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  1. Dating

    I would also feel way too overwhelmed! I just couldn't keep up with it. It takes a lot of time and effort to get to know someone, and having to do that with multiple people at one time would be way to stressful and time-consuming. I'd much rather date one person at a time until I find someone that I would be willing the spend the rest of my life with. Even more importantly, I myself would never want to date a man that was dating other women at the same time. Why should I allow myself to date many men at the same time, when I personally wouldn't want a guy that I am interested in to do the same thing? That'd be a double standard right there. As you also mentioned in your post, I wouldn't feel like I was being pursued because he saw something special in me! ​Now, I don't know about other people, but if I were to date a guy that is dating other girls at the same as me, I would most likely be thinking a lot about the dates that he is going on with these other women (e.g. do they connect better? Does he find her more attractive than he finds me? Am I really his third or fourth option in case the other girls don't work out?) Don't think I could handle that.
  2. How do you intend to meet your spouse?

    I don't really intend on meeting my future husband in any particular way. I guess I'm not really one to go out searching for someone. I'd rather just wait and see if I stumble upon a good person that I might be able to share the rest of my life with one day. =)
  3. Hello there

    Welcome! :-)
  4. Agnostic and Waiting

    Hi everyone! I am new here . Just thought I'd share with you all how I found out about this awesome website. For the past few months I had been feeling a little low because, as a recent convert to agnosticism, I had found it difficult finding other agnostics or atheists that shared my desire to wait to have sex until marriage. However, yesterday evening I stumbled upon an article titled: "7 Reasons Why Atheists Wait until Marriage", an article which lead me to this website!!!! I was so thrilled to find out that there is a whole community out there (which includes some agnostics and atheists) that desire to wait to have sex until marriage like I do! So excited to begin reading all of the interesting posts here on this site!
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  6. Dating a Divorcé

    Thank you so much, HeWhoWaits! This has truly helped me gain more perspective. I will definitely be re-reading this post over the next few days...it has already been a tremendous help!
  7. Dating a Divorcé

    Excuse my typos too haha. I didn't read over this before posting
  8. Driving

    I honestly don't mind taking turns. To be fair though, my husband will probably want to drive most of the time seeing as though I am lacking enormously in the good-driving skills department.
  9. Vegan Style and beautiful women

    Hey everyone, Just wanted to let you guys know about an AMAZING app that I found for vegans. It's called "Vegan Amino." It has been so helpful to me so far throughout my journey as a vegan. It's a great way to connect with like-minded individuals, and it is also a great way to find new, scrumptious vegan recipes! You guys should really go check it out! You can find me on there as well. My username is Philosophermit .
  10. Vegan Style and beautiful women

    Hi, I know this is a super late response, but I just HAD to say...I'm a vegan too! :)