A sad reality of being an older waiter in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships Posted December 9, 2017 · Report post I'll be 27 tomorrow. Honestly, I think I'm getting to the point of not caring if I lose my virginity. I'm still going to do the right thing, but if it never happens it never happens. More and more everyday I can't imagine myself doing the sex act, and even though I love this one woman in my life, I know that I can never be with her and that she puts me to shame in so many areas. She doesn't deserve someone like me.