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  1. Non-waiters withholding

    (I just stumbled upon this forum looking for some answers to my dilemma, in hopes something I read would hopefully make me understand my gf's pov better. I hope this is a proper place for this question.) Ever since I knew my SO I knew that she was the one. We have both had relationships before, but recently it has come to my attention that she wishes to withhold from us having sex until we get married. One reason that came from the thunderstorm that was that argument was that I am special and she wants to keep something to look forward for after marriage. I will do it for her, but what's driving me crazy, is how can being special being a reason for doing that? IMO it doesn't make sense, but I really wish to see it from her POV to be able to make peace with it.