Posted September 11, 2012 · Report post Tall. Really the only physical "requirement". I'm really tall (5'10"), so it's always super awkward to go somewhere with a guy who's way shorter than I am. Dark hair and green eyes are a plus. Fit and hygenic, obviously, because no matter how good looking you are, if you're unhygenic it's a pretty much automatic turn-off. Personality.....most importantly, Christian. Or at least have some sort of relationship with God. Good with kids Loves music, or plays an instrument An awesome sense of humor Honest and hard-working A good dancer! Very chivalrous and polite Educated/intelligent Able to cook Shares my political beliefs Open with his thoughts and feelings Stylish (who doesn't love a guy who dresses well?!?) Willing to try new things Loves me with all of his heart. 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2012 · Report post Wud that by chance be Chris's real name, lol? Indeed it is. 2 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2013 · Report post intelligent kind not religious no drugs no alcohol no porn celibate honest patient wants kids and a marriage provides protects makes a decent living prioritizes positive committed has good friends athletic no partying has high standards stands up for what he believes in grooms himself [for example he does not look like he just jumped out of bed] works hard on goals selfless accepts me for who i am 2 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 21, 2013 · Report post An open, considerate, thoughtful, intelligent, musical, manly, empathetic waiter who is a good dancer, tries to be the best Christian he can be and that doesn't turn into an immature teenage boy (blocking his ears and stuff) when things like periods or childbirth etc are mentioned because the truth is he'll have to support me through childbirth, I don't want someone who's gunna desert me when I need him most. This is my ideal though, not what I have to have. I'd settle for intelligent, considerate and a good Christian (because that means he'd already be kind, honest, patient etc). 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 21, 2013 · Report post I have a large and extensive list on paper+in my brain but the simplest answer on solely the physical attributes is tall dark and handsome! Lol <3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 22, 2013 · Report post My ideal guy is a man who will be a great and loving father to our children. That for me is the most important attribute a guy can have. I'm not too fussed about physical appearance, height etc - as long as they're not intimidated by the fact that I'm 5'11 then I'm not bothered how tall they are. A great sense of humour and ambition are also qualities I look for. 2 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 · Report post intelligent kind not religious no drugs no alcohol no porn no sexual promiscuity honest patient wants kids and a marriage provides protects makes a decent living prioritizes positive committed has good friends athletic no partying has high standards stands up for what he believes in grooms himself [for example he does not look like he just jumped out of bed] works hard on goals selfless accepts me for who i am I am exact match. I never smoked or drank ever because it is so damaging. 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 · Report post My ideal guy is a man who will be a great and loving father to our children. That for me is the most important attribute a guy can have. I'm not too fussed about physical appearance, height etc - as long as they're not intimidated by the fact that I'm 5'11 then I'm not bothered how tall they are. A great sense of humour and ambition are also qualities I look for. I am exactly the guy who would love have a family and 6ft 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 · Report post Normally I wont do a list but...Well since this is just for fun Spiritual/ Has a serious relationship with God (but doesnt preach to everyone or throws bible at ppl) Smart Shares my values Has his own company/Financially stable Amazing cook Strong/ able to take lead Humble/sweet Has integrity not afraid to be silly adventurous Christian tattoo on forearm funny athletic/active 5'10-6'0 not into the wild party life Treats his lady like a queen and looks like Will Demps cuz aye dios mio he is so fione. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 · Report post I try not to think too much about how I'd love my future husband to look like, so I focused on the inner beauty 1. Man of prayer 2. Leader 3. Sincere 4. Honest 5. Trusts God's timing 6. Funny 7. Patient 8. Faithful 9. Responsible 10. Family oriented Of course I can't help to hope he will look GORGEOUS, but love isnt just about physical beauty. As physical beauty fades away, the inner one stays 3 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 · Report post My dream guy: Enjoys sports Likes driving or racing Is athletic Plays video games Smart Enjoys exercise That list would make for a great friend! I just thought of someone I can relate to and a guy with those attributes would seem like someone I'd enjoy hanging out with. 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 19, 2013 · Report post 1. Catholic 2. Same ethnicity as me (I'm open minded but ugh, i don't want to explain this) 3. has some intelligence, I don't want to talk to a brick 4. cares about me enough to treat me well and show me that he likes/loves me 5. doesn't drink (let's just say I've had bad experience with alcoholics) 6. doesn't gamble (another bad experience) 7. Not abusive (*cringes*) 8. no smoking 9. understanding 10. Has short spiky hair (that's masculine to me, no offense to other people, this is my preference) 11. has a sense of humor (i love laughing) 12. Virgin 13. has a lot in common in me 14. treats other people right 15. does not lie, cheat or does anything to other people like flirt 16. romantic that it comes off naturally 17. a gentleman 18. likes to have fun I think I'm good with this, but there might be more I'll come back if there's more 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2013 · Report post My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad. Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction. That's pretty much my list! Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like. 3 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2013 · Report post We'll I'm British and a virign. Shame I am not white. is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2013 · Report post My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad. Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction. That's pretty much my list! Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like. You're dream guys sounds awesome. Mine is similar with only a few changes. He can be taller than 5'11 since I am 5'8 and I don't like most accents, though there are a few exceptions. lol Also, I have had a dream of my future husband also but I didn't see his face. All I know is that he is tall and was able to pick me up because that's what he did in the dream. That's so cool that we have both had dreams like that. 4 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2013 · Report post My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad. Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction. That's pretty much my list! Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like. Dang Im 5'3, hoping for an artist and musician who's at least 5'10/11 too!!! As well as the Christian part, and no smoking light drinking too I also love those accents Hahaha Good taste my friend, good taste 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2013 · Report post Also, I have had a dream of my future husband also but I didn't see his face. All I know is that he is tall and was able to pick me up because that's what he did in the dream. That's so cool that we have both had dreams like that. Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!! 3 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2013 · Report post Hey, don't worry ad long you have some sort of idea of your future husband that's all. I sometimes get a dream of my future wife, she's 5"7 to 5"10ft she's American. She is a uni grad. We are in a nice Lexus/ Mercedes CLA or Tesla driving in Cali down the freeway or I come home and I see her cooking some Italian food such as pasta I also have a dream of a girl that looks a bit like you @OneLovelyBabe but with blonde hair, We are out to dinner in a nice restaurant in Downtown area of San Jose just having a wonderful time. Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2013 · Report post Hmmm. I like this topic! My dream guy would be someone who has a relationship with Christ. Has a sense of humor. Sensitive but wont take any crap from me and lets me know when I am being a witch. He would have to be a family man and loyal to me. HE has a good work ethic and is mature and confident enough to be the head of the house hold. I would want him to be someone I could talk to about anything and everything. He would be my best friend. I hope I am not asking for too much. The only physical requirement would be that he is taller than me but that wont be too hard since I am only 5'1" lol. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2013 · Report post I don't care about physical appearance as long as he is healthy. Physical appearance is not permanent. I might marry a good looking man, but he might get into a car accident or something, and his appearance might change then. I don't want to leave my husband if that happens. No matter what, I want to be able to say, 'My husband is the most handsome man to me, inside and out'. That is why my list is more about character. To be good-looking is to have a good character. 1. Practicing Muslim 2. Kind to everyone - even if someone wrongs him he treats that person with kindness 3. Respectful towards everyone 4. Non-drinker/smoker/ drug user 5. Faithful and honest 7. Funny - makes me laugh without even trying 8. Sensitive and tender 9. Open-minded 10. Good listener 11. Caring 12. Loves to be close to me a lot. Like hugging all the time, holding my hand, kissing my forehead. 13. Modest in speech and actions 14. Childish 15. A good role model to our children 16. Righteous 17. Have a sense of humour 18. Serious when needed 19. He likes me just the way I am - talkative, very energetic, laughing and smiling a lot 20. He loves to give compliments to me a lot. And he loves to receive compliments from me! 21. Helpful 22. Dreamer - we dream about our wedding together, where we would live, when I'm pregnant and so on 23. Patient 24. He knows how to say "I'm sorry" 25. He is willing to be there for me - . Wipes my tears when I'm sad. He goes to grocery store even if its night to buy me lots of ice cream, and then he makes me tea, sits with me when I eat ice cream and cry. He doesn't say anything because he understands how to act with me. Sometimes he hugs me, kiss my forehead or just holds my hand. Then he smiles and my whole life just melts when I see that adorable smile. 26. Protective 27. Positive 28. Considerate 29. Thoughtful 30. Wants to be a better person and is willing to do something about it 31. He puts my needs first 32. Selfless 33. Stands up for what he believes in 34. Dares to say if I have said or done something wrong 35. Sincere 36. He knows that no one is perfect 37. Loves to spend time outside with me - exploring new places, new cities, or just walking in the park, reading Qur'an together under the tree. 38. Loves to spend time at home doing absolutely nothing. 39. Romantic Okay, my list is a bit long, haha! There's nothing wrong if he doesn't have all these qualities as long as he knows these are the one's we should strive for. So, together we would try to improve our character. But if he doesn't recognize that we all have faults, I don't think I want to marry that kind of man. He should know what he is, and is willing to change his faults if he can. 2 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2013 · Report post You don't have to have a dream to know what dream guy going to be. Just have a overview and everything will work in the end. I am postive you are one charming women. You will end with someone who is caring loving and will always be there. Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!! 1 person likes this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2013 · Report post I don't care about physical appearance as long as he is healthy. Physical appearance is not permanent. I might marry a good looking man, but he might get into a car accident or something, and his appearance might change then. I don't want to leave my husband if that happens. No matter what, I want to be able to say, 'My husband is the most handsome man to me, inside and out'. That is why my list is more about character. To be good-looking is to have a good character. 1. Practicing Muslim 2. Kind to everyone - even if someone wrongs him he treats that person with kindness 3. Respectful towards everyone 4. Non-drinker/smoker/ drug user 5. Faithful and honest 7. Funny - makes me laugh without even trying 8. Sensitive and tender 9. Open-minded 10. Good listener 11. Caring 12. Loves to be close to me a lot. Like hugging all the time, holding my hand, kissing my forehead. 13. Modest in speech and actions 14. Childish 15. A good role model to our children 16. Righteous 17. Have a sense of humour 18. Serious when needed 19. He likes me just the way I am - talkative, very energetic, laughing and smiling a lot 20. He loves to give compliments to me a lot. And he loves to receive compliments from me! 21. Helpful 22. Dreamer - we dream about our wedding together, where we would live, when I'm pregnant and so on 23. Patient 24. He knows how to say "I'm sorry" 25. He is willing to be there for me - . Wipes my tears when I'm sad. He goes to grocery store even if its night to buy me lots of ice cream, and then he makes me tea, sits with me when I eat ice cream and cry. He doesn't say anything because he understands how to act with me. Sometimes he hugs me, kiss my forehead or just holds my hand. Then he smiles and my whole life just melts when I see that adorable smile. 26. Protective 27. Positive 28. Considerate 29. Thoughtful 30. Wants to be a better person and is willing to do something about it 31. He puts my needs first 32. Selfless 33. Stands up for what he believes in 34. Dares to say if I have said or done something wrong 35. Sincere 36. He knows that no one is perfect 37. Loves to spend time outside with me - exploring new places, new cities, or just walking in the park, reading Qur'an together under the tree. 38. Loves to spend time at home doing absolutely nothing. 39. Romantic Okay, my list is a bit long, haha! There's nothing wrong if he doesn't have all these qualities as long as he knows these are the one's we should strive for. So, together we would try to improve our character. But if he doesn't recognize that we all have faults, I don't think I want to marry that kind of man. He should know what he is, and is willing to change his faults if he can. I love your list, you thought of things I couldn't even think of! I find it exciting to think about the person we will marry someday. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 26, 2017 · Report post christian Tall Thin nice smile intelligent (if smarter than me, it's ok as long as he enjoys explaining) enjoys talking with me, even if he's shy will pursue me good decision maker strong leader but respectful of others pov wants to travel Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 29, 2017 · Report post Me, but as a guy. And hot. 2 people like this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 30, 2017 · Report post 2 hours ago, Amber Elizabeth said: Me, but as a guy. And hot. Pretty much the same - my only difference would be that he is much calmer than I am. I can flare up very quickly and have a bit of a temper (kinda got it from my maternal side) so he would need to be much more chilled than I am. Otherwise we will just fight all the time and that's definitely not going to work lol. As for hot...I've never had a crush on anyone in my life so I dunno about looks but I also believe that the more I got to know a guy, the more attractive they would probably be to me - I guess. The main psychical things is that they are tall - but not too tall (I'm 5 ft 1 so rather short). If they are on the short side then they would need to have tall people in their family - I don't want super short kids lol but whatever happens happens haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites