My name is Connor and I've recently been getting into this WTM movement due to the changes in my life recently. Let me start off by saying that I am a 19 year old college student. Obviously, as a man at age 19, I am at the time of my life where my sex drive is peaking, and I am also surrounded by 100 other men my age (living in a fraternity), who constantly bring women home and who are sexually active.
It all started with my girlfriend whom I dated for 2 years beginning when I was a senior in high school. I loved and love her very much and despite going to schools that were hours apart, we still attempted to make a long distance relationship work. She was my first and only real girlfriend and we had a very special connection and bond, however the whole time we were dating I was blinded by her reality. You see, I was much more conservative than she was, and when the topic of sex came up we never saw exactly eye to eye on it. While she committed herself to me and told me over and over that she would wait until I was ready, I always knew that if I lost her she would be much more loose with other men than she was with me. After waiting a year and a half, we had sex (both virgins at the time). It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life despite only doing it a handful of times throughout a greater than two year relationship. Unfortunately I broke up with her a few months ago (not sexually related-internal problems) and she quickly found a new boyfriend whom she constantly has sex with. After breaking up with her I quickly realized I wanted her back, and still think to this day that she is the girl for me, however, when I found out how loose she was with her sexuality with her other boyfriend, I'm hesitant to take her back as it completely broke my heart.
So that is basically my main reason for coming here. While I have a ton of friends here in college, very few can relate to my views on sexuality. However, it is comforting to discover that there are other people (especially women) who can share the same views as me! It's about time I met some women, (though it may be online) who actually have some damn respect for themselves and their sexuality. And what gives me even more confidence is that if there are some here online, I know that there are some at my school. I just need to more actively seek them out as the men in our fraternity tend to favor the more "loose" women.
Anyway, I hope you didn't mind reading that lengthy novel. I am more of a reader than a poster, but I hope to have some insightful conversations with you all in the future! I look forward to meeting all of you!