How In The World Do Both A Man and Woman Virgins Meet Their Match??

[purediscipleofyeshua 7]

My name is James and I'm 33.

 

I'll admit since I moved with my father back in 1991 at the age of 9 years old, I was exposed to lots of hardcore porn on magazine and on video.

 

However, I never have slept with any real women or experienced orgasm at all....

 

I've had very few sporadic close encounters and have said no to at least to 40 or 50 women that wanted to sleep with me.

 

At this point in my life, I just don't feel right being with a woman sexually unless we can relate to "holding out" for each other until marriage.

 

I'm very adamant about only wanting a virgin. Period.

 

I live in South Florida and the area I live in is very transient as well as lots of heavy tourism - which makes it even harder to find a decent woman who has actually "waited" for her husband.

 

The only answer I can think of is joining these forums for open discussion, researching statistics of what denominations or jewish temples statistically have abstinent movements/ministries and then date maybe 1 woman a month  and allow time to take care of itself to find the right one.

 

Any comments?? I really don't feel I'm being picky... at all... I'm just adhering to my convictions...

 

James

[JesSea 905]

Welcome! 

[Jasmine23 1,605]

You're not being picky. You want what you want and you seek what most of us if not all of us seek. I'm not sure how you could find a woman that has waited unless you're here or in a church/synagogue..... although it's hard to find one there as well..... I hope that you find what you're looking for and Welcome!

-Jasmine

[PG1 1,730]

Welcome.

[573V3N 531]

Welcome to the site, James! I hope you come to like it here. Don't worry, I'm sure Ms. Right will come around when the time is right.

[Guest]

Welcome James!

[Guest markb4]

Welcome to the site!

 

You can meet a lot of good people on this site.

[NicoleNova 2,669]

Welcome James! 

[motema123 17]

Welcome!!

[Guest Raz]

Hello and welcome to the site .

[waitingforcarats 263]

Welcome. :-) I have asked myself that same question countless times....

[cookiemonster 500]

You're not picky, you just have preferences. Welcome

[Will H 114]

Welcome! It's absolutely important to adhere to your convictions. It can be tough to find a woman who will respect your decision, but you are on the right path.

 

Since this part of the forum is mostly for welcoming folks, you might try the Ask a Successful (Married) Waiter section. There are some there who were men and women virgins who did what you are wanting and met their match, perhaps they would have a lot of wisdom to share.

[meandmyfaith 96]

Welcome James

God bless you!

[Guest]

Welcome James! You are very handsome. I agree with your assessment of beach/resort areas. It definitely seems to attract people who love the nightlife.

 

I think you are being picky but, that's not a reason to give up your convictions nor is it a reason to be ashamed or admonished. I'll keep you in my prayers.

[Chak 217]

Welcome !

[Buster Cannon 1,432]

Welcome!

[poisson 145]

Welcome to the site!

It is indeed difficult to find a wtm let alone a virgin. Hope you find your perfect match!

[WaitingForSuperman 47]

My name is James and I'm 33.

 

I'll admit since I moved with my father back in 1991 at the age of 9 years old, I was exposed to lots of hardcore porn on magazine and on video.

 

However, I never have slept with any real women or experienced orgasm at all....

 

I've had very few sporadic close encounters and have said no to at least to 40 or 50 women that wanted to sleep with me.

 

At this point in my life, I just don't feel right being with a woman sexually unless we can relate to "holding out" for each other until marriage.

 

I'm very adamant about only wanting a virgin. Period.

 

I live in South Florida and the area I live in is very transient as well as lots of heavy tourism - which makes it even harder to find a decent woman who has actually "waited" for her husband.

 

The only answer I can think of is joining these forums for open discussion, researching statistics of what denominations or jewish temples statistically have abstinent movements/ministries and then date maybe 1 woman a month  and allow time to take care of itself to find the right one.

 

Any comments?? I really don't feel I'm being picky... at all... I'm just adhering to my convictions...

 

James

 

 

It seems like traditionally, a lot of men and women virgins are meeting through their church in their early teens/20s, so you may find a particular set of challenges as you're 30+.  I think you might want to consider looking at your local church (if you're extremely religious, which it seems you are), and if that doesn't work for you, branch out into similar churches in nearby communities.  I know the internet's here to make our lives easier and such, but I wouldn't bet all my chips here.

 

Good luck in your search though, and welcome to the forum!

[voulaki726 122]

Welcome.  I just want to say congratulations to you for being a 33 year old MAN and still holding firm to you WTM conviction, and seeming to still be confident in it!  This is something to be very proud of and greatly respected- there should be more men like you in the world!

[573V3N 531]

Welcome, James! I hope you like it here.

[Cmelbg22 14]

Be patient and never settle

[Daz 792]

On 18/05/2016 at 6:25 PM, Cmelbg22 said:

Be patient and never settle

^^^ This, and also figure out roughly where they'll be. Like this website, or Church, or etc.