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About KaiLi

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  • Birthday 03/08/1991

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  1. Newbie

    Welcome! I'm glad you joined us!
  2. I think that if you need to change someone you probably shouldn't be with them in the first place lol.
  3. I'm back!

    Hi ya
  4. New Years Resolution

    Anyone know what their resolution will be this coming year?
  5. What is your biggest regret in life?

    I agree, this is my biggest one too.....minus the piano thing.
  6. Introductions

    Welcome! I'm sorry about your past, but glad that you are here.
  7. Random Thoughts

    I love not bowling.
  8. I think that a lot of times you probably don't tell the person you are dating the whole truth, but the truth nonetheless. I mean, there are personal things I wouldn't tell someone until after I know I can trust them and I think for a lot of people this is the case. I also think that a lot of people try to put their best foot forward when the relationship is just starting, but to flat out lie is a different story and I don't think she is right about that... at least I hope she isn't.
  9. To answer the original question: yes, I would date someone who was not a virgin. Before I found this site I didn't think there were any guys who even did wait until marriage for sex, so I have already pretty much accepted the fact that I would end up with a non waiter if I ever got married. Now that I know they are out there and have met some in my everyday life I would obviously prefer someone who waited. However, waiter or not it really depends more on the guys views of sex now and where his heart is.
  10. Being Called M'aam

    Generally I like being called ma'am. I think sounds respectful. It would just depend on who it is coming from. Some random guy in store? Sure! On a date? No way.
  11. Favorite eye colors?

    On guys? Definitely brown!
  12. It seems like so many of my friends who originally wanted to wait have all pretty much changed their minds once they got into college, but when I thought about it there are actually quite a few people I know who have waited until they were married, at least 4. I had a friend who didn't want to have sex until she was married, but ended up not waiting. She eventually got pregnant and after decided she wasn't going to sleep with anyone else until she was married. She is married now and I know for a fact that she and her husband did not sleep together beforehand. So if you count her, that is 5. I also have another friend who I am 95% certain is waiting (along with her boyfriend) and is engaged. So if she makes it the next couple of months that will be 6. All of these people were in their mid to late twenties when they got married and all of them were married within the last year and a half. Those are all the ones that I know of, there might be some older couples I know who waited but I can't say for sure.
  13. Seriously Ladies - How Hard Is Waiting?

    I think we all want this lol, but I do understand your fears. Don't worry, they are out there! As for the lack of sex in marriage, I have heard this as well. I don't think it is because women "don't want sex" but from what I understand sex gets stale, that is, it can get old. But I only hear this from people who have been doing it all and for a long time, so in a lot of ways waiting will should actually help prevent this. But that is just my understanding of it from what people tell me. I am sure that there are women out there who do not enjoy sex, but I don't think it is an absolute in any way.
  14. Is there anyone on here who doesn't want to get married ? I am talking about out of choice, not out of lack of finding a significant other. Also, if you did decided that you never wanted to get married would you still choose to not have sex? I am totally curious!
  15. Chivalry: Appreciated or sexist?

    Appreciated...for me at least.