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  1. Also, I hope married sex involves eye contact, because eyes are the windows to your soul. So, your souls are connecting and as your bodies connect. I also hope that there is love and kindness and sincerity in my spouse's face, when we do make love. Since, I'm sentimental, I'll probably say, "I love you" and "You're beautiful" a lot since, I find emotional connection very sexy. But, that's just me though.
  2. Vince! You're a genius! I needed to read this post for sure! Bette, I agree with what most people have said. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about being a virgin. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm a 34 year old virgin and there's nothing wrong with that. I know people shouldn't "slut shame" but they also shouldn't "virgin shame" either. I believe respecting people's personal journeys no matter what's in their past. Last night, I was in a social situation where people were asking me questions about my sexual history. I said, "I'm not comfortable answering those questions." I left it at that. It's up to you when and to what extent you want to be honest about your virginity or waiting till marriage decision. I've found that I have friends who are very supportive of me waiting. I've found that when I've revealed my being a virgin to some people, they literally freak the frack out about it. They visibly look uncomfortable. They get judgemental and sometimes, flat out mean, like they think something's wrong with me. So, I actually pick and choose who I reveal my status with. My best friends are very supportive of me waiting. My acquaintances, I don't tell because I don't feel comfortable telling them. I want to end on a positive note. You'd be surprised who will be supportive of you waiting. So, just trust that you can find friends who will support you. I have a friend who has a promiscuous past and she's very supportive of me waiting and prefers that I wait ironically, lol. I actually think it's the sweetest thing in the world that me waiting is more important to her sometimes, than it is to me. lol. Yeah, good luck to you. Keep waiting! I feel all of us Waiters are doing the right thing!
  3. I am probably older than most of you

    Thanks for sharing. Hi.
  4. Whoops, I suck at embedding videos (lol). Here's links to the videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAbUtrwYETg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
  5. I'd say try to show some compassion towards your boyfriend because how hard porn addiction can be to kick. I also empathize with your hurt over his addiction and his slip ups. Here's two other interesting videos: <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/uAbUtrwYETg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/wSF82AwSDiU" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
  6. Vince, have faith! I see a beautiful wife in your future!
  7. Alcohol??

    I do like the occasional really cold beer. Since, my last name is Scottish and my best friend wants me to get in touch with my Scottish roots, I do drink Scotch sometimes (but only for historical purposes). lol I think socially drinking, responsibly is ok. But, I'm an adult and am of age. I was straight edge until I was 24 years old (i.e. I didn't drink alcohol til I was 24). Then, in my mid to late 20's I started socially drinking when I lived in a Catholic community house where they liked to drink alcohol. (go figure).
  8. I agree with GodsPhysicist. I say either wait until the topic of physical intimacy comes up or wait until the 3rd date to bring it up. I think the first date is too soon to bring it up. In my experience, the first date is more about talking about your favorite books, movies, interests, etc. Intimacy doesn't really come up. I do recommend bringing it up before any commitments to being exclusive are made (i.e. if who you're dating wants to be exclusive/monogamous) then, that way they have all the information before deciding to make a commitment to you. Hope that helps.
  9. Hello everyone!

  10. Hi folks, here's a direct link to my Kickstarter campaign if you wanted to take a look : https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1335851532/geek-loves-punk-comedy-about-a-lesbian-geek-and-he Any contributions would be greatly appreciated. You can give $1 to $1,000,000...you know, in case there's any millionaires on this website.
  11. Kickstarter notified me that someone from this website gave me a pledge. Thank you so much!!!! I also thanked you through Kickstarter!!! Happy Waiting folks!!!
  12. Thanks Vince!!!! You're the best!!! Hugs!!!
  13. Hi folks, Mike posted an article about me which was really kind of him. He's super busy. So, he forgot to include the most important part of the article which was a special youtube video that I made for this website. Essentially, in this video, (in a nutshell), I spend a lot of the video kissing heterosexual people's behinds (lol). So, enjoy!! But, also the video is about having pride in who you are when you decide to wait until marriage!! Enjoy this awesome two minute video and then pat yourself on the back. Here's the link that will take you to youtube: I'm happy to answer any questions that folks might have. Thanks.
  14. Isn't J.R.R. Tolkien basically the Godfather of fantasy?