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  1. My OCD varies. When it comes to my room, car, phone, firearms, video games, vaccation plans, or any plans the OCD is pretty bad. Although I cope well. I dont have any problems dating someone who has OCD, as long as it doesn't affect me in a negitive way.  

  2. Well just thought I would let you guys and gals know that I am back. I've been working an insane amount of hours and have had numerous issues I needed to sort out. To make a long story short I'm feeling much and I'm back. Sorry about leaving so unexpectedly and for such a long time without warning.

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  3. How much are you comfortable with your parter disclosing to others in regard to your marital sex life or intimate body parts? 


    Do you think you would feel a desire to brag about your partner's sexual prowess or features to confidants? Share tales amongs married friends/relatives?


    Would you be okay with your partner doing the above even if they only sharing positive aspects?



    I would be comfortable with my partner disclosing things in regard to sex life or intimate body parts.

    I would never brag about my partners prowess or features without her permission. I dont know how I would feel if my spouse was bragging about me or wanted me to brag about her. I'm also unsure about the sharing of positive aspects. I think I would be mainly opposed just because what we have, other people would not need to know about.     

  4. I'm sorry you've been questioned and treated badly because of your beliefs. Its hard to cope withe everyone telling you that what you beliefs are wrong and dated. I've had the same problem. Your not the only one who feels like the one has not come along, just about everyone on this site has felt what your feeling in some way, shape, or form. I'm sure all of us have thought about abandoning our belifes too. Keep searching. Out of the how ever many billions of the people in the world there has to be someone for all of us. We just need to never stop beliving. We will all find the one, we will all have happy lifetime marriages, and you will too. :)

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  5. 1)Look I know a lot of us are trying to put a lot of importance on waiting but are also destroying our own chances of finding someone and being happy by thinking this way?

    2)If we loved someone but because we place such an importance on waiting, isn't it possible we may miss out on someone who would make us happy even if she didn't wait?

    3)Why are we defining ourselves by this?

    4)For those of you who are atheists... you get one shot at everything right?


    I that your concerns are very prominant and well thought out.


    I dont belive I'm destroying my chances of finding someone to be happy with by thinking this way. I belive I am increaseing my chances of finding someone to be happy with. Simply because I dont hold my belifs against others. I dont care weather a girl waited or not. However I do belive there should be some kind of good or special reasoning behind the man or men she did sleep with. I can understand if the girl truely belived that the guy or guys were good and thought she truely loved them or if their spouse was killed in the military. But where I come from the ressons why most women sleep with men are materialistic and sedimental. For example I've met girls sleep with guys because they're hot. I've met girls sleep with guys just because they heard from someone else that their sex was good. I've met girls who sleep with guys for drugs, alchohol, parties, and or money. I've met girls whove slept with guys for revenge. I've even met girls who sleep with guys just because they feel like it. I dont define myself as a waiter just because I dont like non virgins. I just want to find that one good girl. I define myself as a waiter because I belive in the value of chasity.

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  6. I am waiting until marriage because its the right thing to do, plain and simple. I've seen guys use women for sport and it sickens me. Then when the "typical" guy does decide to stay with someone, that someone is usually some nice girl who ends up being corrupted and is treated like a peice of meat by their so called "man". I've had a couple girls who have come to me with emotional problems because they cant even trust their own man to confort them and tell them everything is going to be alright. I mean its pretty bad when I know more about guy's girlfriends than they do. Not to mention many failed relationships takes a toll on peoples mental health. I've seen decent fun loving church girls evolve into single mother prostitutes with drug problems and happy go lucky gentlemen evolve into cruel merciless cold hearted shells because they get to a point where they've been around so many bad attitudes that it corrupts their mentality. The point is sex with multiple partners makes for bad relationships and bad mental health. The "test drive theroy" to me, is just a excuse used by players to get what they want and nothing more. Another thing too, any one who refers to a girl or guy as any inanement object is a scumb bag. Erasercrumbs defined the "test drive" theroy perfectly. People are much more complex. If we as a people was to do what ever feels good at the time being and only that. We would be nothing more than feral cave dwellers. But people are not like that. Any great act in history was commited to better other's lives. As far as STDs go, yeah they're cureable. Syphilis, herpies, ghonerrea, all cureable, as long as you take your pills every five hours on the dot for the rest of your life. Have you actually seen what these STDs do to people. Look it up on google images. I would rather be mustard gassed in WW1 than to catch that stuff. Although you should not base your relationship belifs just on not catching STDs. These are my thoughts and explanations of my thoughts.      

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  7. Everyone is different. Its best to exercise how you want too. I found, for me, changing my diet is out of the question. I like food to much. Last year I was quite over weight. I was about 235lbs and could barely get up to the top of my stairs. When I started working at a hardware store I did alot of walking and ate very unhealthy food such as noodle cups and bacon jerky. After a month I had actually found that I lost weight. (20lbs) Then someone I thought was "the one" came into the picture. I was motivated to take up weight lifting and a weights class. When I started out quite excessively (for my body at the time). I did 25 curls (15lbs), 25 butterflys (15lbs), and planked for five minutes. I started feeling alot better and more confident. I gradually over time keprt adding reps, weights and other workouts. By time the school year ended, I was doing 50 curls (25lbs), 50 butterflys (25lbs), 50 sit ups, planking for 15 minutes at a time, maxing 200 on bench press, and 50 push ups in 30 mins every day accept for Sat on top of work. I also found my favorite band Rammestein. Today, about a half year later I am doing 100 curls (40lbs), 100 butterflys (40lbs), 100 birds (40lbs), 100 sit ups, 100 crunchs, 100 situps, and 200 inclined pushups in a 30 to 45 minut time period on top of work every day accept Wed and Sat while listening to my favorite band which helped alot to increase work load. Through all that I had the diet of Burger King for lunch for a year, microwave lunches for a half year, and what ever I wanted for dinner for the year and a half which is usually pretty unhealthy. I am now toned and on the verge of becoming ripped. In conclusion I found motivation, I built a plan, then I ran with it. Now again what works for me may not work for you. We are all different. Oh yeah, then I found out that "the one" was only interested in a physical relationship and wanted me along with her boyfriend in secretcy. Of course I stopped Acknowleging her exsistance. Then I joined this site. I may of lost one form of motivation but finding this site and finding that there's still decent people out there has givin me a new form of motivation. So thanks. :)        

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  8. Scociety has gone blind to true beauty. True beauty is knowing that spouses are willing to love their significant other not because of looks but because they can care about them in a way no one else can.




    When they're across the line, their spouse will walk the line. When they're cold their spouse will be their warmth.  When they're broken, their spouse is there to put the peices back together. 


    My future wife will know that I'll never go blind. I will always love her no matter what. Our happiness would be all the beauty I would ever need. So because of this, I've never really thought about this topic in great depth.


    Although, if getting the cosmetic surgery is what makes her happy, I guess I would be happy to. If she is willing to go drasticly out of her way to make me happy, how could I be mad or sad for that matter. I'd probally do the same for her.  I would however try to talk her out of it if there was health risks involved. But hopefuly we will never need to resort to that. :)   


    P.S.- Sorry if I'm coming off to lovey dovey or unrealistic, but this is the truth.

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