I know everyone has their own thoughts and opinions on this. But what makes you a virgin?
To me its if you have had not had sexual intercourse (meaning oral and touching is permitted and anything entering your lady parts that is a man's part is a no no) now before someone strikes me down for saying that Iâ€™m asking becauseâ€¦
The main stream society (people who have sex) will think if you only have done oral you are still a virgin.
But some virgins would say you are not.
So the thin line between it is confusing. The problem Iâ€™m having is the guys who want to wait for marriage are either fine with my past or think im a grade a wild child, granted I could use a swear word here, (when my experience is very little I have only had 2 boyfriends) and the guys who have sex think im a prude.
I just need thoughts from others on this.