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  1. My Virginity as a Punchline

    Sometimes i wonder whatever happened to love?...As i read all the experiences of the people around you i keep asking God why is this happening...i feel hurt and sorry for the majority of the people around us. It saddens me to see so many of my friends who go through the same thing. I guess like you said...there must be a purpose for the minorities like us and God will reveal that to us in due time. Thanks for sharing childoftheonetrueking.
  2. Guys with long eye lashes

    Thanks you guys for all your opinions. Sorry i was so late to reply but i guess long eye lashes generally isn't a problem other than making the opposite sex a little jealous..
  3. Actually very hard, but it's the same for a girl looking to find a waiter as well. It's just not the thing in today's society anymore. But the one advice i could give you is you attract who you are. Some girls who have your views are going to find you more attractive than other girls. The only problem is these girls are so few that it's going to be hard finding one. Just don't give up and wait. My dad's told me this a million times....Good things come to those who wait... You'll find her soon DHZ.
  4. Hi

    Hey Alyssa, I do understand how you feel. I've felt so alone sometimes because of my beliefs but i always used to think i couldn't be the only who thinks like this. I found this site and i realized that i'm not alone. We are a minority but if we stick together, we wouldn't ever be discouraged by what the majorities say and do. Whenever you feel alone, get on this site and we'll give you all the support you need. Hope to see more of you alyssa.
  5. Hey Kristin, it's nice to meet you and welcome to the site. Like you said we are all outsiders and minorities. I'm so glad you found us. Hope to see more of you on here.
  6. What You Want vs. God's Will

    Hey XD, In my opinion, if it affects you now, then her past is surely going to affect you after you get married as well. I understand how you feel, cause you and her are simply not in the same situation. A lot of people are gonna tell you the past is past and all that but no one's going to understand how you truly feel. If your not able to get over her past then that is a sign that you should move on cause it might have problems when you start dating again or get married. Secondly Lets say you and your ex decide to get married. When you have kids i guess you'll want to teach them the same values as you which is to wait till marriage right? Well it would be hard to do that cause your wife didn't practice it. I'm not saying that she's at fault here but i'm just saying that it would be difficult to explain your stance on WTM to your kids cause both of you'll dint practice it....i hope you understand what i mean... I've always believed God gives you what you need rather than what you want. So in your case what i would say is look deep down and ask God to give you the wisdom to choose what you have to do. She's not the only girl. There might be someone else out there that God has for you so keep that in mind and make a decision... Good luck XD
  7. How do you pray?

    Saw this topic and thought id give my opinion as well... ...When i pray i just speak from deep down my heart. I feel that way we really mean every word we say when we pray to our Father. There is no time and place or anything. Anytime i feel like praying or calling out to God, i do so cause i know his spirit's always there. According to me prayer can be even a simple Thank-you Lord or Im so grateful Lord. Prayer to me is more like talking to a spirit who i know is always by my side...
  8. Hi everyone

    Hey, Madupriya, great to know there are waiters in india too. It's nice to meet you. Indians on this site are extremely rare, so it's great to know im not alone. ..Im from india too, from the far south actually. Where are you from?
  9. Hi!

    Hey Roni, Welcome to the site. I'm sure you'll love it here.
  10. Hello! New here...

    Welcome to the site Cre8ive...Hope to catch up with you on chat...
  11. Random Thoughts

    ok so i was at an arab food store and there was a persian/middle eastern girl just staring at me. we locked eyes many times. What was that??
  12. Hi! I'm new...

    Welcome to the site William. Im so glad you found this site. I completely agree with what you said about always doing the easy thing rather than the right thing. So many people i know do tell me same thing. They always do the easy thing and then justify to me why it's right and try to convince me to do the same. I guess it's cause deep down they have this feeling that maybe the harder thing was the right to do...
  13. Do guys put girls in the friend zone?

    I did have a friend in college who i put into my "friend-zone" so to say. At first she was amazing, we'd talk quite a lot on the phone and message a lot. But later on i realized she had different views from me. She wasn't a waiter and she had different intentions. I realized that she wanted to have a casual fling with me. I was angry and disappointed but im glad i didn't go further. That's when i lost my feelings for her and she was just a friend in my eyes after that. So yes, in my opinion i think a guy does put a girl in a friend-zone. Now that statement doesn't hold good if a guy is only into having sex with any girl he sees or finds attractive..
  14. Porn : need some help to figth against it ?

    Im going to be as honest as i can here and i hope i dont get judged for it. I used to watch porn from a very young age and i have to admit it was an addiction. I tried so much to stop and i couldnt. But i realized that just a year ago that it's having a negative effect on me as well as it goes completely against my christian beliefs. I have stopped watching any form of porn for the last one year and it's great. my body feels so much better, i dont keep feeling guilty and in general i feel so much more sensitive in every part of my body than before. Porn really messes up your penis and genitals (its natural functioning)...Im serious!!. I guess i am proof that is really affects a guys mind in many ways. Even my perception of women has changed from negative to positive after i stopped For any guy or girl struggling with this addiction, i know how you feel and my advice is to stop watching porn completely by keeping targets. Force yourself not to watch it at any cost. At first it gets very frustrating but you learn self control like never before. Trust me it got very bad for me but if i could stop it completely so can you.
  15. One of the biggest challenges i have faced while waiting was my constant hormonal urge. I guess it's different for every guy, but iv'e had a really high sex drive as long as i can remember and sometimes it drives me nuts. Waiting in today's world is so much harder because the majority of the people don't wait and you start to doubt if you'll ever find someone who waits as well. I guess some people think it's not worth to wait cause no one's waiting, thus they give up. Secondly, for me personally waiting is so hard because people have over sexualized everything in the world today from cars to household goods. Look at any form of media and you'll see what i'm talking about. And because of all this the temptation is so much more.