Kirsten18

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About Kirsten18

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  • Birthday 09/18/1996

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  1. Being the strong Christian that I am I would always tell people that I was waiting for religion purposes. However I started asking myself is that the only reason I am waiting, and it didn't take long for me to realize it wasn't. Besides religion the only other good reason I could think of is fear. For example I have a friend who lost her virginity to her serious boyfriend at the time and then a week later they broke, because of that she went into a self blaming depression and didn't talk to me or other friends for almost 2 months. I have another friend who has had many partners and she too has gone through depressive stages and is in therapy for emotion distress and other troubles, because she giving love but not receiving it . Long story short, I don't want to go through something like they did, and I have many other examples of how pre-material sex has both physically, emotionally and mentally harmed people close to me. So I decided to wait until marriage because I want to be with some who loves me for me and not just my body. Plus i also think it will build a stronger relationship, because during the dating stage you are getting to know the person on a personal level, their likes, dislikes hobbies, etc, and I feel that all of that is the basis of a strong and healthy relationship and hopefully marriage.
  2. Being the strong Christian that I am I would always tell people that I was waiting for religion purposes. However I started asking myself is that the only reason I am waiting, and it didn't take long for me to realize it wasn't. Besides religion the only other good reason I could think of is fear. For example I have a friend who lost her virginity to her serious boyfriend at the time and then a week later they broke, because of that she went into a self blaming depression and didn't talk to me or other friends for almost 2 months. I have another friend who has had many partners and she too has gone through depressive stages and is in therapy for emotion distress and other troubles, because she giving love but not receiving it . Long story short, I don't want to go through something like they did, and I have many other examples of how pre-material sex has both physically, emotionally and mentally harmed people close to me. So I decided to wait until marriage because I want to be with some who loves me for me and not just my body. Plus i also think it will build a stronger relationship, because during the dating stage you are getting to know the person on a personal level, their likes, dislikes hobbies, etc, and I feel that all of that is the basis of a strong and healthy relationship and hopefully marriage.
  3. New VTM

    Welcome Kristine!!
  4. Finally, a safe haven...hopefully.

    Welcome Joshua!!!!
  5. Hello everyone!

    Hello Leiria and welcome to the community!!!
  6. Hello World

    Thank you!!
  7. Hello World

    Thank you!!
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    Thank you!!
  10. Hello World

    No, I am not a programmer, Funny story I was watching the Wiz and I couldn't think of a title for my introduction, Michael Jackson i.e the scarecrow said "hello world" during a song and I was like well that would make an interesting title so I used it LOL
  11. Hello World

    Hi, my name is Kirsten just turned 19 years old (yesterday actually) and let me just say this website is a God send. I honestly feel that people think in this day and age being virgin and waiting until marriage is the biggest taboo and I feel looked down upon, I can't tell you how many times I have heard people say to me, " you wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first, it's the same way with people and marriage." When I found this website yesterday, I felt like it was a birthday gift from God, its nice to have a place to go where everyone feels the same as me on the topic of waiting until marriage. Long story short, HELLO EVERYONE!!!