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  1. Networking Newbie!!!

    I just joined this site. I am 26, single, waiting for marriage, so in love with Jesus that I love Him with my body and save my sexual energy for future hubby. I am very fun-loving, goofy, playful. I am an elementary school teacher. It's incredibly stressful and rewarding.... I'm SO thrilled that I found this site. I do not date; I believe in courting, on building a friendship toward marriage with a marriage-eligible partner. I'm getting older and the wait is both easier and harder----the fight to resist temptation is easier because I've overcome in the past and rely on God's grace to keep me going. The fight to wait on God for a mate is becoming harder as I age because I am getting a little anxious; I want to be married and start a family. I attend a small church and there are only a few men around my age. Just from looking around at this site, I really wish there was more we could do about gathering Christian singles. We are to wait until marriage for sex, but it is hard to meet wholesome Christian guys, for one. Then, it is hard to meet other virgins or celibate/abstaining Christians. This leaves me totally dependent on the divine intervention of God in order to find a suitable mate. (Father God loves when we are totally dependent I wish there were mixers and other events (arranged by the church) where I could meet other singles who are serious about Jesus, courting, and not sleeping with each other before marriage. It's great to be dependent on God and all, it builds your faith, blah blah blah, but yeah, you also get weary in well doing. And hope deferred does make the heart sick.... Please feel free to join my facebook support and networking group for Christian singles. I just created it today. Also, I respect that this site was started by a non-believer. Anyone can join. Thanks
  2. Greetings!

    Hi all, I have been seeking a communnity of like minded singles who are waiting until marriage to have sex and I stumbled upon this site! I originally sought a Facebook group but did not find this type of thing. Not sure if this site has one meant for acutally meeting ppl but I did make one if anyone is interested! Hope to see you there!
  3. I am in need of some help. I am in a relationship (recently got engaged) and I love my fiance. She is the light of my life and I know that she is my soulmate. I can’t imagine myself with anyone else, and I know God has shown me that she is the one. Both of us have a sexual history with other partners, but mine was definitely worse. I have always wanted to be happily married to one woman and one woman only for my whole life. However, most of my past relationships were very brief. Due to this, I was naive in the area of long term relationships and it has caused me to hurt my fiance in many ways. I was at first very open about my past, in fact too open to the point where she became angry with me. Because of this when confronted with women I knew and questioned about my past with them, I lied or tried to brush it off because I knew it would upset her, which was obviously a horrible and wrong thing to do. I can’t fully explain why I did it, I feel that I had been a liar in the past so unfortunately my knee jerk reaction in pressure situations was to do just that. As well, in our early days of dating I shared with her that I had watched pornography while we were dating. This is something that I had struggled with since my teenage years. I had always wanted it out of my life, but could never seem to do it. When I told her about it she explained to me that to her, it is no different than cheating and I agree with her. Because of her I no longer watch pornography. As well, one of my ex’s is of a different race. This has given my fiance lots of doubt in that she is even the “type†of woman I want. I try to reassure her that even though I was attracted to a woman of a different race at one point it does not mean I have some sort of preference to a certain race of person. It is still hard for her to believe this because she is attracted only to men of my race. Early in our relationship I still had a facebook account. I am part of a network marketing company, so I try to keep open ties to people in case of possible business in the future. I had also lied to my fiance about going to coffee’s with other girls because I thought it would upset her, which again I know was wrong. I have had my facebook account deactive for the past 6 months and I reactivated it today to remove everything from my pages and permanently delete it. When I did this, she viewed my wall on her phone and became upset about women writing on it from before I had deactivated it, but while we were still dating. That is why I am writing you now because we just had one of our biggest fights about that. I feel like such a horrible person because of all of these problems. Because of my horrible decisions in the past and early in our relationship I cause the woman I love most in this world a lot of pain. I’m not asking for sympathy or a message talking about what we both can change. I am the one who wronged her, and I need to know what I can do to show her that I love her more than anything on earth, I would do anything for her, and no woman in my past, present, or future will ever, ever change that. I know the main reason I am still hurting her is because I broke her trust. I know this may take years or even a lifetime to restore, but I am willing to go through all of that for her. If you can offer any guidance (scripture to read) it would be most appreciated. Thank you