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Everything posted by KaiLi

  1. Newbie

    Welcome! I'm glad you joined us!
  2. I think that if you need to change someone you probably shouldn't be with them in the first place lol.
  3. I'm back!

    Hi ya
  4. New Years Resolution

    Anyone know what their resolution will be this coming year?
  5. What is your biggest regret in life?

    I agree, this is my biggest one too.....minus the piano thing.
  6. Introductions

    Welcome! I'm sorry about your past, but glad that you are here.
  7. Random Thoughts

    I love not bowling.
  8. I think that a lot of times you probably don't tell the person you are dating the whole truth, but the truth nonetheless. I mean, there are personal things I wouldn't tell someone until after I know I can trust them and I think for a lot of people this is the case. I also think that a lot of people try to put their best foot forward when the relationship is just starting, but to flat out lie is a different story and I don't think she is right about that... at least I hope she isn't.
  9. To answer the original question: yes, I would date someone who was not a virgin. Before I found this site I didn't think there were any guys who even did wait until marriage for sex, so I have already pretty much accepted the fact that I would end up with a non waiter if I ever got married. Now that I know they are out there and have met some in my everyday life I would obviously prefer someone who waited. However, waiter or not it really depends more on the guys views of sex now and where his heart is.
  10. Being Called M'aam

    Generally I like being called ma'am. I think sounds respectful. It would just depend on who it is coming from. Some random guy in store? Sure! On a date? No way.
  11. Favorite eye colors?

    On guys? Definitely brown!
  12. It seems like so many of my friends who originally wanted to wait have all pretty much changed their minds once they got into college, but when I thought about it there are actually quite a few people I know who have waited until they were married, at least 4. I had a friend who didn't want to have sex until she was married, but ended up not waiting. She eventually got pregnant and after decided she wasn't going to sleep with anyone else until she was married. She is married now and I know for a fact that she and her husband did not sleep together beforehand. So if you count her, that is 5. I also have another friend who I am 95% certain is waiting (along with her boyfriend) and is engaged. So if she makes it the next couple of months that will be 6. All of these people were in their mid to late twenties when they got married and all of them were married within the last year and a half. Those are all the ones that I know of, there might be some older couples I know who waited but I can't say for sure.
  13. Seriously Ladies - How Hard Is Waiting?

    I think we all want this lol, but I do understand your fears. Don't worry, they are out there! As for the lack of sex in marriage, I have heard this as well. I don't think it is because women "don't want sex" but from what I understand sex gets stale, that is, it can get old. But I only hear this from people who have been doing it all and for a long time, so in a lot of ways waiting will should actually help prevent this. But that is just my understanding of it from what people tell me. I am sure that there are women out there who do not enjoy sex, but I don't think it is an absolute in any way.
  14. Is there anyone on here who doesn't want to get married ? I am talking about out of choice, not out of lack of finding a significant other. Also, if you did decided that you never wanted to get married would you still choose to not have sex? I am totally curious!
  15. Modesty

    My question for you guys (and girls if you want to add your thoughts) is about modesty and the way women dress. First some back story. One of my pet peeves with some of my girl friends is that when we go out some of them dress...well to say it bluntly, like sluts. But that in itself isn't what annoys me. The problem is that they dress like that and then when guys looks anywhere but their face they flip out and go on about how disgusting it is. Let me make it abundantly clear, I'm not saying guys have the right to look at girls in that way, just that, in my opinion, if you're going to dress in a way that is hard for anybody not to stare at, you really should not get mad when they do (it just seems unfair). One of my friends brought up the other day how guys always stare at her chest and I pretty much told her that there were ways to avoid that. She agreed but her argument is that she has to dress that way because there are so many other girls who do, so if she doesn't she won't even be seen. So, my questions for you guys is as follows: 1) Do you appreciate girls who are modest (and I don't mean like wearing a potato sack modest. Just not overtly sleazy) ? 2)If you saw a girl who was dressed more modestly and one who was less-than-so which one would you be MOST attracted too (honestly)?
  16. Chivalry: Appreciated or sexist?

    Appreciated...for me at least.
  17. Volunteering Abroad

    Also, ave you ever thought about joining the Peace Corps?
  18. Volunteering Abroad

    That's awesome that you want to do that! I have done long term volunteering abroad at a hospice center for orphans, but it wasn't in Africa. One of my friends went through a volunteer program in Africa with an organization called TCL and she loved it.
  19. Volunteering Abroad

    What field do you want to volunteer in?
  20. Howdy there

    Welcome to the forums!
  21. Ask a Catholic! (i.e, me...)

    Hey Gil, I've read most of it, I started it during break but once school picked up again I never finished it, and I know a lot of people who have read it. I would DEFINITELY recommended it. It's a pretty easy read too. Also, for anyone who would like to learn more about the differences between Catholics and protestants I would highly recommended the movie Common Ground, which features a priest and a protestant pastor who are close friends discuss the differences of the two types of Christianity.
  22. Were are you SINGLES :O

    I think there comes a time where every waiter girl wonders the same thing lol.
  23. I agree with Mstr Josh. There is a big difference between getting married and having a wedding. All a wedding is is a celebration. Some people want it and some dont. There is nothing wrong with that.
  24. (Hopefully) Short Testimony

    Wow what an inspiring testimony! So glad to have you with us!
  25. I would tell them it's my life to waste. No matter how you live someone is going to think you are doing it wrong. There just comes a point where it shouldn't matter if they find it a waste, so long as you think it is right.