seabutterfly

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  1. I'm sorry I cannot give you advice on this topic. But, welcome to the forum. Also know that your feelings are never invalid because they are yours. Also feelings are not facts, so they cannot have a right and a wrong. I hope you get the right help, and that one day you can move past this, in whatever way you choose that to be.
  2. Random Thoughts

    yes. “All you really need to know for the moment is that the universe is a lot more complicated than you might think, even if you start from a position of thinking it's pretty damn complicated in the first place.” -Douglass Adams And time is basically the universe. And the universe is basically time.
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    It's just a bunch of wibbly wobbly time stuff I guess.
  4. Random Thoughts

    All interesting fodder for existential questioning. I'd love to delve into this more. But I don't quite have the *TIME* for an existential crisis tonight. P.s. I know I brought this up haha
  5. Just thought of sharing my experience

    @Syzygy you know, you might be right.
  6. Random Thoughts

    Ok, but how do we know time is real? It could very well be nonexistent and we wouldn't necessarily know the difference. But maybe in a sense it has some reality to it. It depends on your definition. How are we supposed to define time?
  7. Random Thoughts

    Ok why is time so weird? It's so weird that half the time I barely know what it is. Is time even real?
  8. Just thought of sharing my experience

    I've never had a drink in my life, but I do know that addictions are terribly hard and destructive to everyone in one's life, and I commend you for quitting. I want to wish you strength through this time for you, even though this post is a little old.
  9. Hello everyone!

    Hey @arabella, we're around the same age and both catholic (at least for now). It's comforting to know I'm not the only one in this generation that's waiting.
  10. Finding Someone

    Simple answer: I don't. But I'm working on it. I think it's natural to feel that way. And I don't quite know why I'm responding, because this isn't exactly helpful. Eh, ok, I'll try to be helpful. Some things that make me feel less like that is, would I want to be with somebody who doesn't respect my decision? For me, it's no, and I'd rather just work on a relationship with myself. Also just come to terms with the fact that it is possible you will never meet someone. Think about all the other people in your life, and that your life can be fulfilling without a partner. Also, work on loving yourself, and think about how awesome of a person you are, and how lucky you are to be in your brain till the day that you die. If you have depression or another mental illness, thinking those thoughts are almost impossible, so you need to get professional help before you just start thinking positively.
  11. Obviously the atheists have got this one figured out. Personally, although I was introduced to this whole thing from Catholicism, most of my reasons for it are not religious. So I'd like to think that if I never had my faith I might not, but if I lose my faith I will still be waiting. But I'd love to hear if anybody's different than that.
  12. Hey

    Thanks for the warm welcome, everyone
  13. Old topic, but interesting. My parents are an interfaith couple (mom: Catholic, dad: Jewish) and it worked out for me, at least! I posted more about their relationship in a different thread so I don't feel like repeating myself. Anyways I'd be fine with marrying somebody from another faith or non- faith. This might be weird, but I might actually prefer it just because raising the kids how I was raised, with two different ideologies, and teaching them to be respectful of other faiths would be beneficial. Edit: I was raised Catholic and am a believer still. Both my parents are devout, my mother a bit more so.
  14. Engagement Ring Stone

    My dream ring wouldn't have the main stone as a diamond. I'd want a ruby (my birthstone) in the middle and then maybe tiny diamonds on the sides. I'd also want it to be a good ring that's or out of twisty. I've thought about this too much haha
  15. Hey

    Yeah hopefully it doesnt become a ghost town just when I decide to join!