Jon

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  1. Does it matter?

    Only asked as I was curious, cause you indicated going to your parents a few times, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, it just shows you come from a good family and you were thought well and any well brought up, respectable man, will and should always seek the lady's parents approval in marriage.
  2. I agree with you, Dictionary.com and Oxford English Dictionary, says " A virgin is some who has never had sexual intercourse" it never said male or female and I never said in my post that anyone said,"virginity only applies to females ", so to answer your question as to where I'm getting that idea from, I said it, referencing the original posters dictionary definition of a a virgin which was , "Penis inside a virgina " and that quote right there only said vigina and last I checked its only women that have viginas.
  3. I agree with you, Dictionary.com and Oxford English Dictionary, says " A virgin is some who has never had sexual intercourse" it never said male or female and I never said in my post that anyone said,"virginity only applies to females ", I how ever said it, referencing the original posters dictionary definition of a a virgin which was , "Penis inside a virgina " and that quote right there only said vigina and last I checked its only women that have viginas.
  4. Firstly I will say this topic and the definition of a virgin is very sexist because it only applies to females, so some replies that reference males from my perspective is irrelevant, if the question was to have been asked without making references to the dictionary definition then it would have been ok so making references to dictionary definition makes the topic explicit and trying to water it down to suit each individual ideology wether it's upbringing or rape experience is to me wrong and please I mean no disrespect to my brethren whose experienced such. So back to question in hand, my answers to question 1,2&3 is NO. And you cannot use 100% purity when it comes to human relationships without being a virgin with reference to both females and males. With women it's very easy to know if the lady is a virgin or not( this also includes the use of tanpon), but not so easy for men, if they lie about their virginity there is no way to know unless they 100% honest with the fear of God.
  5. Does it matter?

    Culture and upbringing most definitely matters allot. My first question is what's a Russel group and 2 are you living your life or is your happiness with your future husband dependent on your parents?
  6. 50+ virgin

    Well said Poisson, everyone waiting period defers greatly, but he was waiting on himself to be in the right place mentally, physically, emotionally, psychological and financially, and now that he is, he is now looking for a partner that is, which is like looking for a needle in a haystack, your qualities also differs, the qualities you looking for most definitely differs from the next but the basics are financial, mentality and maturity, so apart from the narrative, what are the qualities you looking for in a potential partner.
  7. New kid on the block

    Thank you red grapes
  8. New kid on the block

    Thank you Geraldine
  9. Does it matter?

    As we are all children of the same kingdom and we are all made in His image. When dating and looking for your soul mate does age, race, career and educational status matter, If so, why?
  10. 50+ virgin

    Will you have a serious dating relationship with a 50+yr old man, well educated, well travelled, with a good career who is looking to settle down and have a family, if you are 30 and below or will you think he is toooooooo old and think something must be wrong with him to be this old and still searching and prefer a younger man of the same age group?
  11. ok question, "GRAPHIC"

    My question is will you ladies marry a 50+ virgin man?
  12. New kid on the block

    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome
  13. New kid on the block

    Thanks for the warm welcome PG1, I tell you it's such a breath of fresh air knowing I'm not alone
  14. Hi Everyone! Newbie from London, UK

    Hello homie, I'm from London too but now living in Atlanta, actually just got back a few weeks ago, wao! I can't believe you from London actually that was one of the reasons that helped me make up my mind to relocate, with all the liberal life style and also the laws govt are passing in schools, what a breath of fresh air. Hope the weather has begin to warmup, Well I'm very new too, to this forum
  15. Hello everyone my name is Jon and I'm so glad to find you guys cause I was beginning to think I'm the only virgin 52yr old AA man alive in this world, my friends are beginning to make me feel like I'm strange cause I'm still a virgin at 52 and being an African American man it's never heard of and that I must be a closeted gay man.