No longer fun..... (?)

[Jasmine23 1,605]

Hey ladies and gents....

No offense to our site creator at all.

I've been mostly M.I.A because the site isn't like it used to be in my opinion. I feel bored and like there'ssomething missing. Am I the only one? 

[Amber Elizabeth 873]

You're not the only one. The site would be better if more people posted. 

Doesn't seem like people post as much as they did 2-3 years ago. 

I only constantly visit this site so I can read all the new posts, but since people don't post that much anymore...

Seems this site has been slow for the past year or so. Hopefully it picks up sometime.

[Guest]

It's mostly because of the gossiping that people don't post. You start to realize that this board is pretty cold to most people. In fact there are so many lurkers that you somewhat get scared of what you post. It's hard to be yourself when there is always some other person here who wants to judge you.

['tis the Bearded One 662]

30 minutes ago, Ringer said:

 

It's mostly because of the gossiping that people don't post

 

There's gossip?! 

[Revan 32]

Gossip? I barely talk to anyone here, lol.

 

[Invincible 8,026]

@Jasmine23 It's true, it has become boring around here. It's because I'm no longer posting my crazy and moronic thoughts as much. But I can change that

[Revan 32]

1 minute ago, Invincible said:

@Jasmine23 It's true, it has become boring around here. It's because I'm no longer posting my crazy and moronic thoughts as much. But I can change that

Oh do tell... I bet my insanity is worse than yours, lol.

[Jasmine23 1,605]

Lol well it's not gossip if it's true. 

Vince that would be amazing. You come up with some awesome stuff!

 

[Daz 792]

I was long gone for a long time because I kept trying to make time (and energy) to be social but I just couldn't do it!
And then I came back and, like you said, no one's posting lol. I think a generation of this site have gone off and gotten married and now it's us "young" ones who have to keep it alive =]

[PG1 1,730]

I wasn't around for a while, but I'm back and trying to get involved again.

[Revan 32]

I'll be here as long as I can be.

I'll outlast all of you, lol.

[Guest]

On ‎2‎/‎22‎/‎2017 at 1:25 PM, Ringer said:

It's mostly because of the gossiping that people don't post. You start to realize that this board is pretty cold to most people. In fact there are so many lurkers that you somewhat get scared of what you post. It's hard to be yourself when there is always some other person here who wants to judge you.

I went through that phase a while ago. Then I realized being a white male made me wrong regardless of reason or logic to the masses so I just post and say whatever.  It's very freeing. Especially in the real world. A lot more people think exactly the way I do than I ever thought.

[Slayerofdragon 1,322]

On February 22, 2017 at 2:28 PM, Invincible said:

@Jasmine23 It's true, it has become boring around here. It's because I'm no longer posting my crazy and moronic thoughts as much. But I can change that

I miss your thoughts, lol. 

[Steadfast Madcap 3,216]

I initially joined this site because I was stuck on a sex-crazed college campus, while I was in a LDR with the only person I'd ever kissed. I felt very "other" socially for that reason, so it was really nice to be able to get validation from other people who shared my more traditional views about dating, marriage, and family.

THEN...I graduated and moved much closer to my boyfriend, so that initial reason I joined was no longer an issue in my life, and I kinda stopped posting.  I do lurk, but...sometimes it's just hard to come up with stuff to write about without feeling like I'm repeating one of my other 1,000+ posts here. 

[wny 929]

I think there comes a point where you have mostly said all you have to say on the issue of waiting until marriage. I know other issues are discussed here, but talking about waiting is my main interest in the forums. I still pop into chat here and there, but I rarely post since I don't feel the need to rehash my views further on here. If any of the new members know about a magical place where you can meet virgins to marry, I'm all ears, though, haha.

[Dave1985 508]

Yeah... We need more posts... But I think we lost a lot of members when wtm.org became a dead link, and people assumed the site was offline...

[Syzygy 233]

I wish the chatroom was still working  

 

[CrystalFaerie 1,316]

On 2017-10-16 at 0:22 PM, Dave1985 said:

Yeah... We need more posts... But I think we lost a lot of members when wtm.org became a dead link, and people assumed the site was offline...

It's not a dead link though...

http://waitingtillmarriage.org is there, just as it's always been

[Dave1985 508]

16 hours ago, CrystalFaerie said:

It's not a dead link though...

http://waitingtillmarriage.org is there, just as it's always been

But I always used the abbreviated version, wtm.org. It was a direct link to waitingtillmarriage.org... I briefly thought the site was gone when wtm.org linked to godaddy.com...

[CrystalFaerie 1,316]

45 minutes ago, Dave1985 said:

But I always used the abbreviated version, wtm.org. It was a direct link to waitingtillmarriage.org... I briefly thought the site was gone when wtm.org linked to godaddy.com...

Ah right. I didn't know wtm.org used to lead here. My bad!