Your Dream Guy !! in Ask the Girls Posted February 18, 2018 · Report post On 12/16/2011 at 8:44 PM, Mike said: That's great! I used to say "I'll marry the first girl that intimidates me." And then I found such a girl, and was really happy with her for a while. But now I think I'd prefer somebody who I can relax with. Ultimately that relationship showed me that I was half the person I thought I was. I definitely don't want a guy intimidated by strong women,also being strong doesn't mean to put men down to feel less of a man.