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My name is James and I'm 33. I'll admit since I moved with my father back in 1991 at the age of 9 years old, I was exposed to lots of hardcore porn on magazine and on video. However, I never have slept with any real women or experienced orgasm at all.... I've had very few sporadic close encounters and have said no to at least to 40 or 50 women that wanted to sleep with me. At this point in my life, I just don't feel right being with a woman sexually unless we can relate to "holding out" for each other until marriage. I'm very adamant about only wanting a virgin. Period. I live in South Florida and the area I live in is very transient as well as lots of heavy tourism - which makes it even harder to find a decent woman who has actually "waited" for her husband. The only answer I can think of is joining these forums for open discussion, researching statistics of what denominations or jewish temples statistically have abstinent movements/ministries and then date maybe 1 woman a month and allow time to take care of itself to find the right one. Any comments?? I really don't feel I'm being picky... at all... I'm just adhering to my convictions... James