Joseph

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  1. Well, WTM used to be the norm here in india but it's changing so quickly. I guess modernization is changing all those good old values people used to have. In most colleges and schools girls and boys don't usually wait here anymore. The number of people who do wait like me are reducing ever so rapidly. ....
  2. If you would be a celebrity...

    If it was asked i would be very honest about my stance on the topic and share it, but i wouldn't want to flaunt it around for everyone to see. What i meant is im not going to chicken away from my stance on wtm just because society thinks differently.
  3. Hi everybody!!!

    Greetings to you Robby, Nice to meet you and welcome to this blessed site. You feel right at home here...
  4. new here

    hey sheris, welcome to wtm. its real nice to meet you. im joseph btw and youll feel right at home here. Setting up a profile pic is easy. ill guide to through it in the best way i can 1) First click the black box on the right hand side that says: Edit my profile 2) On your right hand side of the new page click the profile settings tab 3) Click on the change my photo tab and upload your photo. Hope that helps sheris Joseph
  5. I decided to wait because i feel sex is one of the most amazing feelings a human being can experience. So why share that experience with more than one person. Besides, we as humans are programmed to compare everything in life including sex and that's something i don't ever want to do to my wife. Secondly i believe God gave sex to bond with one person in life and have kids with that person and not use contraceptives and have many sexual partners (which is the norm).
  6. Random Thoughts

    I wonder if i am the only guy who enjoys watching animation movies even at this age....(im 25 btw).. Just watched inside out a few days ago....
  7. Well Amy, i dont think im eligible to answer this but here goes, Im pretty sure, just like you there is a guy who made a mistake too and lost it to someone and regrets it the same way. Probably when you meet a guy like that you both are going to start of on the right path together. Maybe like you pointed out it might be hard with a virgin guy cause he might be looking for a virgin as well. But there are so many guys who've made the mistake of losing it to someone they thought theyd spend the rest of lives.They want to start fresh too. I feel if you find a guy like that, both of youll can wait together and your waiting till marriage pledge would actually be much stronger than ever before. Just my 2 cents, hope it helps Amy Joseph
  8. Hey Guys, I just recently came across this study on premarital sex and sex after marriage. It's really glad to know that all of us on here might be doing what nature intended us to do. Since the majority of the world are in favor of sleeping around and casual sex, these studies don't often make headlines or you know valuable articles worth reading cause you'll have tons of people bashing all the studies and all the proof it has...lol.. It may be common for couples to have sex before marriage, but a new study shows that couples who wait until marriage are happier with the quality of sex than couples who have intercourse before their vows. What’s more, couples who delay sex until their wedding night have more stable and happier marriages than couples who have premarital sex, according to the study, which appears in the Journal of Family Psychology. The study involved 2,035 married participants in an online assessment of marriage called “RELATE.†According to the study, people who waited until marriage: rated sexual quality 15% higher than people who had premarital sex rated relationship stability as 22% higher rated satisfaction with their relationships 20% higher Would love to hear what you guys have to say about this as well. ​Sorry guys i couldn't find the links to the study but if some one has it, please do post it. Kind Regards Joseph
  9. I decided to wait because, firstly God designed sex for one women to bond with one man and not multiple partners as is the case today. And secondly because its proven psychology that any human will compare if he/she is given many of the same type. It works out true in everything in life and no one can deny that. I don't want to ever compare my wife to anyone else. She's got to be my first and my best. Hope that was short enough mike..
  10. Hi Fellow Waiters

    Hi Guys and Girls, Im Joseph, and firstly a big big thank you to the creator and admins of this site. I came across this site in sheer luck and im so glad i found it. Truly a blessing from God to find people on here who think like me and have the same views about sex and marriage. First off, im from the southern tip of india and i guess there isnt anyone from there on here but it doesn't matter, as long as you guys exist anywhere in the world i have hope.. ...Im a christian and my faith is one of the main reasons im waiting, simply because i believe God made one man for one women in this world. It's great to finally meet people who have the same values as me and i'd love to get to know all of you. It's so hard to wait nowadays with most of my friends and cousins telling me its pointless or no girl is going to wait. They keep telling me that im waiting like a loser because most girls do have sex with guys before they get married. To be honest it hurts real bad cause i had many chances to give in but i just held back thinking my wife should be the one and only girl in this world to even see me naked. Sometimes i feel i shouldn't have been born in this generation with values degenerating and so few people with the same views about sex. Id love to meet a lot of people on here and hoping to make many many friends in the days to come. Only you guys would ever understand why im waiting and my justification behind. Thanks for reading and looking forward to seeing you all around
  11. What offends you?

    One thing that would put me off is when i'm having a conversation with a woman and shes constantly tapping away on her phone. I mean if shes having a conversation with me i expect her to focus on whats being said. So yeah that's something that would offend me. Hope that helps ClosetVirgin.
  12. Hi Fellow Waiters

    Thanks Jessea and 573V3N...Its Nice to meet you guys..
  13. Hi Fellow Waiters

    Thanks, Im so glad to be amongst you'll. This site was GOD sent along with all the people in it...
  14. Hello everyone!

    Hey Leiria, Welcome to the site.. What you said about a long lasting marriage, im with you a 100%. .
  15. I was curious about this too RdTripgirl, but i think bringing it up on the 1st date would come out as awkward. You could get to know the person a little better and when he opens up a bit about himself (ie. when he's comfortable) you could tell him there's something real important you want to let him know. Tell him its personal and see how he reacts. If he reacts negatively you know he just doesn't respect your view whatsoever. If he reacts positively then you could tell him why your doing and it and stuff. For me personally, it took longer. I became good friends with the girl and then i opened up. Hope this helped. Cheers Joseph
  16. Hi Fellow Waiters

    thanks Heatherk, I guess your new here too. Its nice to meet you...
  17. Hi Fellow Waiters

    and thanks riss
  18. Hi Fellow Waiters

    Thanks Jasmine and crystal faerie so glad to be here..
  19. Hi Fellow Waiters

    Haha, It's nice to know im not the only one. It's Kerala my brother. Im guessing your from Tamil Nadu. It's nice to meet you.