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  1. I have a bit of a problem...

    Oh yeah one more thing, NO ONE IS OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!!! Get out of that train of thought now.
  2. I have a bit of a problem...

    That's why no luck so far. Gotta go in there with some confidence. Now I'm sure you heard everything I'm about to tell you before but I think it might be different this time because I am pretty much in the same boat as you. Look at it this way, this might shine some light on your dilemma, would you date you? Got some bad news for you man you're gonna get rejected ALOT more in the future, it's life it happens. I got so many stories of getting shot down it's not funny. You have to learn to get some thick skin and move on to the next one. I know saying this crap is alot easier than going through it but it happens, even to the best of us. Confidence is a HUGE turn on, you have to man up buddy. Wanna be stronger and more attractive, workout. Want to be more sophisticated and whitty, read up on some things. Don't sit around waiting for dream girl to come around, make it happen. Best of luck buddy and just remember you're not alone.
  3. 100% in. I've passed the point of no return, there is no going back for me. Too much time and effort invested. I guess that's why they call it faith.....
  4. What kind of music do you like?

    House music. Jersey Shore anyone???????
  5. Hi I'm Abi

    Nah, the one for you will still be out there.
  6. Your Dream Girl!!!!

    Dr. Lindsay Marsh. She is everything I would want in a woman. I love everything she stands for and not to mention she is beyond beautiful. As usual she is one that is already taken . She has a good site if anyone might me interested.
  7. What would you do if...

    40 is only the magic number now because of a movie. The 40 Year Old Virgin was great but really why is 40 a bad age now? Why not 30? It's going to happen when it happens. There is no meter on something as precious as what we hold so sacred right?
  8. Hahahaha this is great. I get grief all the time about this. Don't even worry the family just wants you to be happy. Now being single is different than having sex, kids etc.... I'm single and you gotta understand that they just want you to be happy and it's pretty common when you are seeing someone you're happy. Now I get the "So Peter when are going to get married and start a family" speech from parents, grandparents, uncles, and aunts. It really used to bother me because it's not like I want to be alone. But I just make light of it and say I'm still taking applications LOL. Now the holidays are rough when you're single I know this but hey what are you gonna do. Keep on keeping on and enjoy the holidays the best way you can. Kinda corny but I'm going to say it anyways, it could be worse......
  9. where do u meet single waiters

    Dates are few and far between for me. I hang out with my boys and we do the club / bar thing. It gets old really fast especially when you aren't playing the "game." Your Prince Charming is out there for you girls I can promise you that. But just like you ladies on this site he isn't a dime a dozen so it will take some work or time to find him. Hang in there
  10. where do u meet single waiters

    Yeah I know, trust me I know. I've waited A LONG TIME and I don't regret one second of it. If I am blessed to find the one for me I know when I look back it will all be worth it in the end. Now I'm not saying stay home locked in your room. Get out there and date, meet lots of new people. You can't speed up whats meant to be, and if you try you'll be in for disappointment. You gotta do what you gotta do so I'm only offering advice.
  11. where do u meet single waiters

    If it's meant to be you'll meet the one for you where you are supposed to meet. I doubt there is a place where "waiters" flock to. Don't sweat it, let fate do it's thing
  12. What would you do if...

    You guys are still so young. Don't worry so much. Get your schooling done. Get financially set, go travel and meet people. If it's in the cards that you are 40 or older when it happens then so be it. Ask someone who got married young and you'll see what I mean. Remember the grass is always greener on the other side........
  13. Don't give in to what someone else says. Misery loves company, why would someone go out of their way to mock someones decision? I could care less what someone else does I can only worry about what I can control, myself. Be strong and keep looking. Remember diamonds take extreme pressure and thousands of years to form. Sure you don't have thousands of years but don't settle for coal. Your diamond is out there and just maybe you or your diamond hasn't formed yet.....
  14. Hello

    Thanks OneHappyGirl, and may God bless you too .
  15. Hello

    Hey Claire, pleasure to meet you too. Family is a great gift in life to have. Yeah like you its great to hear that there are still wonderful people out there in this world that have pride and the highest level of self respect. Over my time I've seen a lot of what happens when you degrade and cheapen yourself. I am the type of person that never wanted to look back and be embarrassed or regret what I did. Good luck in your journey and hope to talk again soon.