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What up, I was just wondering if any other guys find it difficult to wait? I am 26 and currently in maintenance in the Air Force. When I was a teenager I had to few opportunities to take the path most traveled so to speak. However, I wasn't the smartest teenager and didn't see the signs. When I turned about 20 years old I figured I my "blindness" was more of a gift and I should continue waiting. It is by far the most difficult thing I have ever done. More difficult than basic training, more difficult than special ops orientation course, it by far takes the number one spot on the list of difficult challenges. I don't know if anyone else has ever served, but working in maintenance sex and past sexual partners is pretty much an open subject. After a year or so I began to feel as if I was the only guy in the world who had chosen to wait, but I keep pushing myself to resist the urge; I kept thinking "There must be women out there who wait too". My advice to anyone who has trouble waiting is occupy your time with other things, fill your mind with other adventures life has in store. I have done this myself. I am three classes away from completing my associates, certified SCUBA diver, sky diver, and have visited more than six countries. Basically there are plenty of other things to do. Also keep in mind the benefits of waiting, survey results report better a sex life. better communication, better marriage stability among couples who wait.