yeah-man

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  1. When to Talk About It?

    Thanks for the advice guys, seriously.
  2. When to Talk About It?

    Thanks for the advice guys. I'm leaning towards waiting until we get to know each other better. This isn't something I want to discuss with just anyone. We've had some conversations about our goals in life but this issue is more personal. Leave it for a bit - yeah. Just a little bit. And yes, this is not a conversation I want to force. Still, this conversation must take place before any intimacy enters the picture. I don't want to lead anyone on. I don't feel there is an elephant in the room - but I'll want to make sure we have this conversation before it even darkens my doorstep.
  3. When to Talk About It?

    First, I can't believe this site even exists. Let me get to the point - I have been dating this woman. Our 3rd date was last Sunday. It was simple - we just met at a park and spent about an hour or so talking. I enjoy her company things seem to be going well. When should I tell her that I don't want sex until marriage? There has not been any intimacy - just light hugs when we greet each other or say good-bye. My dilemma is that I don't want to waste her time if this would be a deal-breaker for her. At the same time I want things to grow organically between us. I don't want to rush things with questions about the status of the relationship or where things stand. Things like that "freak chicks out" and that conversation isn't necessary at this point. I also feel that a discussion about me being a "waiter" might corner her or pressure her, and I don't want to do that. I am confident about my decision - I am not a virgin but seven years ago, at age 33-34, I decided after my last "fling" that I had to do what I knew was right, and wait. Waiting has been quite a journey - more the reason why I can't back down from my decision. At this point, I'll wait to see what your responses are and the discussion can flow from there. I posted this to the ladies forum but I also want a guy's perspective. MJ
  4. When to Talk About It?

    First, I can't believe this site even exists. Let me get to the point - I have been dating this woman. Our 3rd date was last Sunday. It was simple - we just met at a park and spent about an hour or so talking. I enjoy her company things seem to be going well. When should I tell her that I don't want sex until marriage? There has not been any intimacy - just light hugs when we greet each other or say good-bye. My dilemma is that I don't want to waste her time if this would be a deal-breaker for her. At the same time I want things to grow organically between us. I don't want to rush things with questions about the status of the relationship or where things stand. Things like that "freak chicks out" and that conversation isn't necessary at this point. I also feel that a discussion about me being a "waiter" might corner her or pressure her, and I don't want to do that. I am confident about my decision - I am not a virgin but seven years ago, at age 33-34, I decided after my last "fling" that I had to do what I knew was right, and wait. Waiting has been quite a journey - more the reason why I can't back down from my decision. At this point, I'll wait to see what your responses are and the discussion can flow from there. I'm gonna post the same discussion to the general discussion/guys forum. Thanks a mil. MJ