, You are my energy.

  10. Wow. If and when you get engaged, please let your fiance known you feel this way? I promise I'm not being rude, it's just an honest request.
  11. To the One who has rescued my soul,

    To the One who has welcomed me home,

    To the One who is Savior of all,

    I sing forever.

  12. Friendly FYI: I know of this guy and read his book a while ago. His description of Hell contradicts the Bible.
  13. Appreciate it, Buster. I admire you and Vince as well!
  14. Am I virgin or not?

    Short answer: 2. Longer answer: Trying, I mean no disrespect but it really gets to me when someone asks for an opinion and proceeds to argue when they dont get the answer/opinion they want. You argued with me over P.M. and you're doing it again here. I agree with Poisson's post 110%. I'm surprised that you've had such experiences yet are so devastated when you meet a woman who's had 2 (!!) partners. The current girl you're seeing, 5 partners, seems comparable to you, give or take. TBH, it seems hypocritical on your part. Sorry if that came off blunt, but you asked for opinions. Please try to listen to what people are telling you. I'd hate for you to miss out on any more quality women because of this.