Your Dream Guy !!

[Sally 2,366]

Since the guys did their dream girl, I thought it would be fun to do our dream guys !!

Like I said in theirs, its not a specific height, hair color or eye color, but eyes, hair and smile get me everudY time !!! Ahhhh !! I've crushed on a few guys with blue eyes, but brown too. Red hair, brown hair, black....

[Sally 2,366]

And this can have personality traits too...first post was a lil shallow

[Andrea 78]

Ok why not?

Dreem Trates

1.respectful

2.kind

3.attractive mentaly aswell as looks ( hot nerd I'm a nerd myself so that's more what I go 4 )

4.quick to forgive and slow to anger

5.a good father (asuming we have kids one day.)

6. Faithful

7. Undewrstanding and loving

8. And all together a good boyfriend/husband

Come on ladys don't leve me and sally hanging we know you have thoght of this b4 and made a mental list. Everyone has no one will judge you just post

[TinyDancer 483]

I'm not going to make a list because:

1) I have trouble coming up with a single common denominator among all the guys I've liked so far and

2) as soon as I make a list, I'll inevitably fall for a guy who is NOTHING like the list I've put together

Sorry!

[Sally 2,366]

No prob TD, just thought it would be fun !

[TinyDancer 483]

I came across this quote the other day and it made me change my mind about answering this thread. So... my dream guy is:

"I'll get married when I find a man who has more cojones [balls] than I do."

-- Salma Hayek

I'd also like a guy that wants to be wanted, but doesn't need to be needed...

[Mike 1,852]

"I'll get married when I find a man who had more cojones [balls] than I do."

That's great!

I used to say "I'll marry the first girl that intimidates me."

And then I found such a girl, and was really happy with her for a while. But now I think I'd prefer somebody who I can relax with. Ultimately that relationship showed me that I was half the person I thought I was.

[Guest OneHappyGirl]

Good question Sally! Here Goes:

Physical Attributes:

Height: 5'9-6"

Weight: Slim/Slender Medium

Hair Color: Brown/Blonde

Eye Color: Any

Ethnicity: Caucasian (I have a thing for Caucasian men♥)/Italian?Brazilian?Spaniard

he doesn't have to be highly attractive just hygienial and decent/average

Non-Physical:

character/integrity

faithful

trustworthy/trusting

respectful

loving

not too loud not too quiet can communicate well enough

financially set

career/educationally oriented

waa-lah

[Guest redyellowblue]

Id rather go for the average looking guys, there is just something about averageness that makes guys attractive. It also helps that one we're married, most girls who shoot for extreme hotness arent chasing my man

I generally find white guys attractive. Ooh and Costa ricans when I was there!

Height wise, taller than me Id prefer. Im 5 3 and Id like my guy to be around 5 7 and up. I also tend to like bulky guys, sometimes taller bulky guys. Not overweight though, muscular with a little bit of meat. Hair... not so much a fan of blonde or red. I like a neat shorter style too. I could go on and on! Haha.

Personality wise-

Sensitive but doesnt take any crap

Intelligent and mature

Respectful and understanding

Ambitious and motivated

Loyal and trustworthy of course

Passionate and open to what others have to say.

Hey, im not asking for much!

[Pure 66]

Hazel, blue, light brown, or green eyes and medium or dark shortish hair (not a buzz-cut, but not so long it covers his eyes). Taller than me (I'm 5'4" but prefer 5'7" and up) with a slender/muscular build.

Personality traits: hard-working; kind; intelligent; goofy; sarcastic; understanding/sensitive--to a point (sometimes too much sensitivity can be annoying); hygienic; driven; a little reserved but still open to trying new things; adventurous.

Other stuff that I like...health and fitness enthusiast; christian; and educated or has a white collar job.

However, a guy doesn't necessarily have to have all or any of these traits to be attractive in their own way

[MarriageMaterial 1,389]

Okay here goes:

Physically I'm not attracted to guys with movie star good looks I tend to immediately distrust them. I like a guy with kind eyes and a warm friendly smile. I dont tend to have a specific height/build that Im attracted to Ive been attracted to all types of heights and build. I think I generally prefer dark hair and brown eyes but that's not essential!

Personality/trait-wise I have a list:

• A guy has to be warm and friendly. Im an affectionate person so a cold fish would leave me wanting
  
• Generosity. I dont just mean money, I like guys who give their time generously
  
• I am definitely attracted to a guy who has family values and who is close to his family
  
• Morals and principles - I find these to be very attractive - they should be top of my list. A guy who sticks to his principles even when it is unpopular to do so is incredibly attractive
  
• Work ethic - I am not attracted to guys who have no work ethic and who think life is for lazing away doing nothing but having a good time. Whereas a guy who has a good work ethic is super hot!
  
• A good sense of humour. I love a guy who makes me laugh
  
• A gentleman. A man who treats a woman with respect and courtesy is swoon-worthy!
  
• Confidence but not cockiness
  
• Loyal and protective
  
• Honest - a guy has to be honest otherwise I'm not interested
  
• Does not drink excessively and doesnt need alcohol to have a good time
  
• Someone sociable who I would be proud to introduce to my family, friends and work colleagues
  

[Sophie 1,278]

Brunet. Eye colour doesn't matter. Has to be taller than me (I'm only 5'3".) Has to have a great sense of humour and a great smile. Confident, but not arrogant or cocky. Educated. Well-mannered. Laid-back. Preferably speaks more than one language. I have a thing for guys with accents (British, French, German, Irish, Australian,) but that's hardly mandatory. No tattoos (at least no large, unattractive ones.) Doesn't drink excessively. Atheist or agnostic, but Jewish.

That's all I can think of right now.

[MariaMilagros 6]

Taller than 5'9''

No Tattoos or Piercings

Not Racist, Sexist, or Homophobic

Doesn't Smoke, Drink, Use Drugs, or Engage in Sexual Promiscuity

Atheist

Vegetarian

Libertarian or Liberal Political Views

Introverted

Introspective

Interested in Intellectual Pursuits

Likes Being Politically Active

Doesn't Want Kids

[Keisha 177]

Hmm...Let's see...My dream guy...

I love a guy who:

Has a relationship with God and attends church on a regular basis

Has a great sense of humor

Is outgoing

Sure of himself

Confident

Respectful

A little protective of me (not overly)

Dresses nicely

I'm sure there are a lot more things, but that's all I'll list for now. Lol.

In the looks department, I'm all over the place. It's like I'm picky with everything that I like, but one thing will make me not attracted to a guy....One thing that I do like is guys who are taller than me and have like a football player build. I think they look like teddy bears.

[Keisha 177]

It's like they're these big guys who try to act all strong and mean, but they're really very sweet and caring and don't want anyone to know.

[ClosetVirgin 80]

I'm not picky. I want a man who doesn't fart really loudly and likes cats. I think when we meet the person we're gonna marry most expectations will fly out the window.

[Char 14]

Hey everyone I'm new to the WTM family so I thought I would finally answer a forum question!

Hmmm? My dream man is one who understands my youth, strength, energy, looks, and anything material will fade, but my ability to love "HIM" will always remain young-that is the man I want to invest my emotions with<3

[OneLovelyBabe 604]

What? I don't have a list just lying around....oh who am I kidding of course I do O.o (in order of importance)

Christian

Virgin

Trustworthy

Faithful

Prioritizes me

Long dark hair

Does music 

Into metal 

Down to just hang and not be doing anything sometimes

Puts my happiness above his

Cares for others

Doesn't watch porn

Doesn't do drugs or drink heavily

Funny

Random

Hard-Working

Stylish

Intelligent

Strong/works out/healthy

Tall

[Guest markb4]

What? I don't have a list just lying around....oh who am I kidding of course I do O.o (in order of importance)

Christian

Virgin

Trustworthy

Faithful

Prioritizes me

Long dark hair

Does music

Into metal

Down to just hang and not be doing anything sometimes

Puts my happiness above his

Cares for others

Doesn't watch porn

Doesn't do drugs or drink heavily

Funny

Random

Hard-Working

Stylish

Intelligent

Strong/works out/healthy

Tall

When you say "into metal", do you mean that you desire for him to be inserted into a plate of steel?

[OneLovelyBabe 604]

Hahaha! Like heavy metal music

[Candyhall 414]

Since I'm dreaming.......

-Christian (see Galatians 5:22-23)

-Can play a musical instrument, sing, or both

-Virgin

-Non-drinker, non-smoker, not a drug user

-At least 5'10"

-Attractive

-In good shape

-A good dancer (Have you ever seen "Dirty Dancing"? **swoon**)

-Considerate

-A gentleman (I am from the south, y'all!!)

-Financially stable

-Educated

-Caucasian

-Bilingual

-Faithful

-Willingness to learn

-Honest

-Hard-working

-Wants children/Family-oriented

-Active/Adventurous, but is ok with having a "couch day"

-Funny

-Shares my political beliefs

-Romantic

-Responsible

-Leader

-Assertive

-Apologizes/Admits faults & shortcomings

And I'm sure I could come up with many other traits, but for now, this is it.

Oooh! I knew I would thing of others!

I love love love when guys dress up. There are few things sexier than a man all dressed up!

Edited September 4, 2012 by Candyhall

[Guest RJ_]

Dream looks:

Tall! Haha, seriously I've never had an official boyfriend, but the guys I've been "talking to" or whatever have been 5'10"-6'4". I'm 5'1" and I love tall guys! I like "white boys," but I'm attracted to a lot of different guys. I don't discriminate. For some reason, I've just always had the attention of white guys and they treat me differently than black guys. I'm not racist or anything like that, either. It's just been that way... If he's white, I love dark hair and light eyes. But the black guy I had a little fling with in high school had black hair and greenish brown eyes. Then the Asian guy had black hair and brown eyes. The Puerto Rican I was crushing on (and he liked me too, but we never let it go anywhere) had green eyes and dark brown hair. I like all kinds of guys, so I can't personally say what he has to look like. He just needs to have honest eyes, a nice smile, and be tall. I like to stay in shape and work out, and I eat right... So naturally I want him to take care of himself, too. I don't drink anymore, but I don't mind if he had an occasional beer or two... Just not a party boy. No way. Then...

He has to be smart. Doesn't matter if it's book smart or street smart, but he has to know what he knows and know it well. I'd like it if he was an intellectual kind of guy, just because I am an intellectual. I love books, so it'd be cool if he did too. He needs to know how to properly construct a sentence, and pronounce his words clearly. Haha. For real. I don't mind some slang, but you can't be speaking an entirely different language. He has to love God and put God before me and our relationship, and even before himself. That's an absolute must. Before I got serious about God, I use to think I'd bend on that rule. No way. I do not want an unequally yoked relationship. No thank you. He needs to be honest at all costs, be able to communicate with me no matter what, and have a sense of loyalty. I don't want him attached at my hip, but I don't want him staring at another girl's hips for too long, either. He needs to understand and respect the importance of family. If he loves kids (like I do) that'd be a great bonus Of course he'll have to respect my decision to wait until marriage, and when we're married I'll make sure it pays off for him. Haha.

[Neen 483]

Tall

• Taller than me
  
• Preferably 6'0(makes me feel little and safe)
  

He must have wanderlust

Fit

• Not a bodybuilder, but takes care of himself
  

Like to dress up

• There is something about a man in suit. mmmm
  

Open-Minded

Bilingual

• A huge plus if he knows Arabic(or is learning)
  

A good cook

Believe in God

Likes to do charity work(because I do!)

Intelligent

Have a sense of humour!

He should love me, lol.

[Guest PrincessZelda21]

Christoph Mayer

[Guest markb4]

Christoph Mayer

Wud that by chance be Chris's real name, lol?