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About ellegabrielle

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  1. Why do guys do this?...

    Hmm you have imagination... this is quite a scenario, never thought it like that. Thanks for your feedback
  2. Why do guys do this?...

    I'm glad you solved it with your partner. Communication is key. Like I said, if it's so, I wouldn't like to be their girlfriend. I believe they are not in love if they do this. I understand that sometimes the women expose themselves but I believe the men can make an effort like your partner did and have eyes only for their girlfriends. Thanks for your feedback!
  3. Why do guys do this?...

    No problem, I was not sure so that's why I wanted to make it clear.
  4. Why do guys do this?...

    Thank you very much for sharing your opinions. They are things to consider. Yes, I still don't know if it's a local thing or not. It didn't happen to me while I was outside the country so it might be something in the upbringing. Thanks again!
  5. Why do guys do this?...

    Yes, it certainly might be. I didn't know about this saying or study. "The findings are also supported by an earlier study from Oklahoma State University which found that 90 per cent of single women were interested in a man they believed was taken, while a mere 59 per cent wanted him when told he was single." - Yet this makes me raise my eyebrow. I like them single, thank you. Do not desire to destroy relationships or family. I think some women watch too much soap operas... Eh, don't mind me. Thanks for your feedback!
  6. Why do guys do this?...

    Wow that's some hard honest truth there. Just to make sure, I mention again, I dress normally even to the point of trying to keep men's thoughts pure towards me. (though to be honest it depends on the woman only to a point) Thank you for your feedback. Makes a lot of sense.
  7. Why do guys do this?...

    Pure coincidence, I know. Thanks for the advice, I guess? ... Though I think I will start to wear sunglasses instead. Don't ask.
  8. Why do guys do this?...

    Ego boost... hmm. That's what I thought also. I don't worry, it's just something on my mind I really wanted to ask because I've seen it a few times and it was bugging me. Thank you very much for your answer Vince God bless!
  9. Why do guys do this?...

    Hello dear male fellow waiters. I have a question for you... When I am walking on the street, sometimes, I see guys walking with their girlfriends (or so it seems) insistently looking at me or being aware of my presence. ( I dress normally) I don't encourage their attitude but then I see another thing happen. They suddenly pull their girlfriends and kiss them or grab them closer to them and I honestly don't understand this gesture. I know you wouldn't be in this position since you are all waiters but you have male friends and talk to them. Do you understand this attitude? I honestly feel bad for their girlfriends. They deserve a better treatment. Anyway, do you know of this attitude? Or maybe it's something locally. I am very curious, psychologically what's happening... Thank you if you can answer my curiosity. All the best
  10. Waiting and Loneliness

    Hello! Thank you very much @Aparajita for your feedback. Our stories are somehow similar. I was also in a toxic relationship that ended a year ago and have been going through what you are describing. I'm also more on the introverted part although I'm as well a social person. I work right now and attending teaching courses and planning to continue my studies. So we have quite few in common. I think I should start working out regularly and I do find my peace and am in my element when I am with friends from church. TV or serials are not my choice but I can understand and respect yours. Treating myself from time to time yes works for me too. I wish you all the best in your new work setting. Home decor is cool. I just moved recently and am thinking of aranging my room in a personal way... thank you very much for your encouragement! I'm sure the same for you. God bless you!
  11. Waiting and Loneliness

    I understand... thank you for your feedback @mewaiting. I hope someday soon you will meet that special person you are waiting for.
  12. Waiting and Loneliness

    It wasn't a rant, thank you for sharing your viewpoint Vince! I agree with you in everything you said, especially liked the part when you said that this desire can become an idol and we should indeed be careful about that. Nothing in our lives or ourselves should take God's deserved first place. And if He is first, we shouldn't worry about the other things because He knows what we need (better than us) and will be faithful to give it to us because He loves us and wants our best. Thanks again and God bless you!
  13. Hello waiting world! I don't know if the topic of loneliness has been discussed before but I personally felt the need to bring it up. Unevitably us being waiters also means that we have to face a lot of time being on our own. Even though this world is rich and diverse enough to not have time to be lonely, feelings like this slip inevitably. I am curious how you personally deal with this when it comes up and what is your to go solution in this situation. This has been on my mind even though I'm quite busy at the time and don't have too much alone/lonely time. Any ideas? Thanks! Curious for your responses.
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