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About Javier

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  • Birthday 06/28/1993

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  1. IDOL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8A3navp9CM

    Yes! we do exist! Personally, my story is not extraordinary. I was born and raised in Spain, my mom is spanish and my dad is american. Faith has always been an integral part of my family and I was raised in a strong catholic environment. Sex was always talked about as something good and special, as something worth waiting for, an intrinsical and special bonding experience in marriage. It's true that most of my friends that grew up in the same environment do not wtm, but as years passed by it made more and more sense to me; to wait for that special someone. I think seeing my older brothers wtm successfully has also been an encouraging factor for me. Of course it can get very hard and lonely at times, but I still think it's very worth it. It also helps me to think that somewhere out there my future wife might also be struggling as she still waits for me, so I keep going for her.
  3. Always encouraging to see famous people practicing and talking about it too
  4. The Importance of Attraction

    Well...that´s not very classy..., and the one who´s not going to receive any interest is you actually, with your deceit. She just asked for the truth and you were unwilling to give an answer. And yes, we´re all sinners, but Jesus is actually the one that we should try to emulate, even though we may fall short. Just because David and Peter sinned that doesn´t give us an excuse to feel good about ourselves because " hey, we´re never going to be perfect, they sinned too". We are called to a higher standard. Plus, what David and Peter both have in common is that they both repented and changed their ways, their life. We are called to holiness each and everyday, not to mediocrity and complacency.
  5. Hola Javier! ... Been a while 

  6. JOKES

  7. Welcome MissVasalisa ! I'm Javier , I'm 22 and I'm from Spain. Glad you found us and remember that we're here too support you in your decision!
  8. Very inspiring movies

    Patch Adams https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZqGA1ldvYE Bella https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZjbiRBCsC7U
  9. Fictional Crush?

    She is from the TV series " The Walking Dead". I'm not really a fan of the show, but I am a fan of hers
  10. It is definitely not popular right now in Spain. We have always been a traditionally catholic country, but in the last decades it is quickly fading away. There is a crisis of values and as a result the youth is rebelling against old standards, such as waiting. Young people who wait are right now a rare sight and looked by others as religious fanatics. It is sad, but it is the trend right now in most of Europe.
  11. Fictional Crush?

  12. I wouldn't want my wife to have to go through this. If she tells me that she´s a virgin, then I trust her, I don´t need proof. She would have to trust in my word too. But that's how I would like my marriage to be ( built on trust). Asking for a certificate would be very disrespectful to her and her word in my opinion. But hey! If she wants to get it because she's proud of herself and wants to share it, then ok. But I don't need to see it and wouldn't really be comfortable with showcasing it like its a trophy.
  13. I'm lost

    Amazing response Géraldine. I don´t think you can say it any better than that. Respect always comes first. DivaDreamer: I also hope and pray for your happiness whatever it is the decision you make.
  14. Wow! Thanks for sharing! That was such an incredible testimony! Porn is so degrading to women and people in general, society needs to wake up! and men especially we need to step up, every click contributes to human suffering , but some people still think it´s harmless. Porn only feeds lust of the eyes and of the flesh ; which are never satisfied. It enslaves people to their own cravings. Plus it changes the way we view women. It was amazing when she talked about how the Lord works in mysterious ways and about how her husband was the first man to talk to her in the eyes and not the body. She couldn't even love herself during that dark period of her life. It is also really sad when she says that 90% of them are on drugs in order to cope. It really ruins people. I found this video also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb3bJSqcFw0 (The story is amazing but really hard to hear, thank God she is doing ok now) We need to keep on spreading the truth.
  15. http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/07/06/video-outspoken-christian-qb-russell-wilson-drops-big-sex-related-admission-during-church-service/