DHZ

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  1. Actually, after thinking about it a bit. You guys are probably right, I was overthinking things again. Though there was one time put my arm around a girl I thought I was friends with, and she sorta freaked out and didn't want be near me for long time. Though in that case, I've known her for a while, but really was just my cousin's friend and not mine I guess.
  2. So one screw up, then I don't have any chance with her?
  3. Okay, so I went to game night where we playing games. We had a good time, it seemed like I was getting along with this one girl, so at the end I tried to get a hug. She only gave me a half hug, and she didn't seem like she was even into that. Since she didn't seem like she was into it, so I just accepted the half hug and didn't try to push things further. Am I screwed?
  4. Post the link to the discord on the Announcements and Feedback forum. We can use it as unofficial chat for now.
  5. How are you supposed to find a girlfriend when your depressed and don't really have support group, friends, or any church community. Really I don't feel accepted or like by most people. I do like and accept my self, but when nobody else does. I guess it just doesn't mean that much. I do appreciate the people the from the chat room. I really don't have that right now.
  6. I'm pretty shy, but when I do try to talk to girls they always just give me short answers with nothing much to go on. Also when even when I give a girl a longer answer when she asks me, she doesn't try to find out anymore about me. I really can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.
  7. hmm, becoming friends with guys has never really helped me be able to meet new girls.
  8. I've tried talking to the girls a couple of times and they just said a couple things to me, then just ignored me.
  9. This isn't really something the church is doing, it's happening naturally. And why wouldn't would you want to meet a girl at church where you know there's a lot higher chance of finding a girl that believes in the same thing as you. Do you really think that you'll find a good Christian girl at a bar or something?
  10. I've been getting more confidence with people lately and it's getting easier to talk to them, but it's still hard at church when the girl just seem to isolate themselves with other girls and not really have any opening for a guy like me to talk to them. I mean don't they want husbands. I don't know about them, but church is really the only place I have to look for a girlfriend.
  11. 1. I know I don't really have common interests that girls have. I'd be willing to try new things with a girl, but probably wouldn't want to that type of stuff alone. But yeah, once I get started, I'd probably get interested in that kind of stuff. 2. Hmm, I tried online dating for 6 months. It went nowhere and really I didn't even get any responses to the messages I sent. Though I'm not really interested in long distance relationships. Yeah, I've been asking God for help for 10+ years. No luck so far. I know, I've been trying to talk to people more. But progress has been slow. Though I have tried asking a couple girls out for coffee over the last couple months, neither one went anywhere though. Doesn't seem like there'd anyone else to ask anytime soon.
  12. I'm 28, Christian. I've gotten my associates and just about to finish my bachelors degree. My class are pretty guys only since it's more in the IT area and girl for some reason usually don't want to become programmers. I work as a cart pusher at a grocery store, and I also have internship where I'm some art and programming. Sadly that's a stay at home job. I also goto church once a week, and I'm not having any luck there. I also play magic the gathering at a card shop on Friday night, but girls usually don't like to play Magic. Personality wise, I'm pretty shy until I start to get know people. Then I start opening up as I start to trust them. I'm pretty laid back, I like to stay home or in a quiet environment. I'm looking for other areas to meet girls, but I really don't know where to go. I would like to find another Bible study to goto but not having any luck with that. Then there's also the fact that they usually tend to be guy or girls only. Interests, I'm in heavy metal, video game, anime, Magic: The Gathering, God, Mythology, lost of different things in that area.