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"If sex is like money than porn is..."

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"If sex is like money than porn is a massive devaluation of the currency." -Tim Keller



How is sex inside marriage so valuable/Watch this:

 

 

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Good video and I think it's so true. Even though I'm still a virgin, I feel like every time I looked at porn, I'm slowly chipping away from the value of sex with my future wife and we can't get that back. It's because I'm training my mind and body to seek after my own pleasure instead of giving myself selflessly and in love for someone else. All this and not giving any thought to value of the human being behind the screen. Even though I've never done anything physical with anyone, I still feel like I'm robbing my future wife of my undivided emotions and attention because have been wasted on cheap imitations of what love and sex is supposed to be.

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Phillip's told me that he used to watch porn, but not since a few months before we met. He realized that it wasn't the right thing to do, and that it was something that he could give up. Both in regards to God and to the future relationship that he knew he would have, he understood that he should stop.

 

From a woman's perspective, I really appreciate this. I understand, somewhat, the male need to watch porn, but it also causes a build up of negative emotions in me. As a woman, I can say that, if Phillip was still watching porn, then it would be difficult, once we married, for me to forget that fact. We (women), compare ourselves to others, trying to figure out where we're different, and knowing that our husbands/boyfriends were watching porn makes us, sometimes subconsciously, compare ourselves to the actresses in these videos, and make us feel insufficient. It's hard, knowing that he's seen a 'professional', and that you may never measure up to that level.

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