Dalisoul posted a topic in Topics About Waiting and/or RelationshipsSo...i just joined here and I am learning a lot from other people. I just wanted to know people's views on the above question. I am a Christian plus virgin and it seems that most guys seem to hesitate to take things further when they know someone is a Virgin. So my question is (not that I am dating, but when someone approaches me) when is the right time to tell someone that you are a virgin or is it none of their business until they claim to want something from you? Personally, I wouldn't want to waste my time with someone if they won't respect my choice but I also know it's not fair to force my own beliefs on someone else. I would want someone who is abstaining or is a Virgin too, takes the pressure off. Any words of advice or wisdom?