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It is my observation that relationships that begin in high school rarely extend many years beyond it, usually terminating in college or before it even starts. Therefore, I wouldn't be too concerned about the present relationship. Given how upset you are by the situation, I don't think there is much chance of being happy in this relationship. Despite what society says, you are perfectly entitled to have the feelings and thoughts that you do about the relationship. It is not wrong in the least. A relationship should be mutually beneficial, but it seems that you are not benefiting from it at present.

 I suppose you have to think about what you can accept or not accept in a boyfriend. Either way, it seems suspicious that your boyfriend would publicly display a photo/photos of him and his former girlfriend. At the very least, that is not considerate of him. Him just saying that he 'regretted it' doesn't sound like he really means it either. 

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I cannot offer a lot of help as I know very little on the topic.

However, regarding emotional stability I can highly recommend "7 habits of highly effective people". In short its a very effective book dealing with inward and outward relationships. Helped me, maybe it can be useful for you too.

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I understand your pain, I really do. I feel like I’ve been broken over and over again by my emotions and feelings having to do with relationships. I feel like I can be so chill and relaxed about everything else, but women always have a way of hurting me deeply (intentionally or not). Somehow, by the grace of God I always get through it and feel as good as new.

Right now, I am going through something very similar to what you are. I feel like I’ve found the perfect girl for me (really this time; I was much more careful) but I am absolutely haunted by the sexual things she did with someone else. It has given me so much anxiety and depression, to the point that I feel like I’m having a mental breakdown.

I don’t know if it helps knowing that I’m going through something similar, but I figured I’d at least tell you. I posted my detailed story and my struggle as well. I do hope you are able to find peace. God bless you.

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