Roy

Secondary virgin here !

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Hi !

 

It's been more than 6 years I practice WTM, and I'm very happy to find I'm not the only one waiting !

It's a great blessing to be encouraged  walking in the narrow way,

even if many people in the world would see it as crazy. 

 

I believe virginity is much more of a commitment and spiritual faith than a physical thing.

There is physically virgin people with high moral values,

and there is physically virgin people with very low moral values.

So the most important thing to me in WTM is the attitude and spiritual faith. 

 

Of course, I wish I never committed fornication before,

so that I would be fully intact in my body and soul.

I cannot make time travel, I cannot change past,

but I can change my present and future, by the Lord's Wisdom. 

 

Well, I've tried dating sites for years, and I didn't find my WTM missing rib. 

I have high moral expectations, though I'm a good living man. 

I don't want to do anything intimate before marriage, including holding hands, hugging, kissing, etc.

All those intimate acts belong to a married couple only.

 

Before marriage, I believe men and women should be like platonic friends only, 

physically and verbally ( yes, not even words of intimacy before marriage, 

would you like your married spouse to have words of intimacy

with his/her supposedly platonic friend ? )

 

I do not agree with that common misconception that fornication wouldn't be adultery,

because adultery would be the concern of at least one married person involved.  .

Fornication IS adultery, as it defiles the conjugal bed !

Every act of intimacy before marriage means cheating on the future spouse !

 

Besides, the act of carnal union is the seal of marriage.

It's the blood signature from both partners.

So you don't want to get married with the wrong person.

 

That's why you should wait before giving your blood's marriage approval 

to the right person with marriage first !

 

Who knows ? I could find my missing rib here ! By the Lord's Blessing !

 

It's also a strong encouragement to talk with WTM people to persevere on the right path !

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Welcome!! Proud of your decision to wait :) This site will be great for you! Again it's great that you chose this path, lookin forward to your posts on the site.

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Hi !

 

It's been more than 6 years I practice WTM, and I'm very happy to find I'm not the only one waiting !

It's a great blessing to be encouraged  walking in the narrow way,

even if many people in the world would see it as crazy. 

 

I believe virginity is much more of a commitment and spiritual faith than a physical thing.

There is physically virgin people with high moral values,

and there is physically virgin people with very low moral values.

So the most important thing to me in WTM is the attitude and spiritual faith. 

 

Of course, I wish I never committed fornication before,

so that I would be fully intact in my body and soul.

I cannot make time travel, I cannot change past,

but I can change my present and future, by the Lord's Wisdom. 

 

Well, I've tried dating sites for years, and I didn't find my WTM missing rib. 

I have high moral expectations, though I'm a good living man. 

I don't want to do anything intimate before marriage, including holding hands, hugging, kissing, etc.

All those intimate acts belong to a married couple only.

 

Before marriage, I believe men and women should be like platonic friends only, 

physically and verbally ( yes, not even words of intimacy before marriage, 

would you like your married spouse to have words of intimacy

with his/her supposedly platonic friend ? )

 

I do not agree with that common misconception that fornication wouldn't be adultery,

because adultery would be the concern of at least one married person involved.  .

Fornication IS adultery, as it defiles the conjugal bed !

Every act of intimacy before marriage means cheating on the future spouse !

 

Besides, the act of carnal union is the seal of marriage.

It's the blood signature from both partners.

So you don't want to get married with the wrong person.

 

That's why you should wait before giving your blood's marriage approval 

to the right person with marriage first !

 

Who knows ? I could find my missing rib here ! By the Lord's Blessing !

 

It's also a strong encouragement to talk with WTM people to persevere on the right path !

Welcome. Wow, missing rib, huh? That's cool that you're that religious. #Props

No kissing or hugging? That's dedication man. Granted, I've never kissed a boy. But that's cause the ones I liked never liked me back.

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Roy... way to go on making an important choice that makes you feel good and on the right path - and very glad you found this community - i know you'll enjoy and contribute a great new voice.

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Thanks a lot ! That's great you've never kissed a boy ! #Props

You should keep it that way until marriage with the one and only !

I don't think so (not judging your choice, just not what I want to do). I'm an actress, and though I haven't had any stage kisses yet, I imagine they'll come sooner or later. Plus, if-no-WHEN I get a boyfriend, I'm definetely kissing him. I just haven't had one yet because I've only had a couple of opportunities and none of them would have gone anywhere. I won't kiss someone who I don't think is special though.

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Wow, didn't know. I thought you were practicing WTM, as you said you've never kissed a boy. Well, you have freedom of choice about your life, but you could avoid certain dire consequences by practicing WTM. I'm very sorry your job of actress would force you to kiss other boys with whom you have no feelings. I actually enjoy watching movies a lot, but I wish men and women would never kiss each other in movies, that would be so much more respectful for them ! And the movies would be so much more great to watch !

 

One very important thing : I strongly suggest you stay the most far possible from hollywood !

It's a cesspool of unthinkable corruption and deception !  

 

I wish hollywood was not corrupted the way it is, because movies are great for entertainment, after all. 

I am practicing WTM. I do not consider my job the same as real life. I just haven't had a romantic part yet. I imagine some might compare acting to other forms of fake intamicy, but I never would. I believe in keeping my clothes on and not going far at all, but I def want a first kiss before I get married. Ideally, it would be offstage then on, but the nice thing about stage kisses is they will never go farther than they are choreographed so there's no pressure about worrying someone will go farther than I want. One of the things I love about acting is it lets me do things I never get to do in really life-be a princess, for example.

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