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Im 41 and am glad to be older than 40, some friends of mine would bug me reffering to the movie "The 40 year old virgin". But it was just a movie and I don't really care that much really and they never bugged me that much, maybe it was me bugging myself. Anyway I'm happy that I am still a virgin because I know that's what God wants for someone who is not married and believe me when the bible says he "helps"people stay virgins he means it. Their is no way I could be this way without his help. I have a friend who's offered to pay for an escort girl for me (no thanks) I thank God he keeps me away from that offer and other pessures, please pray for me. So glad I found this site, looking forward to hearing from some people.

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Wow, you're such an inspiration. I agree 100% about being "helped" to stay a virgin. Welcome to the site. Glad to have you.

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I admire your strength and faith! Welcome to the site :) glad to have you here.

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Welcome to the community! You show that men can wait and most will lose it and still marry before 40 but "claim" they can't wait. We admire your strength and stay strong!

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Hi! There!! You are amoung some STUPINDOUS people!! You'll find great support! And maybe makes a few new friends!!! Don't be shy! Join on in!!!!

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Hi waiter, you are amazing I have so much respect for you! Its not waiting tha is so important its our attitude that counts, keeping our eyes on Jesus the author and finisher our faith.  Jesus "waited" for us he endured the mockery taunting hatred and rejection - for us! Offering up our lives as a fragrant aroma is just our "reasonable sevice".  May God give you grace to endure.

 

Blessings! ESi

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hi there! 

that's awesome that you're still waiting. best of luck to you. i share the same beliefs. sex is so much more than just the physical. it's bonding with your spouse in ways you would no never bond with anyone else. thats what makes it so special.

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Im 41 and am glad to be older than 40, some friends of mine would bug me reffering to the movie "The 40 year old virgin". But it was just a movie and I don't really care that much really and they never bugged me that much, maybe it was me bugging myself. Anyway I'm happy that I am still a virgin because I know that's what God wants for someone who is not married and believe me when the bible says he "helps"people stay virgins he means it. Their is no way I could be this way without his help. I have a friend who's offered to pay for an escort girl for me (no thanks) I thank God he keeps me away from that offer and other pessures, please pray for me. So glad I found this site, looking forward to hearing from some people.

Your have my respect my friend. As a 46 year old virgin i know how tough it can be to wait, but I agree with you that its what God would want. What did Christ say "he who exalts himself before men shall be humbled later before God and he who humbles himself before men shall be exalted by God"

 

I remember being 39 at the time the 40 year old virgin movie came out , but I didnt really identify myself with the Character because I am a virgin by choice.

 

I know its not easy my friend, but you know a certain JC dude is looking down and smiling at you as we speak :)

God bless

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Hello there! welcome. It's really nice to have a support group like this one. Way to go! Congratulations to all of us. God bless.  To God be the Glory:)

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