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Your Dream Guy !!

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Tall. Really the only physical "requirement". I'm really tall (5'10"), so it's always super awkward to go somewhere with a guy who's way shorter than I am. Dark hair and green eyes are a plus. Fit and hygenic, obviously, because no matter how good looking you are, if you're unhygenic it's a pretty much automatic turn-off.

Personality.....most importantly, Christian. Or at least have some sort of relationship with God.

Good with kids

Loves music, or plays an instrument

An awesome sense of humor

Honest and hard-working

A good dancer!

Very chivalrous and polite

Educated/intelligent

Able to cook

Shares my political beliefs

Open with his thoughts and feelings

Stylish (who doesn't love a guy who dresses well?!?)

Willing to try new things

Loves me with all of his heart. :)

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intelligent

kind

not religious

no drugs

no alcohol

no porn

celibate

honest

patient

wants kids and a marriage

provides

protects

makes a decent living

prioritizes 

positive

committed

has good friends

athletic

no partying

has high standards

stands up for what he believes in

grooms himself [for example he does not look like he just jumped out of bed]

works hard on goals

selfless

accepts me for who i am

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An open, considerate, thoughtful, intelligent, musical, manly, empathetic waiter who is a good dancer, tries to be the best Christian he can be and that doesn't turn into an immature teenage boy (blocking his ears and stuff) when things like periods or childbirth etc are mentioned because the truth is he'll have to support me through childbirth, I don't want someone who's gunna desert me when I need him most.

This is my ideal though, not what I have to have. I'd settle for intelligent, considerate and a good Christian (because that means he'd already be kind, honest, patient etc).

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I have a large and extensive list on paper+in my brain but the simplest answer on solely the physical attributes is tall dark and handsome! Lol <3

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My ideal guy is a man who will be a great and loving father to our children. That for me is the most important attribute a guy can have. I'm not too fussed about physical appearance, height etc - as long as they're not intimidated by the fact that I'm 5'11 then I'm not bothered how tall they are. A great sense of humour and ambition are also qualities I look for.

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intelligent

kind

not religious

no drugs

no alcohol

no porn

no sexual promiscuity

honest

patient

wants kids and a marriage

provides

protects

makes a decent living

prioritizes

positive

committed

has good friends

athletic

no partying

has high standards

stands up for what he believes in

grooms himself [for example he does not look like he just jumped out of bed]

works hard on goals

selfless

accepts me for who i am

I am exact match. I never smoked or drank ever because it is so damaging.

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My ideal guy is a man who will be a great and loving father to our children. That for me is the most important attribute a guy can have. I'm not too fussed about physical appearance, height etc - as long as they're not intimidated by the fact that I'm 5'11 then I'm not bothered how tall they are. A great sense of humour and ambition are also qualities I look for.

I am exactly the guy who would love have a family and 6ft

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Normally I wont do a list but...Well since this is just for fun  ^_^

Spiritual/ Has a serious relationship with God (but doesnt preach to everyone or throws bible at ppl)

Smart

Shares my values

Has his own company/Financially stable

Amazing cook

Strong/ able to take lead

Humble/sweet

Has integrity

not afraid to be silly

adventurous

Christian tattoo on forearm

funny

athletic/active

5'10-6'0

not into the wild party life

Treats his lady like a queen

and looks like Will Demps cuz aye dios mio he is so fione.

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I try not to think too much about how I'd love my future husband to look like, so I focused on the inner beauty :)

1. Man of prayer

2. Leader

3. Sincere

4. Honest

5. Trusts God's timing

6. Funny

7. Patient

8. Faithful

9. Responsible

10. Family oriented

Of course I can't help to hope he will look GORGEOUS, but love isnt just about physical beauty. As physical beauty fades away, the inner one stays :)

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My dream guy:

Enjoys sports

Likes driving or racing

Is athletic

Plays video games

Smart

Enjoys exercise

That list would make for a great friend! I just thought of someone I can relate to and a guy with those attributes would seem like someone I'd enjoy hanging out with.

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1. Catholic

2. Same ethnicity as me (I'm open minded but ugh, i don't want to explain this)

3. has some intelligence, I don't want to talk to a brick

4. cares about me enough to treat me well and show me that he likes/loves me

5. doesn't drink (let's just say I've had bad experience with alcoholics)

6. doesn't gamble (another bad experience)

7. Not abusive (*cringes*)

8. no smoking

9. understanding

10. Has short spiky hair (that's masculine to me, no offense to other people, this is my preference)

 11. has a sense of humor (i love laughing)

12. Virgin

13. has a lot in common in me

14. treats other people right

15. does not lie, cheat or does anything to other people like flirt

16. romantic that it comes off naturally

17. a gentleman

18. likes to have fun

 

I think I'm good with this, but there might be more

I'll come back if there's more

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My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad.

Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction.

That's pretty much my list! :)

Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like.

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We'll I'm British and a virign. Shame I am not white.

is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair

Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like.

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My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad.

Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction.

That's pretty much my list! :)

Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like.

 

You're dream guys sounds awesome. Mine is similar with only a few changes. He can be taller than 5'11 since I am 5'8 and I don't like most accents, though there are a few exceptions. lol 

 

Also, I have had a dream of my future husband also but I didn't see his face. All I know is that he is tall and was able to pick me up because that's what he did in the dream. That's so cool that we have both had dreams like that. :)

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My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad.

Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction.

That's pretty much my list! :)

Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like.

Dang Im 5'3, hoping for an artist and musician who's at least 5'10/11 too!!! As well as the Christian part, and no smoking light drinking too :D I also love those accents :P Hahaha Good taste my friend, good taste :)

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Also, I have had a dream of my future husband also but I didn't see his face. All I know is that he is tall and was able to pick me up because that's what he did in the dream. That's so cool that we have both had dreams like that. :)

Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!!

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Hey, don't worry ad long you have some sort of idea of your future husband that's all. I sometimes get a dream of my future wife, she's 5"7 to 5"10ft she's American. She is a uni grad.

 

We are in a nice Lexus/ Mercedes CLA or Tesla driving in Cali down the freeway or I come home  and I see her cooking some Italian food such as pasta

 

I also have a dream of a girl that looks a bit like you @OneLovelyBabe but with blonde hair, We are out to dinner in a nice restaurant in Downtown area of San Jose  just having a wonderful time. 

Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!!

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Hmmm. I like this topic! My dream guy would be someone who has a relationship with Christ. Has a sense of humor. Sensitive but wont take any crap from me and lets me know when I am being a witch. He would have to be a family man and loyal to me. HE has a good work ethic and is mature and confident enough to be the head of the house hold. I would want him to be someone I could talk to about anything and everything. He would be my best friend. I hope I am not asking for too much. The only physical requirement would be that he is taller than me but that wont be too hard since I am only 5'1" lol.

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I don't care about physical appearance as long as he is healthy. Physical appearance is not permanent. I might marry a good looking man, but he might get into a car accident or something, and his appearance might change then. I don't want to leave my husband if that happens. No matter what, I want to be able to say, 'My husband is the most handsome man to me, inside and out'. That is why my list is more about character. To be good-looking is to have a good character.

 

1. Practicing Muslim

2. Kind to everyone - even if someone wrongs him he treats that person with kindness

3. Respectful towards everyone

4. Non-drinker/smoker/ drug user

5. Faithful and honest

7. Funny - makes me laugh without even trying

8. Sensitive and tender

9. Open-minded

10. Good listener

11. Caring

12. Loves to be close to me a lot. Like hugging all the time, holding my hand, kissing my forehead.

13. Modest in speech and actions

14. Childish

15. A good role model to our children

16. Righteous

17. Have a sense of humour

18. Serious when needed

19. He likes me just the way I am  - talkative, very energetic, laughing and smiling a lot

20. He loves to give compliments to me a lot. And he loves to receive compliments from me!

21. Helpful

22. Dreamer - we dream about our wedding together, where we would live, when I'm pregnant and so on

23. Patient

24. He knows how to say "I'm sorry"

25. He is willing to be there for me - . Wipes my tears when I'm sad. He goes to grocery store even if its night to buy me lots of ice cream, and then he makes me tea, sits with me when I eat ice cream and cry. He doesn't say anything because he understands how to act with me. Sometimes he hugs me, kiss my forehead or just holds my hand. Then he smiles and my whole life just melts when I see that adorable smile.

26. Protective

27. Positive

28. Considerate

29. Thoughtful

30. Wants to be a better person and is willing to do something about it

31. He puts my needs first

32. Selfless

33. Stands up for what he believes in

34. Dares to say if I have said or done something wrong

35. Sincere

36. He knows that no one is perfect

37. Loves to spend time outside with me - exploring new places, new cities, or just walking in the park, reading Qur'an together under the tree.

38. Loves to spend time at home doing absolutely nothing. 

39. Romantic

 

Okay, my list is a bit long, haha! There's nothing wrong if he doesn't have all these qualities as long as he knows these are the one's we should strive for. So, together we would try to improve our character. :) But if he doesn't recognize that we all have faults, I don't think I want to marry that kind of man. He should know what he is, and is willing to change his faults if he can.

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You don't have to have a dream to know what dream guy going to be. Just have a overview and everything will work in the end.

I am postive you are one charming women. You will end with someone who is caring loving and will always be there.

Dang I wanna get a dream of my dream guy!!!!

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I don't care about physical appearance as long as he is healthy. Physical appearance is not permanent. I might marry a good looking man, but he might get into a car accident or something, and his appearance might change then. I don't want to leave my husband if that happens. No matter what, I want to be able to say, 'My husband is the most handsome man to me, inside and out'. That is why my list is more about character. To be good-looking is to have a good character.
 
1. Practicing Muslim
2. Kind to everyone - even if someone wrongs him he treats that person with kindness
3. Respectful towards everyone
4. Non-drinker/smoker/ drug user
5. Faithful and honest
7. Funny - makes me laugh without even trying
8. Sensitive and tender
9. Open-minded
10. Good listener
11. Caring
12. Loves to be close to me a lot. Like hugging all the time, holding my hand, kissing my forehead.
13. Modest in speech and actions
14. Childish
15. A good role model to our children
16. Righteous
17. Have a sense of humour
18. Serious when needed
19. He likes me just the way I am  - talkative, very energetic, laughing and smiling a lot
20. He loves to give compliments to me a lot. And he loves to receive compliments from me!
21. Helpful
22. Dreamer - we dream about our wedding together, where we would live, when I'm pregnant and so on
23. Patient
24. He knows how to say "I'm sorry"
25. He is willing to be there for me - . Wipes my tears when I'm sad. He goes to grocery store even if its night to buy me lots of ice cream, and then he makes me tea, sits with me when I eat ice cream and cry. He doesn't say anything because he understands how to act with me. Sometimes he hugs me, kiss my forehead or just holds my hand. Then he smiles and my whole life just melts when I see that adorable smile.
26. Protective
27. Positive
28. Considerate
29. Thoughtful
30. Wants to be a better person and is willing to do something about it
31. He puts my needs first
32. Selfless
33. Stands up for what he believes in
34. Dares to say if I have said or done something wrong
35. Sincere
36. He knows that no one is perfect
37. Loves to spend time outside with me - exploring new places, new cities, or just walking in the park, reading Qur'an together under the tree.
38. Loves to spend time at home doing absolutely nothing. 
39. Romantic
 
Okay, my list is a bit long, haha! There's nothing wrong if he doesn't have all these qualities as long as he knows these are the one's we should strive for. So, together we would try to improve our character. :) But if he doesn't recognize that we all have faults, I don't think I want to marry that kind of man. He should know what he is, and is willing to change his faults if he can.

 

I love your list, you thought of things I couldn't even think of! I find it exciting to think about the person we will marry someday.

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christian

Tall

Thin

nice smile

intelligent (if smarter than me, it's ok as long as he enjoys explaining)

enjoys talking with me, even if he's shy

will pursue me

good decision maker

strong leader but respectful of others pov

wants to travel

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