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  1. Newbie

    Welcome to the community!
  2. Hey DHZ, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way. Here is my advice: Learn to love yourself and think positive thoughts. Once you learn to love yourself first, you will bring joy and peace into your life, and you will love others the way you love yourself. Think of it this way; If you continue being bitter, it will push others away from you as it comes off as a negative vibe (sorry if this sounds harsh). But if you are more positive, you will draw others closer to you. I know as humans, we all have our off days when we feel sad, down in the dumps etc which is normal. But if you are constantly feeling this way everyday then you need to seek professional help to help deal with your emotions (counselling). And I understand how you feel about seeing couples happily together and people around you getting married because at times I too feel that way ever since my relationship ended last year. There are others who feel this way too. But what you need to understand is that although couples may appear happy in public and on social media, you don't know what happens behind closed doors (arguments, abuse for example) and you don't know if they are truly happy with their relationship. This is why I advise you to love and appreciate yourself first and be content with what you already have, only then you are able to love others. Another thing is to not compare yourself to your guy friends/others because not only will that make you unhappy, you will also lose confidence in yourself. So, believe in yourself because you are just as special as anyone else in this world. So if you like a girl, approach her and make conversation, get to know her and see where it takes you. If she likes you back, then that's great! But if she rejects you then don't take it to heart, just realise she wasn't the one and move on. There is someone out there for everyone and that includes you. Have faith in yourself and hope you feel better soon. Live your life, travel, make new friends and surround yourself with positive people. Don't expect 'the one' too soon. Love will find you when the time is right God Bless. Sneya
  3. Hi Everyone!

    Welcome back to the forum!
  4. My Life

    Welcome to the community!
  5. Made a promise to God

    Welcome to the forum, Rick! You are never alone
  6. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. My advice to you, is to not dwell on the past (sorry if it sounds harsh), as it is only going to make you feel worse about yourself. Instead of thinking that you'll be alone forever, focus on the positives and make the most of your life doing things you enjoy. Go out there, join sports clubs, book clubs (if you like reading), volunteer, do things you love and believe me when I say this (or type this); when you least expect it, you will meet someone. There are plenty of girls out there. There is a special one for you. If it helps, note down all the positive things about yourself and keep it, so if you feel low again, you can open the note and read all the good things that make you, you. So tell yourself that you ARE worth it, because you are! All the best
  7. Hey y'all

    Welcome to the site!
  8. Fears and Phobias

    I'm terrified of spiders, not just big ones, but little ones too. The way they crawl on their eight legs just makes me cringe. Im also scared of heights because I have a fear of falling and badly injuring myself. And finally, I have a fear of presenting in front of a large group due to my anxiety.
  9. Random Thoughts

    Interesting article. I had no idea! Well, you learn something new everyday
  10. Random Thoughts

    Aha good answer!  Love it! But if the dinosaurs laid the eggs, wouldn't baby dinosaurs hatch out of them instead? And have there own little dinosaur kingdom
  11. Random Thoughts

    What came first. The chicken or the egg? The mind wonders...
  12. Ann here from Philly

    Welcome to the site, fellow waiter! You're never alone
  13. Hi! New Arrivee

    Welcome to the site!
  14. How do you intend to meet your spouse?

    Yeah you are right on that one. The US does have a bigger population than the UK. But wherever our soulmates may be, we will find them when the time is right
  15. Agnostic and Waiting

    Welcome to our community!
  16. How do you intend to meet your spouse?

    Hi Ringer, Good question. Like tams has already answered, its a mixture of going out and doing things. Such as events, volunteering etc. I also plan on joining dating sites to see what matches are out there. If I save up alot of money, I might consider moving to the US. Im currently in the UK, and although my ex had waited and I also have many friends who are waiting, the majority of guys here believe in 'test driving a car before buying it'. Whereas I've heard that there are more people in the US that wait until marriage and it seems to be common there compared to the UK. But in the meantime, im just going to live my life and be happy I trust God and his plans for me
  17. New VTM

    Welcome to the site Kristine!
  18. Hi!

    Welcome to the site Roni!
  19. Hi! I'm new...

    Welcome to the site William! Sorry to hear about your break up but its a good thing you know your worth. We are all hear for you!
  20. Saying Hello!

    Welcome to the site!
  21. Hopeful, Optimistic & Waiting for Ms. Right

    Welcome to the site Vanguard79!
  22. still waiting for the one

    Hello San! I am good thank you! How are you? You are very welcome! Ah right, well it's a good thing you know your worth because they were never worth your time. You deserve better I don't know of any celibacy dating site but I've heard that OkCupid asks a question about whether you are waiting till marriage etc And like yourself, I am from England too! Welcome to the site by the way! P.S. Sorry for the late reply! I've been busy these past few weeks.
  23. Would you date a guy who's still living at home?

    Yes I would as long as he is like you mentioned, making something of himself. I'm currently working temporarily so I understand that these days it's hard to get a full time job.
  24. still waiting for the one

    Hi waiting4the1, We all have ups and downs in life but things will fall into place when the time is right. Your view on life is positive and the right guy will love that about you. Keep up the positivity! Have you tried any dating websites where you may meet like-minded people? If not, that can be an option to look into. Or maybe join a sports club to increase your circle of friends. Continue being you!
  25. What religion would you choose other than your own?

    I'm a Hindu. If I had to choose a religion, it would be Christianity.