Heather

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  1. Personally I've always liked older guys, but I've been starting to like guys closer to my age. The oldest I would date is 3 years and the youngest I would date is 1 year. So I'm curious, does it matter to you girls whether your man is older or younger?
  2. I'm asking the girls this question, so I'm curious to see what the guys will say. Do guys care these days if she's older? Does it ever feel weird dating a girl that is younger? Post your thoughts here.
  3. I just turned 18 a few months ago, so my range is finally unlimited. lol It really does depend on maturity.
  4. Yeah my interests have always been insanely older considering that I just turned 18. lol The guy I like at the moment is only 1 year older, but the last guy I liked was 4 years older and the guy before that was 8 years older.
  5. Seriously! lol I've never really been attracted to guys my own age because the majority of them were immature jerks. I guess it depends on the guy though. I really want my husband to be older, but not to where it becomes like a daughter/father relationship. that's just wrong. We have to be at the same maturity level.
  6. Whats in a Name?

    I've been wondering this question myself. I want to be a writer and I've always liked having the initials H.E.R. because they spell out her. So I want to use that for a signature and a logo. I've been wondering if I should keep my last name once I get married, but if it does end up being a deal breaker, I'll use her anyways, but take my husband's last name.
  7. Yeah, that's something I'm tolerant towards. I would honestly prefer that my husband would be taller though.
  8. When they like you, but you don't like them? I don't know how many times a guy I liked had found out or had an idea that I liked him and avoided me because of it. I currently have a friend who knows I like him, and he doesn't avoid me, but tries not to lead me on. So what do you do when a girl likes you, but you don't feel the same way?
  9. Greetings! :)

    Hello WaitingTillMarriage, My name is Heather Rios and I am an 18 year old Christian girl. I am mainly waiting because of my beliefs, but I have other reasons as well. I am waiting for the right person-why give it to someone I will date a few months/years if I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with them? So it goes along with my values and morals as well. My parents were both virgins when they got married and they have been together for almost 30 years now. I am happy to be apart of a site that not only acknowledges, but admires people who still decide to set apart themselves in a society where everyone is taking the easy way out. In the long run, they pay the consequences for their actions.
  10. Pet Peeves regarding Guys

    Guys who hit girls. I don't care if its playful, it is not right for a guy to hit a girl. And guys who expect girls to do everything. If a guy wants to go out with me, he better come to me. And of course, guys who are too cocky.
  11. Well there are many different types of loves as you said; romantic, platonic, family, etc. I only say it to someone if I'm close to them. My parents and I rarely exchange the words "I love you",but I do say it to my closest friends who are like family to me. It was awkward at first, but if a friend means a lot to me, I want to show them by saying I love them. Now we say it every now and then. Its only awkward when others question it. When that happens, we just explain that its friendly love. Its also my beliefs as well. The bible says that God is love so love is a strong word that isn't meant to mean solely romantic. I think when you love someone it means they are special to you and that you would do anything for them.
  12. Greetings! :)

    Thank you very much. I'm sure they are.
  13. Greetings! :)

    It definitely is awkward talking to my parents about that kind of stuff, but I figure its better to get the awkwardness out of the way then to not knowing you know? If I didn't ask certain questions I wouldn't have learned so much about relationships from my mother. I know that advice will help me when I do find the right person. Anyways thank you for your greeting!
  14. Greetings! :)

    It truly is and I admire you for it. Thank you for your warm greeting.
  15. Greetings! :)

    Thank you very much! I'm sure I will. *bows*
  16. Hey Sophie, I get what you mean. In today's world, girls aren't girls anymore. They give guys everything they have just to get it over with, but at the end of the day guys get tired of sleazy girls and want someone who will take care of them.
  17. Hi everyone!

    Hey Alice, nice to meet you! I understand how you feel, a lot of people laugh at me or look down on me for my decision to wait but I know I am saving myself from a lot of heart break and unnecessary pain. Also, I happen to know plenty of guys who are waiting 'til marriage. They are rare in this world, but that makes them even more special.