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About Invincible

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    Video games, shooting guns, computers, technology, eating good food, watching movies.

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    Hey guys, so here's an update: I regret to inform you all that the migration to the new platform isn't working out. It's a long and complicated story, but suffice to say that it doesn't look like this forum will be preserved long term. Sorry guys, I really tried but things just wasn't working out. But we still can rebuild. For all those still interested, please head on over to the new forum that Queen started below. It may not be the same as before but at least it's something.
  2. What is your sexual orientation?

    I'm half-bisexual, as in the half that allows me to produce babies.
  3. Yeah, I have heard people's sex drive changes with age, stress and life in general. Me personally, I have never experience a significant drop of sex drive in my life so far, at least not for a significant amount of time. Essentially, I've always wanted sex real badly. lol. Not saying that won't change in the future, I'm just saying it's unlikely But in terms of a future marriage, I'm not sure if I could be with a woman with little to no sex drive. I would want to find a woman who wants it just as much as I do. Which is a lot. lol.
  4. Hey WTM family, If you're reading this on March 1 or after, you're probably wondering why the site is still here. Well, as it turns out myself and a couple others are in contact with Mike and we are currently working out some sort of deal to keep this forum alive in it's current form in some way or another. I don't know how it will play out yet, but we're working on the details. I also don't want to jump the gun and promise that something will happen for sure at this point. All I can promise for now is that we're working on it. This forum means a lot to me and I know to many of you long time members as well. So as long as there's a chance to keep it running, it's worth fighting for. We'll see if we can even get the chatroom back up and running too. I'll keep you all updated once I have more information so stay tuned. In the mean time, Mike has agreed to keep this forum open until it transitions to a new hosting site . Also, if you want to check out the new Wix forum that Queen set up, here it is:
  5. Getting ghosted

    Yeah, he's definitely ghosting you. He's not following through with made plans and not even making any effort to reschedule. On the surface it may seem like he is respectful of your boundaries and maybe he really is. But the fact that he started acting weird when you refused to go to his room I think is very telling. He wanted to see how far he could get away with physically. You don't invite someone into your hotel room in private just to have coffee. That's not how these things work. He wanted sex. When he realized he wasn't going to get what he wants, at least not as soon as he would like, he probably lost interest and isn't man enough to tell you straight up. You're honestly better off without him, if not because of the not waiting, then because shown he can't be honest with you. Personally, I don't see what's wrong with being upfront about waiting from the very beginning. The wrong person will run off immediately, but is that really a loss? Putting the cards on the table immediately will filter out who's not compatible with you and will spare you the emotional investment if you waited to tell him later. We don't need to wait other people's time and our own by investing in a relationship that isn't going to work anyways. The right person will stick around and admire you for it because he has already made the choice to wait himself.
  6. Thanks Queen. I really appreciate the encouragement. I don't think of myself as better because I am still a virgin. All I'm concerned about are the potential consequences of not waiting in the past that may affect my future relationship. If she has allowed God to heal her past then I would gladly accept her with open arms. I would not consider settling by any means if she is the right woman for me who otherwise didn't wait in the past.
  7. March 2012: Relationship status: Single Virginity status: Virgin WTM status: Always believed in waiting till marriage since I can remember. Today: Relationship Status: Still single Virginity status: Still virgin WTM status: Still strongly believe in WTM if not more so. Still never had a relationship or done anything physical. I always wanted to get married and start my own family. But I've kind of given up hope on that dream at this point in my life. I'm getting up in age, recently turned 35 and the older I get, the less chances of finding someone my age who's still single and waiting. If by some surprise it does happen, I had to come to terms the reality that she will almost assuredly not be a virgin. I'm ultimately okay with that, but for some reason, that bothers me a lot more today than it has in the past. I guess I just hate the feeling of always wondering if she is thinking of the previous guys while intimate.
  8. How is this Site STILL standing?

    Hey everyone. The Facebook group hasn't been made yet. I'll get to it soon. I've just been super busy with a lot of things. Thanks for all your patience. When I create it, I'll announce it here.
  9. How is this Site STILL standing?

    @emily1030 Looks great! I think the contrast works really well so good job. Did you also want to make a second icon for the profile pic? Otherwise we could also use the rings and heart you got here as the profile pic. If we decide to use this design, I might need another copy of this without the words so I have enough white space to crop image evenly for the profile pic.
  10. How is this Site STILL standing?

    @emily1030 I really like this design. It's clean and memorable so great work! I particularly like how the heart is in the middle between both rings. It gives it a message of unifying love. It's possible the heart may come off as feminine to some but I think that's unavoidable because I can't think of any other symbol as universally recognized for love than the heart. Maybe if we make the rings a more masculine color like blue, it could balance it out. But I think the grey background should stay since it provides a good contrast to make the heart (and rings if you change the color) stand out. Otherwise, I personally think the design is great overall unless anyone else has any other suggestions.
  11. How is this Site STILL standing?

    Okay good. I'm sure the topics won't be too hard to figure out. To be honest, I deactivated my FB about a year ago so I am so out of the loop of any site changes. But I will reactivate once we create the group.
  12. How is this Site STILL standing?

    Wow, I thought FB got rid of groups a long time ago. lol But sure, if groups allow topics threads and chat then lets do that instead of a page.
  13. How is this Site STILL standing?

    It does seem like the sign up page is broken. I just tried making a new account and it won't authenticate the security check even though I did it correctly. We can just make the FB page as a stand alone page without informing people of the forums to make things simpler. The newsfeed of the main page can act as threads where people can discuss topics. Like I said, it's not the same feeling as the forums but it's something. I think your graphic design skills will come in handy for the background image of the page and the icon logo. You can create whatever design you want as I'm sure it will look great no matter what. Take as much time as you need. Once you're finished, I'll set up the page and make you a fellow admin.
  14. How is this Site STILL standing?

    Thanks for your guys' confidence in me. Unfortunately, I don't think that will ever happen because Mike is unresponsive. Even if he did pass it on to me, I may not have the time to upkeep everything because I've been pretty busy myself. I only check in every now and then. But at the same time, I am deeply saddened to see this site die off. I've had some really great memories here. I too want to see this place live on and be an inspiration to others who are looking for a like-minded community. I'm just throwing out ideas here. But maybe we can start a Facebook page? I don't think we have one yet. It won't be the same as the forum but at least it's something people can join. I know not everyone has a Facebook, but it's something to think about. If we get enough people on board, maybe we can be admins of the page together? Another idea is doing a podcast. I did a few with Jegsy a while back and those were fun. Maybe we can bring that back.
  15. How is this Site STILL standing?

    Depends on what you mean by "management." As an admin, I can regulate access to forums for members and I can oversee what goes on in threads. But in terms of maintaining the servers and upgrading the software, only Mike can do that. He isn't exactly motivated to act upon these things even if he gets continuously gets pestered. So you're welcome to keep emailing him and hope he does something about it, but I'm not holding my breath.