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Is it really possible to find a good girl when we have a culture like this?

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I guess it depends on what you mean by “good”.
If you mean void of individualism, independence and intellectualism; an embodiment of the 1950s woman, possibly, a mail-order bride perhaps, or a young girl in a poor and isolated commune somewhere.
If you mean strong, smart, respectful, kind and hard working; these women are everywhere.

The biased nature of this video did not go unnoticed and the excessive use of pop-studies were overly simplistic and superficial, failing to take into analysis the huge array of confounding factors necessary to understanding the true causes of societal and moral change. I think you’d do well to treat this video with a high degree of skepticism.

That said, our social and moral norms have changed, some for the better and some for the worst. As a result, promiscuity, rejection of marriage, and divorce have all increased over the last few decades. The video attempts to link the cause of these changes to the feminist movement; saying that "women aren't women anymore" and for this reason, "fewer young men want to get married than ever before". While both men and women have changed significantly from their 1950 counterparts, pinning the blame soley on women for the breakdown of conventional marriage is intellectually lazy and narrow-minded.

According to the video, one of the major changes is "Men once married for sex. Now sex before marriage is the norm" – It is the norm, but as they say, it takes two to tango. Just because women are offering doesn’t mean men have to take it. Men are threatened by feminism because they think it’s endorsing female superiority but then blame females when they show a lack of moral superiority. Is it not proclaimed far and wide that men are the stronger sex? If so, why are they so anaemic in exercising sexual restraint? The rise of sexualisation in our society (porn, toys, advertising etc) may also be confounding factors to men’s lack of interest in marriage with such outlets for sex more easily accessible, require less effort and zero pain of rejection.

While I believe the achievements of the feminist movement far outweigh the negative consequences experienced today, I acknowledge that there is a new wave of feminists – known by the propaganda terms feminazis and neo-feminists – who are giving rise to self-entitled and selfish women who really do think themselves superior to men. These women do lack the maturity and values to be married, and yet men still marry them…interesting, surely not the man’s fault.

As it was said in the video "What man would want to endure this [a woman] insufferable, spoilt, whiny brat for the duration of marriage?" 
No man should, and yet they do. Why? Why are they choosing these women? They’re complicit in the perpetuation of this type of woman because they marry them, proving it’s acceptable behaviour. Men must stop complaining about women until they start showing better taste in them.
 

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2 hours ago, Naturally said:

 

While I believe the achievements of the feminist movement far outweigh the negative consequences experienced today, I acknowledge that there is a new wave of feminists – known by the propaganda terms feminazis and neo-feminists – who are giving rise to self-entitled and selfish women who really do think themselves superior to men. These women do lack the maturity and values to be married, and yet men still marry them…interesting, surely not the man’s fault.
 

He was talking about feminism as we know it now. Not when feminism had a real purpose.

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2 hours ago, Naturally said:

I guess it depends on what you mean by “good”.
If you mean void of individualism, independence and intellectualism; an embodiment of the 1950s woman, possibly, a mail-order bride perhaps, or a young girl in a poor and isolated commune somewhere.
If you mean strong, smart, respectful, kind and hard working; these women are everywhere.

The biased nature of this video did not go unnoticed and the excessive use of pop-studies were overly simplistic and superficial, failing to take into analysis the huge array of confounding factors necessary to understanding the true causes of societal and moral change. I think you’d do well to treat this video with a high degree of skepticism.

That said, our social and moral norms have changed, some for the better and some for the worst. As a result, promiscuity, rejection of marriage, and divorce have all increased over the last few decades. The video attempts to link the cause of these changes to the feminist movement; saying that "women aren't women anymore" and for this reason, "fewer young men want to get married than ever before". While both men and women have changed significantly from their 1950 counterparts, pinning the blame soley on women for the breakdown of conventional marriage is intellectually lazy and narrow-minded.

According to the video, one of the major changes is "Men once married for sex. Now sex before marriage is the norm" – It is the norm, but as they say, it takes two to tango. Just because women are offering doesn’t mean men have to take it. Men are threatened by feminism because they think it’s endorsing female superiority but then blame females when they show a lack of moral superiority. Is it not proclaimed far and wide that men are the stronger sex? If so, why are they so anaemic in exercising sexual restraint? The rise of sexualisation in our society (porn, toys, advertising etc) may also be confounding factors to men’s lack of interest in marriage with such outlets for sex more easily accessible, require less effort and zero pain of rejection.

While I believe the achievements of the feminist movement far outweigh the negative consequences experienced today, I acknowledge that there is a new wave of feminists – known by the propaganda terms feminazis and neo-feminists – who are giving rise to self-entitled and selfish women who really do think themselves superior to men. These women do lack the maturity and values to be married, and yet men still marry them…interesting, surely not the man’s fault.

As it was said in the video "What man would want to endure this [a woman] insufferable, spoilt, whiny brat for the duration of marriage?" 
No man should, and yet they do. Why? Why are they choosing these women? They’re complicit in the perpetuation of this type of woman because they marry them, proving it’s acceptable behaviour. Men must stop complaining about women until they start showing better taste in them.
 

Seriously. Stay away from feminist women. Stay far away.

Who does a woman love more than anybody in the world? Her kids. And yet the modern feminist's sole definition of "women's rights", the one issue that they will fight relentlessly for, is their "right" to kill their children. They speak of the "inconvenience" put on single mothers who could have just as easily given the child up for adoption. They speak of the financial problems. They speak of greed, self-entitlement, and their own convenience as justifiable reasons for brutally murdering a child that made up of half of their DNA. They act offended, and throw much-celebrated riots when they think there is a threat to their "rights". Just look at the women's march after they were afraid Trump would nominate pro-lifers to the Supreme Court.

That is how they deal with the people they are most likely to love unconditionally. When it comes to sex, the unmarried (post-feminist) women choose to have sex with guys that would make terrible husbands and fathers, but that they are attracted to. They marry the "nice guys" that they aren't attracted to, because they think he will be a good father and husband. But their lack of attraction to the "nice guy" causes them to refuse sex and file for divorce after enough resentment builds. They feel no guilt about cleaning him out in divorce court, because they were never attracted to him, and their anger hit critical mass. Even the kids that they love, will suffer severe emotional damage as they are used as pawns against their father.

This is not a game you want to play. Trust me, @DHZ... I've been where you are... A woman who sees it as her "right" to murder the only people she will truly love, will show no empathy for a guy that was only there to be taken advantage of.

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All of 'em are in another religion and another part of the world. lolololol.

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