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  1. Hi Is it possible for a guy to wait till marriage in being with group of girls and late night parties ??
  2. I am 29 ambitious passionate confident, I have big goals for my life, i am a Christian man, I am a virgin man by choice, I have had experiences with women in the past but never had sex, I can explain reasons why never sex later, I am open to discuss anything regarding myself for a woman who is seriously interested, I would like to talk first to see if we are mutually interested and eventually meet, I can provide my email and share pics if interested thanks
  3. Miseries

    I hope this doesn't come off as hateful. It's misery more than anything. My whole life I've felt entirely alone because peoples morals when it comes to sexuality are disgusting to me. I don't want to be near anyone. They make me despondant and intensely uncomfortable. Classmates, strangers, family members, religious groups, they're all the same in that they don't care for this virtue that is so important to me, crucial in fact, and I feel more and more crushed every single day to be so alone in my beliefs. Relationships have obviously been unfulfilling, mostly damaging, some even driving me to self destructive or even suicidal tendencies. Probably as a result of feeling isolated because of their different views, depressed by their sexual histories, and nervous by their desire to have sex with me. Most people tell me I must be asexual, but that confuses me, since asexual people do not consider me to be so. Also in general, I tend to disagree with asexuals on their morals too. Asexuals aren't necessarily WTM, and most celebrate liberal sexuality as much as any other. I just want to go on adventures and meet characters and exist without sex being in my face everywhere, and a thing everyone does, everyone talks about all the time, reminding me that I am alone, making me feel disturbed and heavy all the time. Last June I wanted to die. Suicide is never something I wanted to do, always seemed stupid and ridiculous considering I don't really have any problems, but something in me snapped one day and I ended up putting myself in a coma. I never even wanted this to be a big part of who I am or what I worry about, it seems so S T U P I D to talk about it and have it be such a big deal, (if you even CAN talk about it, because most people get insulted if you try or just end up making you feel even more alone, ridiculed, or perturbed.) The worst part is, there are SO MANY OTHER INTERESTS I HAVE but I can never open up about them or express them to people because this whole issue has to be so damn depressing, and instantly smothers any desire I have to connect with most people, even casually. I can't believe I am such a small minority. It's so disheartening. I'm entirely dissociated from society. Even in places for suicidal or depressed people, the general focus is ALMOST ALWAYS ENTIRELY about making people who are the opposite of sexually virtuous feel more accepted and comforted for their (usually really messed up) beliefs, and every time I've ever been to something like that I always left with a feeling of "wow, I have literally never felt worse." It's not that I even particularly desire companionship or a relationship or anything to do with people at all, just ONE environment I don't need to constantly escape from to stay sane. I don't even feel comfortable in church or youth groups. Christian people don't really seem to care about this virtue either. I really have no idea what possessed me to join this thing and write this. I don't know, have any of you who are virgins waiting til marriage experienced similar depression? I have never in my life encountered a single person who felt the way I do. The only wtm person I have ever known in my whole life was not a virgin and also didn't really have any depression or social anxiety around people who weren't. Ayudame.
  4. Trying this site out again

    Hi I am Seth, 30 year old male, from New Jersey and I am looking for new friends male or female and hopefully a life partner who is a female who is a virgin like me. I am a fun person who loves affection and compassionate and kind. I am a virgin i never found the right person to be that intimate with. I have never been in a relationship before.
  5. Well, hello strangers. I didn't know that this site existed before today. Thought that I would check it out. Going to go and look around.
  6. Am I selfish for wanting to marry a virgin? I have been waiting 29 years, and I feel guilty for praying to God for a virgin husband. I'm worried I might miss the man God has for me, but then I feel like I will always have hesitations if I marry a non-virgin, maybe never fully feel invested in the relationship or like they have the same amount of investment. Then I keep hearing our pastor talk about praying boldly, and praying further than we expect or think for things so that we can show we believe God is more amazing than we can even imagine, and that anything we ask or think will be given to us if we just believe. I'm so torn. I don't want to miss something great, but I also don't want to mess up because I can't just take my virginity back if I marry the wrong guy.
  7. As the title says, I am a 28 year old Virgin and I am saving myself as well as waiting until marriage to have sexual intercourse. Why? Because it is my choice and I want to wait until then because I think it is the right thing to do. But I honestly don't think my guy exists. I would love to find a guy that is a Virgin but he has to also have the following qualities, has to have a job, education, car, be able to drive, has his own place or lives at home with family or even roommates etc. BUT also he must NOT drink, smoke, or do drugs, nor must he have or want to have kids. AND he must be into metal, rock, and punk music, and love going to concerts, listening to the heavier sides of these music genres, black metal, death metal, deathcore, hardcore, metalcore, screamo, thrash, etc. Enjoy headbanging, mosh pits, crowd surfing, etc. Me finding a guy that meets ALL of these things isn't easy and it hurts me. I really am tempted to just give up because no man will want me.
  8. My name is James and I'm 33. I'll admit since I moved with my father back in 1991 at the age of 9 years old, I was exposed to lots of hardcore porn on magazine and on video. However, I never have slept with any real women or experienced orgasm at all.... I've had very few sporadic close encounters and have said no to at least to 40 or 50 women that wanted to sleep with me. At this point in my life, I just don't feel right being with a woman sexually unless we can relate to "holding out" for each other until marriage. I'm very adamant about only wanting a virgin. Period. I live in South Florida and the area I live in is very transient as well as lots of heavy tourism - which makes it even harder to find a decent woman who has actually "waited" for her husband. The only answer I can think of is joining these forums for open discussion, researching statistics of what denominations or jewish temples statistically have abstinent movements/ministries and then date maybe 1 woman a month and allow time to take care of itself to find the right one. Any comments?? I really don't feel I'm being picky... at all... I'm just adhering to my convictions... James
  9. Introduction

    Hi My name is Samantha I'm 28 years old, I believe in waiting til marriage always did. Even as a young child I always had a pure mindset. I'm just looking for people who share my believes I feel mighty alone in my plight of believes. I failed many times on my believes I'm not perfect. If anyone wants to chat with me message me I hope I can find a few people to chat with. Thanks I'm glad I found this site. Nice to know maybe there someone out there who thinks like me. I'm not letting go of my believes anymore nor I'm I going to settle for less neither should any of you. God Bless
  10. Hello All!

    Hello! I am a new member from Corpus Christi, Texas. I am also a college student. As much as I like to try to find other people that share my want to wait until marriage, I find it increasingly difficult in my college and today's society, in general. Sometimes, I feel very discouraged, and irritated at the whole issue. For myself, I would love to marry a virgin, but I am deeply saddened to say that I have only met one my entire life. And I've only ever met a handful of female virgins to be friends with. I am so happy to have found this site, just to have found a group of people like me.
  11. Every guy I have been with I have told that I'am waiting till marriage and they seem ok with it in the beginning but in the end it leads to them rejecting me or constantly pushing the boundaries. It makes me build up this wall because I'am tired of the rejection. Anyone else have this issue or any encouraging words.
  12. Hey everyone

    Just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Courtney and I'am 26. I have been waiting for marriage my whole life due to religious reasons. I havent really told people except guys I have dated and it has been a constant issue but I'am staying strong. Hope everyone has a good day.
  13. Hey everyone! My name is Jennifer and I recently wrote an article on here that was about dealing with my fiance's sexual past. (Check it out if you have the time!) I am a waiter, and I struggled immensely with dealing with the fact that my fiance was not a virgin. However, I was able to overcome my negative feelings and deal with them. In case you are not familiar with my story, we are very compatible on every level - he is everything I had ever hoped to find in a man, he is committed to me, respects me, treats me very well, and very importantly, he respects my decision to wait. The only thing that bothered me was that he was not a virgin. I was unwilling to simply let him go because he wasn't a virgin. I truly love him and could see how much I was hurting him with my jealousy and torment and it was important to overcome those feelings if I wanted him in my life. (The other choice would be to let him go, something I did not want to do.) What I was hoping was that if anyone had any questions/comments about sexual jealousy, they could post them here! I am more than happy to share any advice or answer any questions that people have or just hold a general discussion, if people wanted to share their own struggles or how they feel about the topic in general. - Jennifer
  14. Who here besides myself is still a virgin waiting for marriage and why? Just curious... Thanks lol Born agains are welcome too Feel free to friend me / add me / google chat with me / whatevs lol - I'm friendly!
  15. Hi - My name is Stephanie Lewis and I'm a casting director in NYC. I wanted to reach out because we are working with a major cable network on a new series about committed couples who have yet to consummate their relationships. Each couple will have the opportunity to go on a weekend-long intimacy retreat with world renowned Christian relationship experts as they work together on their journeys. Whether you have chosen abstinence for spiritual, medical, or emotional reasons, we will work with two committed people who are interested in taking the next steps in their relationship. The goal of this retreat and the ultimate series is to build a strong foundation as each couple embarks on a new and exciting chapter. If you would like the chance to work with the best sexual therapists in the country to enhance your emotional and physical life with your partner, this opportunity is for you. For more information and to talk to a casting director, please email RelationshipRetreatCasting@gmail.com.
  16. Hola :)

    Hello Everyone! I just wanted to say hey and that I have already begun to really enjoy this site! Growing up, I feel like I was the ONLY person in the world waiting. Luckily, I was blessed with some amazing friends that were supportive of my decision and encouraged me to remain a virgin (even if they decided it wasn't for them). A little about me, I'm 24, Christian and eager to hear about your experiences. Any questions, just ask. This site seems like a really fun, supportive community of people and I can't wait to learn more about some interesting topics! Be Blessed, ~LadyInWaiting "Be still in the presence of the Lord and wait patiently for Him to act...." - Psalm 37:7 (NLT)
  17. Virgins over 35

    I spoke with Mike and he said it was okay to post this. My name is Stephanie Lewis and I'm a casting director in NYC. I wanted to reach out because we are working with a major cable network on a new series about committed couples ages 35 and over who have yet to consummate their relationships. Each couple will have the opportunity to go on a weekend-long intimacy retreat with world renowned Christian relationship experts as they work together on their journeys. Whether you have chosen abstinence for spiritual, medical, or emotional reasons, we will work with two committed people who are interested in taking the next steps in their relationship. The goal of this retreat and the ultimate series is to build a strong foundation as each couple embarks on a new and exciting chapter. If you would like the chance to work with the best sexual therapists in the country to enhance your emotional and physical life with your partner, this opportunity is for you. For more information and to talk to a casting director, please email RelationshipRetreatCasting@gmail.com.
  18. lol, i didnt know how to word the question. But like I'm waiting until I get married to have sex, I'm 23 btw, but I've done everything but sex, because when I was younger I didnt really know God, and all my friends had had sex and I guess I didnt want to feel to "weird" or w/e. But I still never had sex with anyone because in highschool, I wanted to be in love before I had sex, and that didnt happen, and after highschool I though I waited so long, I might as well wait until I get married because It will be so special to be with just the person you marry, and Then once I really Got to know God and started having a relationship with him I decided it's 100 percent what i want to do, and i wish I would have waited on everything, but like i want to marry someone thats also a virgin, but if someone is a virgin and waiting until marriage, then he's probably tottaly a virgin. So I guess my question is, do you think a virgin guy whos waiting until marriage will still think its special even though I've done everything else with someone else, or just feel like theyre being with someone who didnt wait?
  19. Hello everyone, I am Wonder Woman~ Its nice to meet you all. I hope in the coming days to find, give and receive strength from your insights in waiting for marriage. Thank you, Wonder Woman Without further a due, We Bring you tonight: The Adventures of Wonder Woman In... Last Virgin On Earth. We asked Wonder Woman a few questions.Are you the last virgin on earth? Yes! Well, no. But it feels like it at any rate. We live in world where people treats virginity the same as sin. I don't know any other virgin apart from myself. I know they are out there (and here). With no one insight, I'm looking for aid and some guidance here. I am a 27 years old woman in United State, and a virgin. Just that statement alone makes me a rare person! Are you going to make? Not alone I will. (Phil 4:13). Matthew 11:28-30 NIV "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. {29} Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. {30} For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Waiting is not a burden, when I look to God.It's not about me waiting. It's about Him. I take my rest in Him.
  20. Okay, I've been talking to people about this topic before and would like to know your thoughts.... To me (and without doing deep research I believe this is the origin of it) wearing a white wedding dress on a wedding symbolizes purity, thus being a virgin still on one's wedding day. I feel that someone who has been sleeping around does not deserve to have claim to purity and to also show off with a white dress. It is a privilage that they lost. Many woman wear it only out of tradition perhaps not knowing. Depending on the replies I have a second or third question to follow.
  21. I don't believe that anyone should ever feel this way. I hope that my future husband and I can have good communication about sex and explore each other's fantasies/desires. What are your thoughts ?!?
  22. Hello I'm Amber :)

    Hello, I'm new here(first day) and I signed up once I saw this forum from Google. I'm 22 years old and a student at University of Wisconsin. I'm really attracted to health careers so, I recently switched majors from Business to Biomedical Science. Majoring in Biomedical Science will help me become a dietitian, nutritionist, or even a doctor. I love traveling, watching movies, listening to music, and shopping. I'm also very interested in other cultures and languages. I really like going to new places. I plan to travel to France and South Korea someday, so I'm learning both languages. I decided that I would remain a virgin until marriage when I was 15. I thought the usual thoughts about sex with having sex with your boyfriend and just remembering to use protection. That was until Rebecca St. James was talking about waiting on the Gospel Music Channel. This was actually a year before I started dating, so she persuaded me right on time. I read my Bible, said a prayer and began writing letters to my husband shortly after. I'm really glad I found this site and I really hope that someday everyone will see the importance of waiting till marriage.
  23. I'd like to know everyone's opinion on the movie "40 year old virgin". When I saw the preview was thinking that the movie is a typical mockery of people who are WTM. I didn't see it fully but I managed to see parts of it towards the end and then my thoughts leaned more toward that the movie is actually putting WTM in a good light. Now my question is, is it poking fun at WTM-ers orsupporting it?
  24. I never knew there were so many people like me. I'm 17 years old yet I've already made the decision that I wanted to wait till marriage years ago. I'm not exactly religious and when explaining why I want to wait till marriage, my friends say it's pointless because it's a "Christian belief". I don't believe that at all, it's simply my choice. I want to wait till marriage simply because it's more of a high moral value thing and to be honest I never really seen what was the big deal of having sex so young. I live in a town where girls my age lost their virginity when they were about 13-14 and now regret it. I had known that I would wait till marriage when I was about their age. Just had no idea how many people shared the same beliefs as me, or at least similar. Oh and I'm Stephanie by the way. *Waves*