sheris

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About sheris

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  • Birthday December 2

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    Right now? Nothing and Evrything

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  1. JOKES

    Saw this on Facebook today, and I find it funny.
  2. Ambivert here, if I could claim one I'll say I'm an introvert, but sometimes...not really And relationship wise? I'd prefer an ambivert or introvert. don't like extroverts as I know them, don't think we would get along good.
  3. Dating

    I have read most of your comments and I can understand the different point of views. Experience has taught some people to see life and do things differently, for me it has taught me not to downgrade other people's idea just because I don't agree with them. If you think it wrong, that's just how you feel and if you think it's right doesn't make the other person wrong its different strokes for different folks. I was listening to a recorded preaching one day and a preacher advised women to keep seeing other men until there is an engagement. At first I didn't agree with him because I don't like the idea of double dating but I know what he meant. And seriously as long as there is no commitment as in engagement I don't think its wrong to not put all your eggs in one basket. I don't see it as cheating cos whether we agree or not a relationship is just a getting to know process anything can happen and anyone can walkaway. More reason why sex shouldn't be involved. unless you are sure you want to spend the rest of your life together in which case you seal it. Plus its easier to deal with breakups.
  4. For me, I'll say its a good idea to ask any adult for help meeting girls if you trust their person, you know they are not going to be immature about it. they wont mock or make you feel bad because you asked them for help. you trust their judgment, you know they would know a good girl when they see one and their idea of a good girl would not be far from yours. There were times when some ladies(distant relatives)would try to hook me up, and I didn't even try to meet the guys cos I already didn't like their own choice of men. but if it was someone you know has a "good taste"(in your definition) then why not.
  5. well, I just know one thing for sure, I am not going to be waiting forever. It is not God's will (if it was, many years ago when i was still a catholic and wanted to be a nun, I would have gotten the support i needed) and its nolonger mine. There is a list of what I desire in a partner, now some are very important why others are just desires(though they are all important) I can overlook the others as long as the most important ones are there. Otherwise, I'll just wait till I meet him.
  6. What is your dream guy?

    lol... yea, I am
  7. The secret of happiness

    another nice article, tnx Geraldine! I try to encourage myself to be happy after i have been hurt in anyway but it takes quit some time and until then i still kind of blame my sadness on people and situations. I hear people say don't let anybody or thing determine your happiness,and i wonder how they do it so easily. I know am going to get it someday.....soon.
  8. What are you reading?

    my coursebook, I have exams
  9. Need some girls views

    I think if you meet the right one, she would be happy with you irrespective of your sexual experience. Few days ago in another forum a guy made a thread, stating that he was a virgin and wants to know if any girl would like to marry him, and some ladies who commented, admitted that they were non-waiters but don't mind marrying a virgin and some said they prefer to marry one. So I believe it is not every non-waiter that is crazy about marrying an experienced guy. If she knows you are a virgin and appreciates that, then you have nothing to worry about.
  10. Hello! New here...

    Welcome to the community!
  11. Hey People...

    Welcome to the community!
  12. Profile Pictures

    well I use to have my pics here, when I was taking a break I deleted it, came back and didnt want to use the same pics so I used this one.Its my Ideal environment for relaxation. like crystalfaerie I saw it somewhere that adding your pics gives you extra point and I also like the Idea of putting a face to a name but then when people don't put their pics it didn't matter to me. plus its not my real name so.....
  13. Hi Everyone!

    Welcome!
  14. Brain Teasers

    Right!
  15. Brain Teasers

    you actually got them right except for no.10 I would tell you the answer now but I could ruin it for people who are playing. Nice! you did 8, that's more than I did the first time.