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  1. Saying Hello!

    Welcome to the site! I was 16 when I made the decision to wait. As no one talks much about sex before marriage anymore, especially in church. They are afraid to hurt peoples feelings.
  2. Hello

    Welcome Spy! I have family in Ohio. Great place to visit.
  3. I'd be okay with a very very small wedding. I am a quite person and I hate being the center of attention. I hate talking in from of people. If it were up to me i'd want our parents, grandparents (if possible, as mine are both gone), siblings and closest friends for the wedding party. I still want the dress, suit, and the maid of honor and best man. Id have a good sized reception and invite everyone to that. I think people spend way too much on weddings when it can be simple and still be pretty.
  4. Very inspiring movies

    October Baby is a great movie https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G7oTLVevO5g Grace Unplugged https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jhU1bUeNF3c Forever Strong (I've watched this enough that I've lost count) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=u3C2HvQ8KFE Catching Faith https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kCUQPnHhEIE New Hope https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KcQ_3fBxvrs Loving the Bad Man https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HVpeIgdnnTI These are all on netflix
  5. Social Media

    Has anyone heard of the new social media site called tsu? I've not figured it all out yet, but this site is suppose to pay you for the content you post and share. It's invite only, I see someone's invite link on twitter and joined a few days ago. I'm not to sure about it yet. Just curious if anyone has joined it and what you thought about it... if you want to join here is my invite link. http://tsu.co/xHollyJ
  6. Hello fellow waiters :)

    Welcome to the site!
  7. What is your ethnicity/national identity?

    On my mom's side it's Native American there was a full-blooded Cherokee Indian, who married one of my mom's ancestors we couldn't research it too much because she didn't have a last name. She was born in the last 1800's. I want to say she would have been like a great great great grandma to me, but im not 100% sure where she fits in.. on my dad's side his ancestors are mostly from Wales. Not sure how we ended up in America on his side of the family....
  8. My parents were not waiters, my dad was 29 and my mom was 32. My parents met in December moved in together in march, married in May.... I was born in December 4 weeks early. BUT.... I think either way would be nice. It depends on how long ive know my husband and how much time we have already spent together before we were married. I think if it was a short engagement than I'd want to wait a year, but if it was a long engagement than I think a baby early on would be ok.
  9. hey im Josh

    Josh, I have a similar backstory. I only told a few of my close friends that I was waiting, they didn't seem to care either way. I've wore a purity ring since I was 17. I have a few girls tell me in high school (class of '11) that i was making a mistake and that i needed to 'live a little'. Needless to say I no longer talk to the same girls i went to high school with. Welcome to the site Holly
  10. Saving your first kiss too?

    I will be 22 in December and Ive never kissed anyone. I like the idea of waiting to kiss but I don't necessarily plan to wait until marriage. I want to be in a long-term and in my mind planing on marring that person before it happens.... I'm not big on PDA. I know you have to have some affection for you will have problems, I would like verbal more so than the physical side of it.
  11. Celebrity Crush?

    Nathan Kress <3 - he played Freddie on iCarly. Tim Tebow Sean Faris- he plays in 'Forever Strong' its on Netflix and he's on Pretty Little Liars the detective following Hanna. Liam Hemsworth- loved The Last Song, and have followed his acting career ever since, minus his problems with Miley Cyrus. Zac Efron - Ive watched every movie he has been in since HSM.minus the paperboy Jesse William - but he's married, he plays Jackson Avery on Greys Anatomy Chris Lowell - He also played on Grey's Anatomy and Private Practice.
  12. GOT warrior name

    "The Deranged Maester" ive never watched this show.
  13. Social Media Accounts!

    Here are mine Twitter: @@xHollyJ instagram: http://instagram.com/xxhollyj
  14. What does your purity ring look like?

    Here is a picture of mine. I've had this one for 3 years. I like wearing it but I have many people ask me if I'm married/engaged.
  15. It Takes a Church

    I watched it. I think its a good idea. Who knows you better than your church? I'm glad she picked who she did, He seemed like a great guy!
  16. Walk To Emmaus Retreat

    Has anyone ever been to the Walk to Emmaus retreat or the the flight or journey. From what I've heard there are all similar. I have the opportunity to go in May, Ive never been, only know a few who have gone. For me I'd go to the Journey to Emmaus since ive never been married. What was your experience like? Would you recommend someone to attend one? Favorite part of the weekend? Why do I need a sponsor? What are they responsible for? Anything else you like to add.. Thanks!!
  17. If you're a Christian...what denomination?

    baptist. i was raised baptist and was baptized when i was 10. We believe age doesn't matter its more of a personal choice rather than a 'have to' my dad was agnostic until he met my mom. and my mom was raised Methodist.
  18. Dating sites?

    There's a deacon at my church found his wife on ChristianDatingForFree.com They are in their mid 60s and have been married for 3 years.
  19. What are your favorite religious verses?

    All are quoted from the NASB (New American Standard Bible) 1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it. John 14:6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me. Isaiah 40:31 Yet those who wait for the Lord Will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary. 1 Timothy 4:12 Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe. Matthew 5:8 “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
  20. Rings on her fingers... What do they mean?

    Not all rings worn on left ring finger mean married/engaged. I wear a purity ring on my left ring finger. I added a picture not sure if it will work or not, if not here's the link for instagram http://instagram.com/p/kaTrAjIZYE/#
  21. New guy wishing to say hello there

    Welcome to the Site Jon!
  22. Hi, I'm Allisha :)

    Welcome to the site!!
  23. For me, I'd tell him the truth. I'd be honest and be up front when that topic to up, and I'd hope he be honest and up front about it also.
  24. This or That!

    Straight... i have curly and you can't do anything with it Bones or CSI
  25. So guess what!?!?!? ;)

    Congrats to you both!!!