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  1. Aargh this can be frustrating! I love god but this is a hard one! Even if he was a looser chrisitan id consider! Would you marry someone who doesnt share the same faith as you?
  2. Possessive boyfriends

    I have been told that a boyfriend should never act like they own you. I have seen this sadly. Especially in Hs you see guys act like their girl is theirs. Since when? Why do some guys act like this? It drives me up the wall.
  3. I do. Not in a gold digger way. I plan to go to under and graduate school. I WILL have a high paying job. Money is extremely important because without it i can do anything with my life. I firmly believe money can buy happiness. Id rather cry in a Lexus than on bike. Even my mom said that was a good goal. I don't want to be the main provider incase i lose my job. But my husband will have a CAREER not a job. Doesn't matter how much i love him love will not pay the bills! No security guard, retail worker. An engineer,professor, business man etc. as you can see, money is important factor in my choosing a husband. Im high middle class myself, so i won't settle for less. Its harsh, i know. I wasn't taught that money is everything. If you make under 40K, then i wont bother with you. In my life i don't want to struggle financially when possible. Who would want to live in fear of not being able to be financially secure? But ive gotta admit, im also a material girl. Can anyone relate.
  4. Theres this boy that has liked me since the 6th grade. It was somewhat embarrassing. I left that school 3 months in to the year and never saw him again. Flash forward 5 years and i add him as a friend on fb. Hoping to catch up, i talk to him. He then goes on this "i love you " rampage. I say well u only knew fe for 3 months (he was new to the school) but he said it didnt matter. I told him to drop it because theyres now way we could be together because we go to different hs. He said hell accept the challange.....i gave him my number before he said this and literaly every 10 txts we send he tells me he loves me one way or another. What is wrong with him? Should i even continue to talk to him?
  5. No kids for me. I really don't want them. As for a wife, i might be a little submissive, but i stand on my own 2 feet
  6. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    @Missy i guess its just personal perspective. For some they can live a wonderful life with little money. Others cant. Because my ultimate dream needs money (i want to travel the world.)
  7. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    I guess ive lived a sheltered life. Ive been cushioned, and my parents support whatever field i go onto, and whoever i marry. I dont see a problem with having a job you hate for the money. What if your dream job was to become a doctor. Its hard work but its your dream. If you could never go to work again and still get paid, would you? You gotta work for money. Youre practically a slave to it. So any job that pays well is nice because of the money IMO (just not science or math too difficult for me)
  8. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    Whats even sadder is that some marriages run out! You've seen all the divorces its sad
  9. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    I feel it does run out as soon as money runs out. Sadly.
  10. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    Guess i need to start hanging out at the business department in college..jk!
  11. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    @cyon i can see where youre comming from the spouse should work just as hard. A phd requires almost 10 years of school. Thats alot of work! Also i need to make my own money just in case theres a problem, divorce, etc
  12. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    A professors average salary is 100k+ thats goldigger? I just want extra money what if i lost my job? I need money to fall back on if times are hard. Maybe you need to look at my posts before you post huh? I thought so. You see, idk what you want in life. But i know i dont want to sit on the couch all day. By my profile pic, i wanna go to egypt. You think 30K gonna get me there? No! Call me greedy, selfish. Maybe youre intimidated that i can be brave can come out and say this while youre still in the shadows. I adore the riches and nice homes and louis vouitton and channel i said it! So now its time for you to jump out of this post if youre going to critisize, understand? Thank you
  13. Who here aspires to marry a wealthy man?

    I just want to be financially stable. If he lost his job, id have the money to keep us going and vice versa. I think money is up there in requirements. I want to travel, how can i do that with out more money? I don't want to be a gold digger. Of course i have to be attracted to him, but if he doesn't make much, well have to constantly worry about money. I agree woman should provide for the family also. But if a man has a low paying job, sometimes you're the one who has to work for family survival. I don't like that.
  14. I watched the disney movie Brave, and it got menthinking: in ancient and medieval times, did young men compete for the hearts of women? I mean phyiscally wise, like maybe archery or wrestling. Maybe the lords or kings friends would send their eldest son to play these games and whoever won would marry her? Does anyone know if that really happened?
  15. This may sound confusing, but if your relationship with you SO is intercultural and you marry them, would you be willing to adapt to the culture? Ex. Chinese and western traditions?
  16. This isnt for christians or catholics its for anyone who attends a temple/mosque/church or anything similar. Would you be willing to go after your wedding night? Just a random question.
  17. What is your career?

    In school...but hope to become a history professor, or egyptologist!
  18. I wouldnt have a problem marrying another religion except my parents wpuldnt be to happy. They dont even agree with me marrying a catholic!
  19. So if your wife was christian, would you allow her to to take your kids to church
  20. I think its so hard if you like the person then you find out they aernt your faith
  21. Going to church after the wedding night?

    I would want to go on my vacation! I already honored god for the week by remaining pure lol.
  22. Going to church after the wedding night?

    If i know the people at the church, i wouldn't go. Especially if they went to my wedding because they know what we did the night before! I heard a story and this woman's husband was getting high fives and questioned about the wedding night. No thank you!
  23. Competing for betrothal?

    Well back then i bet not many were husband material! Lol
  24. Competing for betrothal?

    I would enjoy the attention. In real life, no boys pay much attention to me so to see a bunch of guys fighting to win me would be flattering