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  1. Hi, we have the same birthday. I can't remember if I have mentioned that before. 

  2. Starship Troopers (1997)
  3. Is your pupil not completely circular?

  4. I think it is beautiful when people of different religions work out a way to be together. I know a woman who was raised as both muslim and catholic. She attended catholic school and study in mosque.
  5. What are you reading?

  6. How do you pronounce your username SAMAYE? How did you choose it? I can't decide how to think or read it to myself when I see it. SAM-AY, SAM-EYE, SAMA-YE, SA-MAY, IDK.

  7. Random Thoughts

    I've always wanted to change my name but I can't decide on a name. I can take my would be wife's last name when I get married and then change my first name.
  8. Does anyone know of other forums, sites, or apps for waiters? Are there any ones for dating? I looked and this is the only one I could find and I am glad I did, I just wish waiting was more popular in our time.
  9. The Positive Thread

    Two atoms are walking along. One of them says:“Oh, no, I think I lost an electron.”“Are you sure?”“Yes, I’m positive.”
  10. In Need of Support & Playing Games

    I have similar thoughts about society and deeply resent being teased by others. It would be tough not having support from from your family and friends. I am 29 and I never sought support from anyone for fear of being teased or dismissed. I had other aspects of life to focus on and until recently did I feel like I needed support which led me to this forum. Perhaps the freedom our sex driven society enjoys lets people who are very sexually active be promiscuous and maybe pressures others to also be that way. I was hoping there were more people who wait until marriage but it doesn't seem to be the zeitgeist at the moment. Though waiting until marriage might be making a comeback and until then I let people assume what they will about my sex life or lack there of, it doesn't really come up and they assume I am like everyone else. I am getting older so I have some pride in waiting but also fear of loneliness.
  11. It wouldn't be ideal, but would I doom myself to be forever alone?
  12. Higher education...

    Not all people have the ability to go through college but if they are working towards achieving an important goal like raising a family, rising in rank or job status, or progressing as an artist or activist, then that is also as worthwhile and valid. An education offers more stability and opportunities and could be more helpful to achieve different endeavors.
  13. Why don't guys ask women out in church?

    I think sometimes that it might be that since church is small community there is much closer competition amongst males. I also think that the whole church would know right away of the new courting which kind of bothers me because I am more of a private person. It also might be that we can't find a girl there that we want at church, but it is an ideal place to start.
  14. What offends you?

    There is no specific wording and often it is just kidding around and making fun which is okay with me. I am not comfortable with being spoken to in a condescending or belittling manner especially by an uneducated person.
  15. Maybe when both sexes are younger we do that, but as we become more mature we understand more about the many types of people there are and some standout more than others whether physically or mentally.
  16. Virgin Therapists: What would you do?

    I personally wouldn't mind a career woman and I also consider what it would be like if roles were reversed. The project was only temporary and other situations may arise where a spouse has to go away or is sick for a period. It sounds like he was being too needy and didn't look at the big picture and I think he would later regret acting out and not going to the event. I would definitely go, seeing as how important it is to my spouse.
  17. Are you shy?

    I am, but if I know I am amongst like minded people and/or in a non-judgemental environment then I am more comfortable. I do have specifics on my ideal girlfriends but the short answer is that she be a respectable person.
  18. No. That is not selfish it is perfectly just to want someone who can match the love and respect you have for yourself.
  19. I know a dude that slept around and did end up marrying a virgin and says he got "lucky". He is a coworker of mine and it GRILLS me when he boasts and pushes other dudes to the same, to get laid as much as possible before marriage. He says it is good advice and on top of that he says he could still get a lot of women if he weren't married and critizes others for not taking advantage of being single.

    1. OneLovelyBabe


      cool! I don't know if I've met anyone with the same exact birthday before. what time were you born ? haha

    2. Z3R03Z


      Lol! I was probably born at lunch time, I'm always snacking. It my say on my birth certificate along with which hospital. I know I was born in Orange County but I will have to do some research to find more details. We will turn 30 this year and I am glad that we that in common to share.

    3. OneLovelyBabe


      hahaha for sure. now that I think about it I think I met a customer at my old job with the same birthday. I was born around night time to early am hours (2-3 am) but I don't really know my mom never gave me a specific time. haha