I am a 19 year old female and abstinence is very important to me. It is something that feels right for me and I know in my heart it is what is best for me. The only thing killing me is that I feel like no one will love me enough to wait or think I am special enough. Thinking about this really breaks my heart and I just want to find someone that will love me for who I am. Where do I go to meet people with the same values? Should I give up?