Hi, guys! Evanescent_Beauty here! I'm a 24-year-old female grad student living in Boulder, CO (originally from Illinois) and hoping to meet some great people here! If you're wondering about my avatar, it's a picture of nightshade, which is sort of my totem flower. I found this site thanks to a friend. I decided to wait till marriage officially about a year ago because of some really bad past relationships. It seems that the heartache would have just been worse at the breakup if those relationships had included a physical component. Also, waiting seems to be a great gift for my future husband, and it's also known to be spiritually beneficial. It'll be nice getting to know y'all and it's great to know none of us are alone in our choice.