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  1. Wow, this is so encouraging. I salute you BigMat and know that the angels are cheering you on. #Staying faithful holding on the truth, breaking all ordinances add doing what is right# -singleandforChrist-
  2. I have been thinking about this, I am single 30 female and believe in waiting because Christ found me. I am not a virgin as well. My concern is to those that are like me or relate with me. Are you waiting because you are single? would you let go of a promising relationship because your partner cannot wait? Where do you stand?
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    You are welcome here
  4. Hello, WTM

    You are welcome Thormist, guess you are not new anymore. It is interesting in the first place you were not a virgin by choice but God protected you from the poison and thorns of this world. You are blessed to be a blessing. Reminds me of Cyrus Isaiah 45
  5. I'm glad to have found this site!

    You are welcome rotorgirl, we are just blessed to know and act on the truth of what is right and you are one of the chosen few to live as the light and the salt of this world. Salt is always little that changes the whole taste of the meal, no wonder you see a few waiters around you and a flicker of light also gives hope and sense of direction for a thousand miles, you are the light which cannot be quenched by darkness. Be blessed
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    Hi Seabutterfly, you are on a right track, and congs for taking this brave decision to wait given the forces and loud otherwise voices in your generation. God is faithful and has already put out His righteous right hand which is also victorious to pick you up from any pitfall.
  7. Thank you for sharing, we women really desire to be great women (wives, sisters, daughters) to the men in our lives only that we want them to respond to our ways and understand us without bending our side to understand them and deal with them as they are. Reason we have men now who want to be seen as woman, indeed God's creation is perfect we should not try to alter it by making men be like women. Be blessed
  8. Finding someone from church

    I smiled a bit reading the ending because I have been at Christian mingle sometime back and what you experienced there can be the same story in church. All I can say is keep praying and believing, keep your ears and eyes open.
  9. The book"Sacred sex"

    This book must be carefully written, it feels right. When couples search one another for their utmost sexual fulfillment they find it but when they consistently look outside especially pornography, because there is comparison on the scene, it becomes difficult.
  10. Awakening things you shared Dave, I like the responses given by both Geraldine and Adam - I salute you all for standing for the truth. Dave the truth stems from the Word of God, this is what builds us and I agree your concerns are sounding but these are the voices so loud that are pulling many away from the truth. these people facing these things were at some point innocent, but these voices sounded louder than the truth and those cases you see are the pits the evil one has placed them. I know that God tests us to great lengths and some places may be discomforting but 1 Corinthians 10: 13 No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it. There is this saying by one of God;s generals, "Trust and Obey God, leave the consequences to Him". As we stand for what is true, we trust He is working for us and will even in our marriages, I want to stop here because much has been covered by the 2. I always meditate on this verse when the world is drumming its ways louder. Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. Our lives are and will be different from what the world has painted.
  11. I partially agree with you, Yes you have a choice but not on who to love but who to get married to, love is a feeling, an emotion and it can fade, developed or die. I believe it comes from within which is deeper than what i can decide (choice). That deep end is of course built by things you mentioned like beliefs and others which in most cases help us fall for the right person but this does not mean you cannot love purely someone outside your list.
  12. wow, different conclusions, desires, dreams and hopes from different people.. I agree with every one from their perspective. Personally I would not like to marry someone with kids but there is something we are overlooking here.. There is love in the picture, any one here who is looking for some one to marry even though they do not love them? well i guess many will say no, higher percentage and this question is answered by love. If there is love, you and I will marry anyone with or without a child, lame or right, blind or otherwise.. When you get to love someone, you are headed for happiness and complete joy no matter who they are.
  13. Hi Janet, you are welcome, we are all sinners and any who says otherwise is a liar.. we are all washed and cleansed, made pure by the blood of Christ so no judgement or checking of past, the future is waiting for a new you and the decisions you take now determine the passage of the person you want to be and specially the person you want to give your husband as a wife
  14. For every thing God in His wisdom asked us not to do, He was and is protecting us, not only waiting but even in other aspects of life because He knows the consequences. When you get married, you get naked with each other, completely exposing yourself, imagine how much you would be nothing after the multiple sexual partners ripping off a spiritual piece of you each time and now what have you saved up for marriage? I pity them whom this mystery has not been revealed to and at the same time pray for them. Be blessed and do not lose your guard