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  1. Hi There :)

    Welcome Theresa! There are some great people on here!
  2. Greetings from a waiter with autism

    Welcome Fia! This is a great site!
  3. I think it depends on the guy but usually I am attracted to men with longer hair so... yes. Long hair is attractive on a guy. I understand how you feel @kavya!
  4. umm im leaving

    I noticed that in your first post @Michael G. you said that you had let us down. But you are not supposed to be holding us up in the first place. The only person holding anyone up is God. We can and are supposed to lean on each other, but it is done together. Together. I can relate to you needing time, please remember to talk to God and listen to what he has to say. This just popped into my head as I was reading all the posts and I think everyone should watch this- it is a great representation of the things we face on a daily basis and how God is always there. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. We are here for you, to help you.
  5. Romance

    @eugene, I agree. So far there have been a lot of posts about guys taking care of their girls and I would like to offer this: I would love to do everything and anything possible to make my bf/husband happy. I would love to spoil him and can't wait till I can reciprocate everything he does for me. The lady should definitely do these things for her bf/husband as well! It should be more or less even. But not neccesarily in the traditional way of a lady shows her love by cleaning and cooking, doing laundry, etc doing little things to brighten up his day. What are other people's thoughts? Agree? Disagree? Why or why not?
  6. Newbie here 😊, my story

    Way to go @yayi!!! Welcome!
  7. Hello, my name is Animdre

    Welcome and I second @markb4's post!
  8. Pet Names

    I personally have always been partial to 'love' as a pet name. Kid would be cute though as well. I have a feeling that lots of pet names or based on random incidents that turn into inside jokes. Also, just 'pet' itself would be interesting to try, could be endearing or it could be demeaning, maybe one day I will get to test it. For names to call my future husband, I'll just use what he wants me to most likely, unless its really lovey-dovey ooey-gooey stuff; not a fan. @Sunny I love your response and video to Raisin Bran!!! I definitely busted out laughing in the laundry mat. @Jordan I agree with old fashion and the Pride and Prejudice scene.
  9. "Settling"

    I would say give it time, because you never know, a spark could develop. However, if you have given it time and nothing has happened, I would say don't pursue further. To me, the fact that you are asking about this is an indication that you are not satisfied and are still looking for something more, so you would be settling if you continued/started the relationship. SnowWhite thank you so much for your post! I have been struggling in a relationship that I am in. I have known this person for over 6 years, we dated once before for about a week and I broke it off because of what you said: I felt miserable, wrong, something wasn't right when we would try to hold hands or be more romantic. That was years ago and as we are very close, we decided to try and see if more feelings developed by trying again. But I still feel the same way. I don't want to hurt him, I don't want to lose my relationship with him, he is an awesome guy and I have been waiting and hoping that a spark would come, that I would feel romantically attracted to him. I have also been a bit angry with myself for not being able to just feel that way about him. I am currently gone, traveling around the US and he has all these plans for double dates to go on when I get back and I actually really care about his mother too. I dunno, I'm sorry this definitely turned into a pity party monologue. I am just going to have to buck up and break up with him. Any advice or support you could give would be much appreciated! Don't settle! Pray to God for his love and advice, trust in him which I know can be very difficult (it certainly is now) but without him we would make a total mess with our lives that could not be fixed. Thank you to everyone who posted! It was great hearing everyone's advice and opinions!
  10. Intro

    Thank you!
  11. Intro

    I just found this site last night and I think it is great that such a thing exists! I have friends that I will definitely tell to check this site out. I am from St. Louis, MO but am currently in a program where I don't have a permanent residence. Right now I am in Bothell, WA but that could change at any moment. I had been wondering if waiting till marriage was really worth it; there are tons of stories of crazy things people have done that sound very fun and appealing. I was looking on the internet to find a realistic percentage of men that wait til marriage to see if I should have hope and wait or if there was no chance of finding a guy that had waited. This site has definitely been encouraging! I'm 20 years old and have lived a semi-sheltered life thus far. I have not been too worried or interested in dating but that has changed. Though there are tons of adventures I wish to have before I get married and settled down, I would like to at least get my foot in the door. So thank you so much for this awesome website and for everyone being open and honest! I look forward to sitting in on a chat!